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married men


Question Posted Monday July 4 2011, 9:37 pm

what are you supposed to do when a married man wants you

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KillaCaliBaby answered Wednesday July 13 2011, 3:25 am:
If he's married and he wants you ? Then honey he's not good, because he would be a cheater and if he cheats on his wife, he'll cheat on you.

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VoiceofReason answered Saturday July 9 2011, 1:10 am:
Walk away.

As a woman who is in competition with other women all the time, you secretly like the thought of taking another woman's man. You also like the danger and daring involved. However, you are opening yourself up to a lot of drama and maybe, depending on the state, an alienation of affection lawsuit (this tort is almost never undertaken anymore and most states have repealed the enabling legislation, but there are still a few states where such suits are still viable). And you as "the hussy" in front of a jury, which will most likely be made up of retirees and housewives? Hope you have a big bank account because you will get the shaft.

The thing to remember is that he will not be fully available to you as long as he is trying to hide a relationship with you from his wife. Plus he could also be screwing around on not just the wife, but on you, too, since the wife being in the picture gives him a ready excuse for not being around as much as you would like.

So it's up to you. A lot of single guys wear what look like wedding bands at singles bars because they draw women like you. Either way you're a dupe.

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christina answered Thursday July 7 2011, 3:43 pm:
Think about how his wife would feel if she found out, or you could just ignore him because he's married and clearly an asshole.

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matthewhallman12 answered Wednesday July 6 2011, 8:58 pm:
Tell that man that he needs to be faithful to his wife. If hes getting tired of her tell him if he divorces her and tells her the truth then u just might reconsider but him cheating is a bitch move don't give in.

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adviceman49 answered Tuesday July 5 2011, 11:36 am:
Tell him to get lost. You can never trust a married man; after all he is cheating or trying to cheat on his wife and family with you, isn't he? Can you really trust someone like that?


As the saying goes: "There are more fish in the sea." Find someone who is honest and will love, honor and respect you. Sounds a little old fashion but this is what you really should be looking for in a life partner. Not a playboy who doesn't know which bed to sleep in.

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YoungMommy answered Tuesday July 5 2011, 2:36 am:
Well he is married and already taken... if he is trying to get with you tell him its not right and remind him that he will tear his family apart and out of respect for his wife dont see him anymore if he continues to do this... if the man doesnt want to be in his relationship he should leave not cheat oh and remember if he is cheating on his wife with you someday he will cheat on you with someone else once a cheater always a cheater good luck best wishes

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Xui answered Monday July 4 2011, 10:40 pm:
Run


If a married man is coming on too you then tell him straight up "You are married and I am not interested in having an affair" That simple.

Think about his wife and his children, Basically this man is willing to sacrifice it all.

Definitely not a good idea, Let the guy know that you aren't interested and keep declining his offers.

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Jasmine23 answered Monday July 4 2011, 10:17 pm:
Decline it,. Think about his family and children if he has them,. take a moment to think about if you were in the wife's shoes. Now just say he leaves her for you.. How can you be sure he won't do that to you? It's just a very bad situation to get yourself into.

Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*

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