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getting asked out
theres a guy that asked me out and ive been crushing on him for 2 years. so he asked me out and i said no. now i regret it. how can i fix it?
im female and im 12 years old
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I have done the same exact thing! The best way to fix it is just talk to him and explain that you don't know why you said no and you kinda regret it. I'm sure he will understand. It's kinda hard when they put you on the spot like that and you probably just blurted out the first answer that came to mind. That's what I did. Hope I helped! (:
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The answer really does depend on why you said no in the first place.
You have to understand that it took a lot of courage to ask you out, and you rejected him. If he liked you a lot, then it probably hurt him really bad, and he has been wondering why you don't think he is good enough for you.
What would you be thinking if this happened to you? That is right... not happy feelings.
So, can you fix it? Sure!
Talk with him and tell him why you broke his heart. If you have a good reason, then things will probably be ok. Maybe you were scared? Maybe you were just stupid? Whatever the reason, just be honest with him and it will be ok.
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Stop for a moment and think about why you said no? What are your reasons that made you say that is it things you have heard about himm,. was it ur intuition?
If it's bothering you alot,. you should try talking to him about how you were scared to be with him because you like him so much and that maybe you two could try dating?
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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well depending on how long ago it was, you can say something like: iv'e been thinking about your questions lately and if it's not to late i wanna be with you."
or you can say:
ive liked you for a really long time and got freaked out when you asked me and i would like you to give me another chance." or something like that
hope i helped, and i hope everything works out.
if you have any more questions, feel free to ask(:
melissa f/16
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