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im cheating on my boyfriend how do i tell him?
im cheating on my bf. how do i tell him? im fifteen.
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Choosing to come clean and say the truth is always the right choice. While it might be scary,because feelings are going to be hurt, choosing the truth is always right. I think you should just invite him over, or go somewhere where you can both speak in person alont. Notice how I mention in person, the reason why is because things are better done in person and you will seem more mature if you stand up and speak face to face rather than over text or call.
Tell him that your feelings have changed and you don't want to hurt him. While you know that you are going to hurt him by admitting that you are cheating on him, tell him that you no longer can't keep this hidden for respect towards him and your old relationship. Even though you know that what you did was wrong, it's better to end things on good terms by telling him the truth rather than having him find out by another person eventually.
If you are lucky he wont get so hurt to never speak to you again. If he does, then it's better to let him, he has his rights. You chose to cheat on him, and if he decides to take that path you only have the option to accept it. But after a while if he realizes that you can be friends, then accept his friendship and learn from your mistakes.
Good luck,Hope everything works out.
-Sujayne
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"So... ever had any interest in a threesome?"
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Invite him over and tell him in person. Start out by saying that nobody is perfect & everyone make mistakes. Then just tell him you've been cheating on him.
You have to expect him to dump you though because not many guys are willing to stay in a relationship after having been cheated on. I honestly don't think you're ready to be dating though. If you cannot stay faithful to somebody, then you shouldn't date.
You also need to remember that while cheating may just be some way for you to get over a problem or to have fun, that it really does hurt other people and can actually scar them. Some people don't date for a really long time after because they can't trust anyone with their emotions. So you really need to be careful about what you decide to do when it comes to that.
Just tell him though. There is no other way to do it. However next time you're in a relationship & think you're going to cheat, end the relationship you're in first so that you can do what you want freely without hurting anyone.
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If you are cheating on him you most likely aren't ready to be in a relationship. Tell him you are sorry for cheating on him but that you are young and just want to get to know guys. Don't be selfish by keeping him in a relationship that is going to hurt him in the long run. If you care for him at least one bit, do the right thing and tell him so he can get on with his life and meet a girl that does want to have a serious relationship with him.
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Yes, I think you should tell him the truth. If you don't want to be with him than I think it's only fair that he knows so he isn't being held back from meeting other people. If you don't want to tell him you are cheating than don't but at least tell him you don't want to be with him and if he ask why and you are uncomfortable telling him than just keep it simple and say you dont' want a relationship at this time.
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if you still wanna be with him, tell him everything in a calm way. and ask him not to get mad before you tell him. talk as long as you need to. SPILL IT ALL OUT and apologize to him a million times and realize that you made a mistake and it wont happen again. If he gets too upset and breaks up with you, then he wasnt worth it.
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