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I am under the age of 18 but my parents have agreed to let me have it done. Im just not sure about it. Will i regret it? I know how to care for a piercing like this so it heals correctly, but id like to know the pros and cons. When im older and theres a possibility i wont want it anymore, can i remove it? I just dont want this to be something i'll regret. (link)
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Hi there,
The piercing WILL reject, and you will be left with a scar. Scar tissue isn't pretty, and it doesn't feel very nice either.
You should see the scars from having it reject 5 or 6 times. It looks more like a surgical scar than a piercing rejection at that point. :-(
Please think about this before you do it.
Give yourself a year, at least and see how you feel about this.
P.S. If you are thinking about other visible piercings, think twice if you are planning on getting a job. Why? Well, piercings are typically for people who have low self esteem and need to draw attention to themselves. People who are willing to damage their body to attention whore themselves aren't usually people who are the self assured, confident and proud people you want representing your company.
It is kind of an unspoken thing among employers. Before you go saying it isn't fair... well, we didn't just make it up. Long years of experience and dealing with pity-party meltdowns on the job have soured people on this whole idea. Every time I have hired someone who body mods, it has been a disaster. Talked to a friend, and she had the same experience... started asking around and turns out I was the only one who would even bother with the pierced set anymore... so I stopped.
I learn slow, but I do learn. ;-)
I told you all that, because you seem like a very smart young woman, who can process logical reasons for doing, or not doing something.
Good luck!
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How much do u get a hour (link)
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For doing what, exactly? More details please.
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i want my ex back, but he said he lost feelings for me after i broke up with him. the reason why i left was because i cheated on him with my 1st bf. i didnt realize how much i cared for him until after i cheated. but i want him back, i can't live everyday like i used to when i was with him, he made me happy like no one else can.
so how do i tell him i still have feelings for him? how do i make sure i dont get hurt even more?
it's been over 2 months since i left him.and if it helps.. i'm 14. (link)
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Hi there,
I am afraid there isn't much chance here, but let me ask you a question:
Nothing a woman can do will make a man dislike women for the rest of his life more than what you have done. Simple fact of the matter is that thanks to you, he will never trust another woman again... well, not for a long time anyway.
So the question is: If he is the only person that makes you happy, why did you break his heart? What was your actual reason for cheating?
Can I let you in on a little secret? People can accept and work around almost anything as long as they know the 100% honest reason you did something. Why is this important? Simple enough... if you don't explain yourself, then he doesn't know why you did it. If he doesn't know why, then he knows you don't have legit reasons for the things you do, and will do any stupid thing like this any old time you feel like it.
If you have a reason, and are honest, then he can decide what to do about it. He can decide what risk he is willing to take to be with you.
If you will not do this, then he would be stupid to get back with you, knowing that you will only do it again.
So... why DID you do this in the first place?
Oh, and so you know, before you talk with him: Guys aren't stupid. We know there is only one reason to stay in touch with someone you used to have sex with: You want to be with them again.
So if you are planning on keeping your ex in your life, then I ask you to think carefully about what you want out of life before you break someone else's heart with this cheating routine.
I hope it all works out for the best.
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i hung out with my boyfriend last night. he introduced me to some of his cousins and by the end of the night me, my best friend, boyfriend, and his cousin ended up going to the park. i didn't have any pockets so i asked my boyfriend to hold my phone. a few hours into the night i had asked him what time it was so he pulled out my phone and he was joking with his cousin saying how i have pictures i don't want him to see since my pictures are locked. well i said if i had something to hide, my messages would be locked so i told him to go to my messages just because i didn't want him to think i'm doing anything behind his back. well i kind of keep in touch with one of my ex boyfriends from three years ago and he randomly texted me the other day. well my boyfriend was only looking in the inbox so this is how he read it:
ex: hey :)
ex: that makes both of us now haha
ex: so did i haha. where are you??
ex: F*ck me right? haha. what you do today?
ex: your bf??
ex: yea
Now, this is the WHOLE conversation:
ex: hey :)
me: hey. you hella didn't answer my call the other day haha. what are you doing?
*the other day he had called me to tell me he had something important to tell me about my old friend but i was busy so i called him back but he didn't answer*
*he calls me; i reject it*
ex: that makes both of us now haha
me: thats no fair i have a reason haha
ex: so did i haha. where are you??
me: sure haha. in my little sister's room
ex: F*ck me right? haha. what you do today?
me: haha spent the night with my best friend and boyfriend. we were driving around, came home went swimming. what about you?
ex: your bf??
me: boyfriend? haha. are you still talking to that one girl?
ex: yea
and that was it. i tried to get my boyfriend to read the sent messages but he just gave me my phone back and his cousin was telling me how i messed up. which i don't understand. i got really irritated to i asked my best friend if we could leave. we walked outside, i called my boyfriend to ask if he needed a ride home, he said he was going to spend the night down his cousins house, i said okay and he hung up. I'm so lost. i don't know what to do. any advice/opinions? should i give him space? i have all the messages still saved but he said he doesn't want to see them. (link)
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Edit:
I asked someone else to read your issue, so I would have a female perspective on it and she pointed this out to me:
"me: boyfriend? haha..."
... was probably taken as you denying you had a boyfriend at all. As in: 'Boyfriend? What boyfriend? Haha...'
Now that she says it, it is as plain as day.
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Original response:
Did he know you were in friendly contact with your ex? If not, I am pretty sure you just ended your relationship.
You are very lucky he opted not to read the rest of the conversation. You ex is very obviously trying to get back with you from the conversation.
If I read just four lines of that:
me: haha spent the night with my best friend and boyfriend. we were driving around, came home went swimming. what about you?
ex: your bf??
me: boyfriend? haha. are you still talking to that one girl?
ex: yea
... I would never even consider taking you back.
You are talking to your ex, it is WAY friendly... AND worst of all, you haven't bothered to tell him you have a boyfriend until now? Huge mistake.
As far as your ex trying to get with you... please not that as soon as you said boyfriend and asked about who he was dating, the conversation ended RIGHT there.
Your boyfriend didn't even need to read it all to know there was trouble. :-(
Sadly, there is only one thing to do: Get him to read the rest of it, then ask him if he can forgive you for neglecting to tell your ex you were dating someone new.
Try and remember: He isn't stupid. He knows that no guy who is an ex talks to ANY girl he doesn't want to sleep with again. Period.
If you are in a relationship, and it ends... it is painful. Why would you subject yourself to more pain, watching her going out with someone else, unless you think you can get back with her again? You wouldn't.
So here is how it goes: If you are keeping this guy in your friends list so you can get back with him someday (why else would he be there, right?) then you need to make a decision:
Be with your boyfriend, if he will take you back.
Be with your ex.
Your choice.
Friendly note: If you have any more ex boyfriends hanging around waiting to get back with you... make SURE you actually told them you have a boyfriend.
I hope, now that you can see it from his perspective, that you getting irritated with HIM when YOU committed a totally relationship ending act... would not make him want to be with you anymore.
If you still don't see that you have a huge pile of things to apologize for here, then he really would be better off without you.
If you break his heart like this, and you can't even see it, then how many other times are you going to hurt him... then get mad at HIM for something YOU did... AND leave with someone else?
Does that put it in perspective for you?
If not, then leave him be. He will be much better off without you.
If you can finally see what you have done, then make it up to him. Take responsibility for your actions... all of them, and apologize.
Tell him you were stupid not to see from that conversation that your ex is only talking to you to get back with you.
If you do all this, he may give you another chance.
I have already danced this dance, so to speak, and I can tell you that for me, this would be the end of the relationship. No chance I would ever trust you again. Not ever.
Talking to an ex, and the ex not knowing you are dating me? Only one reason for that, and we all know what that is.
I hope you didn't know what you were doing, and that you are mature enough to apologize for all the things you have done here. I hope it works out for both of you.
Please write and let me know how this works out.
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theres a guy that asked me out and ive been crushing on him for 2 years. so he asked me out and i said no. now i regret it. how can i fix it?
im female and im 12 years old (link)
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The answer really does depend on why you said no in the first place.
You have to understand that it took a lot of courage to ask you out, and you rejected him. If he liked you a lot, then it probably hurt him really bad, and he has been wondering why you don't think he is good enough for you.
What would you be thinking if this happened to you? That is right... not happy feelings.
So, can you fix it? Sure!
Talk with him and tell him why you broke his heart. If you have a good reason, then things will probably be ok. Maybe you were scared? Maybe you were just stupid? Whatever the reason, just be honest with him and it will be ok.
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sorry wrong person lol!
im really sorry!
melissa! (link)
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Yeah, I figured. :-)
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your really prettttty!(:
do you know a good mascara thats black and thick so you can see my eyelashes. cause when i put on makeup, all you can see is my eyeliner and i dont like that. but nothing to bold if you know what i mean lol(:
melissa. (link)
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I am guessing this wasn't meant for me. ;-)
The person you worte has their inbox turned off.
I suggest you ask this as a public question, and/or check their column to see if they have an e-mail or IM contact listed.
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This guy I love is 24 and in special needs. He is at my level of thinking and is an amazing guy, funny sweet caring and everything I want in a guy. But like I said he's 24 and no one thinks I should have anything to do with him. But if he thinks like an 8th grader its ok right? What do I do?????! Idk if he even loves me, but he's given me gifts so.........???????!!!! (link)
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Hi there,
I am afraid there is a simple answer here: You are going to grow up, and your mentally challenged friend is going to stay where he is.
Eventually you will not want anything to do with him. Picture it: Someday you will be 50 and having sex with a 12 year old. :-(
On top of that problem, if you have a physical relationship with him, he will be arrested and placed into an institution for a very long time... possibly forever.
Short answer: If you really love him, then you will have to wait until you are 18 and see how you feel about all this.
Please make a smart choice.
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What could be the Average cost for studying M.S degree in computer science in USA for a foreign Candidate (link)
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Hello there,
There are too many variable to give you a solid answer here. Each school has a VERY different cost.
Do you already have your B.S. degree completed? If not, there is that to get out of the way.
I am advising you to contact a school you would like to attend and ask their admissions/finance department this question.
Please consider talking to a few schools directly.
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In your answer to "I'm a stammering boy, please help me", you offered to help him find a therapist. I have a resource for him to get in contact with. It is The National Stutters Foundation. I am giving him the links to the areas he should view.
I am wondering if there is not away for you to put an area on here. Where we the advisers can list these organizations that we know of such as this one as well as RAINN, Boys Town and others for the other advisers to reference and use. I think we all have resources that we use and if we can share them with one another, we can be more helpful to those that need this type of help.
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The resource listing is a good idea. In this case you gave the man from India a link to a list of US states to find help. ;-)
Please read this:
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=595933
... then edit your answer to point to the links for India. Sadly, none of the links on the American site are anywhere near where he lives in India. This is why I tried to get a list that dealt with his home city.
Also, when you are editing the link, please correct the format of the URL so that it no longer appears as a broken link.
For now, you can do what others have done, which is use their column bio and their forum for their resource referrals.
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I turn on ac in car but get no air movement from vents (blown fuse ),bad fan motor ? thanx for any help Sonny (link)
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Hi there,
Both of these are possible, and both are easy to check. First, set the controls to heat. If you turn the fan on and it works, then it is not the blower motor. Replace the fuse for the AC, and check the AC relay (in the box under the hood) and see what happens.
Other things that you should look into if that doesn't solve your issue:
Bad AC switch in the dash.
Intermittent wiring somewhere between the AC switch and the AC control electronics, if any.
In a 2003 there may be a dedicated climate control computer. If so, the problems can get more complicated to diagnose. Just remember: Simple things first, and when things start to get scary... get some help with it.
Good luck, and I hope it is a cheap fix.
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I'm from
Country: INDIA
STATE: Karnataka
City: Bangalore
Please help me find a good speech therapy (link)
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Hello again!
You are very lucky! Bangalore has very many speech therapists! Here is a partial list:
http://bangalore.justdial.com/speech-therapists_Bangalore.html
... You may call or visit as many as you like until you find one you like best.
When you call or go, please don't have shame about your stammering. They have many people just like you that they help, and they will only think good things about you because you are trying to get help. :-)
If you need anything else, please ask.
Good luck! (Also, if you can, please let me know how you do. Someday we will talk on skype maybe and you will not stammer any more. :-)
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Two days back,My husband and my friend had sex with me together in the same night. But now I'm worried because In case I get pregnant, Will there be a problem with my baby because they were two peoples indulged in sex with me. (link)
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Are you all ok with raising your friend's child? You could be pregnant by your friend. You could also have twins, one by each man. It happens.
Swingers have very high rates of STDs. I would get tested, and get your husband and friend tested also.
If you made a baby by some other man, please don't ever tell that child that they don't really belong. You will destroy them for life.
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I’m a 19 year old boy; I started stammering from the age of 5, Everyday my stammering get worst each day. My classmates tease me and I’m very sad. And because of my stammer I never had any good friends and I always sit alone in my house. Sometimes I just feel to suicide because of my miserable life. Is there any cure for my stammer?
Somebody told me that hypnosis therapy would cure my stammer. (link)
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Hi there,
I am sorry you have been teased by people. :-(
There is good news: A speech therapist can help you stop stuttering / stammering.
I would talk to a speech therapist before I talked to a hypnotist.
Please don't kill yourself over this. When you see a speech therapist, you will improve and then you will only wonder why you didn't get help sooner.
Good luck to you!
P.S. If you need help finding a speech therapist, please ask another question and tell me the city, state/province and country you are from and I will try to help you find one.
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we were doing this class concert thing and decided to sing for the fun of it, i told people before that i can't really sing but after my friends were like wow you're great and some other girls in my class said so too so i decided to record my voice on my phone and when i played it back i sounded so gross like a little 5 year old my voice was all high and stuff. My teachers from my old school said i was a good singer too but i think maybe they were just being nice to me even though i told them i don't really care if they say i sing bad, i was wondering if it was the recordeed or i just can't sing and people are being nice? (link)
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Hi there,
Please read all the answers here:
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=593294
... and you will feel MUCH better about things.
Everyone hates their own voice when played back. Everyone.
Full explanation about what to do about it, please read the answers on the question I linked you to. You will be surprised how easy it is to get comfortable with your voice once you know the real deal. :-)
Happy singing!
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Sorry this is a weird question but I've heard stories about guys doing a girl so much at once that the spermies make her belly swell up. Could this happen? (link)
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Someone has been watching far too much hentai.
No, this is not possible.
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how do you find your question you posted? (link)
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Do you have an account? If not, that is the usual way to keep track of questions. You just look in your account. If you have made and account, then I can assign your previous questions to your account to make it easier for you to keep track of them.
Let me know.
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Idk if I sent 2 of these but I'm the one who asked you about the modeling stuff. So tell me what happens with everything on this, please cause I don't have an account but I'm 13 and only 5'2 and 120 pounds so I don't think I'm tall enough for that but maybe. Thanks though! :) (link)
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Sorry, the person you wanted to write doesn't allow anymous inbox questions. I am afraid you will have to get an account if you want to contact them.
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Did you realize that when you were giving advice about cramps you ass well instead of as well (link)
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What could this possibly mean?
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a guy wiped his penis in his girlfriend's anis but he did not penatraite, almost the next night he felt straing unusual feelings around the pea hole of his penis, it would come and go for about 2 or 2 in a half weeks then one day it just stopped, any idea why? (link)
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Some STDs do exactly this. They have a period immediately after infection that is an outbreak, or rash, and then they may or may not break out again.
If this is the case, then you would have been a carrier all this time, and infected every person you have been with in the last six years.
Time for you to get tested for everything. One STD starts to literally rot your brain, with no outward symptoms after the first rash or discomfort.
Easily cured, but you have to know about it.
Please get tested today. If you are positive for anything, you should contact anyone else you have been with and tell them what you had, so they can in turn notify everyone they have been with in 6 years, etc...
Hope it is nothing.
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