Let's say on the date,the guy seems VERY interested and talks to me later that night after the date.
He hasn't called me or texted me since then.
That was Saturday night and it's now monday night without a call or text.I would be fine with texting him or calling him,except for I had the last word ..and I don't like to seem obsessed.
I was thinking about calling him Friday to see if he wants to hangout again ,if he doesn't talk to me before then.
Yes or no?
Look guys have a terrible way of communication and that is true but if a guy wants to get to a girl, he will no matter what happens.
What's been said in that movie is so true, like a guy can pretend to be interested but he isn't, and all your girlfriends keeps reassuring you and saying stuff like "he will call" and crap.. They are trying to be nice but they some how hurt you by getting your hopes high.
If he was seriously/ truly interested he will call you or should have called you already I guess.
If a guy doesn't call then why should you? If he didn't take 2 minutes of his time to call or text, then why should you? Usually people say "why don't you?" well I'll tell you why.. A guy hasn't called (Obviously not interested) or maybe he is busy -I will never know- but my point is if you call him and he rejects you or goes out with you for pity that's going to get the situation more complicated, and that would also hurt you.
I go with a NO, if he didn't call or text, then you shouldn't call or text either. But if he did, then you should go out with him.
I mean come on they are plenty hot guys out there, he isn't the last one or the better one. So screw him if he didn't call, it's okay don't let that play with your confidence.
staceyxlove answered Tuesday September 15 2009, 11:53 am: I'm sure he still likes you. He's probably waiting for you to text him. Like others have said, guys aren't good communicators. They aren't into the whole "who texts who" like us girls are. It doesn't matter who texts who, just get texting! If he doesn't reply, then just leave him to it. If he does, which is most likely... good stuff! <3 [ staceyxlove's advice column | Ask staceyxlove A Question ]
jobrolover3725 answered Tuesday September 15 2009, 1:10 am: a lot of guys just suck at communication. just text him on friday and see what he's up to. don't ask him to hang out though. see if he asks you. that's how you'll know if he wants to see you again :) good luck! [ jobrolover3725's advice column | Ask jobrolover3725 A Question ]
Sami143 answered Monday September 14 2009, 10:40 pm: If he doesnt text you by friday then i would text him but just be like "hey whats up" and see how that goes before you ask him to hang out again. Maybe even ask him why you guys havent talked all week. But if he doesnt text you dont give in and text him before friday, i know it can be hard but if he wants to talk to you he will text you!!!
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