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Can Group sex cause problem with the baby?
Two days back,My husband and my friend had sex with me together in the same night. But now I'm worried because In case I get pregnant, Will there be a problem with my baby because they were two peoples indulged in sex with me.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Pregnancy?
The deed was done and a DNA test will be the referee. That's what happens when you don't use birth control.
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You have gotten a range of advice from the other advisers. Fact is you, by what you have written are not pregnant yet.
First problem: If you do become pregnant as a result of this night of multiple partners can you ever be sure who the baby's father is. The sperm that fertilizes the egg has nothing to do with who was first or who deposited the most sperm. It has all to do with who had the strongest swimmer.
Second Problem: Maybe this should be the first problem as it could eventually harm the baby if you do become pregnant from this night or in the future. This is the problems of STDs; how well do youor will you know the other men? Did you all get checked for STDs before your swinging night? Did you take all available precautions against the STDs that you can take precautions against? Any STD you contracted can be a problem for the child during gestation and delivery. You and your two partners need to be tested.
Third problem: If the child is not your husbands have you and he made any plans for this possibility? What about the rights of the biological father? What about the child's rights to know about his/her heritage; especially the biological fathers family medical history?
All of these problems that I and the others are pointing out may be throwing a bucket of cold water on your night of fun. I and possibly the others are not condemn your actions. What we are saying is that from your question it appears you did not take or insist that proper safe guards against pregnancy were used.
If you and your husband want to have a swinging sexual life style who are we to say if it is right or wrong. What I will say is that when swinging you should insist that you and your partners take precautions against you becoming pregnant, that you and your partners are tested for STDs before you all climb into bed together.
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actually yes having sex with multiple partners puts you at an even highr risk for sexually transmitted diseases and this can hard not only you but your baby as well
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Are you all ok with raising your friend's child? You could be pregnant by your friend. You could also have twins, one by each man. It happens.
Swingers have very high rates of STDs. I would get tested, and get your husband and friend tested also.
If you made a baby by some other man, please don't ever tell that child that they don't really belong. You will destroy them for life.
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Your husband was ok with you having sex with someone else? Well im only 17, but i don't think having sex with more than one person would harm the baby. People have sex while their pregnant all the time and it is safe, so 2 guys should't make it unsafe...
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