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So i just transferred high schools and i am a girl who is a Sophomore this year and i went to my very first football game!I don't really get in much relationships because i usally worry more about my school. I was at my very first football game and my friend knew some older people that go to our school. one of her friends (which is a guy) knew the guy that i currently like. Me and him did playful eye contact in the halls then we started to talk over facebook for 4 weeks straight every day after school.He finally asked me for my number and we would text all the time and he would say goodmorning and goodnight he would always tell me how i was a good person and i was so beautiful all the time.We started to grow closer and closer i hung out with him and we kissed but after he sent a text "i want you" i took it the worng way of course and i didnt quiet like what he said because i do not want to have a sexual realtionship wtih him.The nest day at school he didnt talk to me much and ditched me to hang out with other girls which i mean its not that big of a deal but i felt like i was trying to be proved somthing. The he started to hug the girls and i started to hug and talk to more of my guy friends as did he. Then the text started to go away and we wouldent talk anymore he even wrote me a song. then we got in a disagreement about how i wasent sure if he liked me and i was so confussed because he sent me mixed signals. He told me that he liked me and that we should hang out more and that he missed me but then two days later he got a girlfriend but he still gives me the eye contact and when i look up he looks away and he just dosent look as happy as he usally does. He cant look me in the eye and he changed the wways he goes in the halls so he dosent have to see me. i dont understand what i did wrong and i don't know if he likes me still he acts like he likes me and i think he just expected me to be sad over it but i just dont know... (link)
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I'm just going to straight up say that you should move on.
Did you ever talk about the "I want you" text? I mean normally I would've taken it as a sexual advance as well. Especially under the circumstances.
He doesn't sound like someone you'd want to get involved in. You said he ditched you to hang out with other girls. Then he tells you he misses you and that he likes you, but then gets a girlfriend.
It's just a bunch of games and he is not serious about you.
If he was serious about you, he would be dating you, not her.
If he's just trying to make you jealous, you should not be with him. It is wrong to date somebody else and play with their feelings just to get back at somebody. That's childish and immature.
It is wrong to ditch someone to go hang out with other girls.
You guys are just playing games and it's not gonna go anywhere.
You didn't do anything wrong. You didn't know any better about this guy. He's the one who is jumping from girl to girl. Obviously you're not the only girl he's talking to so it's just best to move on.
If you get involved with him, it will just cause more heartache.
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I've been talking to a guy I like a lot from another state. He's in Florida and I'm in Connecticut. We've been talking for 2 months now and a couple days ago he stops replying/won't answer any of the new texts I send. He only has an instagram, I have him added on there. He's liked and uploaded pictures since the 2 days have passed. Our ages are 19 and 26. I know that seems a little old for me but we have a lot in common and he's amazing! He does like me too and i know he isn't catfishing me. Don't worry. And we aren't together. Am I being too clingy or what?
I feel like I'm being a little clingy. I just thought he was different and perfect for me. We totally click when we're talking and it's amazing. He never said anything bad about me like i am too clingy/anything like that. And That night we weren't fighting at all. Any advice?
I am a female and the 19 year old to be clear. (link)
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The most logical reasons as to why he's not responding to you is either because he's really busy or isn't interested in you anymore.
Since you said he still has been uploading instagram pictures, then he's probably not THAT busy.
So my guess is that he's just not interested.
It doesn't mean that it was your fault. It doesn't mean that you are clingy either.
Have you guys met in person? If not, then he probably just sees you as some girl he talks to that he met over the internet and not something that is serious.
So my advice to you is to find someone else and not worry too much about this guy because he doesn't seem to feel the same way you do.
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There's this girl who is my "friend" but sometimes she is such a bully and makes me cry. Then, she'll go right back to being "nice". I try to avoid her but I can't. Is this bullying? What can I do? I've tried confronting her but it hasn't worked. Anyone have an idea? All advice welcome. :) (link)
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I can't say for sure if she is bullying you or not because you didn't give any examples besides saying that she is a bully and makes you cry.
She definitely could be. If she is making you cry by actually hurting you physically, she's definitely a bully and you need to tell an adult.
If she's making you cry by making fun of you and trying to make you feel bad, then yes she is a bully.
If she says hurtful things, but isn't actually trying to hurt your feelings then you should probably have another talk with her.
You don't need to "confront" her. You just need to sit her down and tell her that this, this and this is hurting you and you'd like it to stop. If it doesn't stop, then you should probably not hang out with her anymore.
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I am dating a guy at the moment. We are together for nine months , but I don't feel the way I felt for him in the begining.I just don't love him anymore.He loves me a lot.If I break up with him now , a blame is clearly on me.My best friend is always really serious about relationships and she want me and my boyfriend to be together.I didn't tell her anything yet.I am in a break with my boyfriend.I have no idea about what i should do now.What do i tell him?What do I tell my best friend?Please Help! (link)
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Well first of all, there is no blame on you. There should be no blame on either one of you. It's not your fault that you're not feeling the chemistry.
It's fine that your friend is serious about relationships. But it doesn't seem like she understands relationships if she's going to get angry if a couple she likes breaks up. You guys have been together long enough to know each other pretty well, to figure out if the chemistry is still there even after the first couple months of dating, to know if you guys are a good match or not.
So what you should tell your friend is that the chemistry just isn't there for you anymore. You've just realized you guys aren't a good match. Your personalities don't click and you're just not feeling it anymore. Tell her that it would be wrong of you to stay in a relationship where you're just not interested. It wouldn't be fair to him.
As for what you tell him. You talk to him face to face. Tell him the truth. Tell him that you don't feel the same anymore. No matter how you put it, it will hurt him so just be honest. You don't have to be mean or unkind. Just be gentle and truthful. Tell him that he's still an awesome guy but you realized you two are not a good match together.
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I've struggled with my faith since I was in high school. It started when I didn't think I was leading the life "God" wanted me to, so I started going to church more. I read my bible every day, prayed constantly, changed how I treated others, and even tried to clean up my thoughts. However, the more I read my bible, the less I believed that there was a god. Then I started researching. Long story short, I don't believe there is a god and I've been an atheist for about 2 years.
I'm not ashamed of that in any way. In fact, my life has improved greatly because I don't feel restricted by religion. I don't mean that I sleep around and do awful things without fear of consequence, I just mean that I do things for their moral value, not in hopes that I'll be rewarded after I die.
My problem though, is that my family is SUPER deep in their Christian faith. My grandparents raised me in the church of christ. While I'm okay with their beliefs, they strongly influence our family. I get dirty looks if my tattoos are showing, no curse words are allowed, etc- while those are all things I can deal with, it's things like their homophobia I can't comprehend. It's honestly stressing me out with the holidays coming up. They don't know I'm an atheist, and half the conversations they have involve topics we would STRONGLY disagree on. I can't even enjoy time with them because their views differ so greatly from mine.
My uncle in also very confrontational and I'm just afraid that if I speak up, there will be a huge ordeal and I don't want my family upset with me.. especially for something I don't think ANYONE should have a problem with! Also, I don't want to be afraid to voice my opinion. My question is, if there is a confrontation, how do I calmly deal with it? I know I'll want to scream and feel the need to defend myself which will end up making me look dumb. What do I do?? (link)
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If you do end up in a confrontational situation. Take a deep breath, and don't get involved in something like that.
I'm Christian, and I had a very close friend who was Atheist and he would start those kinds of confrontations with me. It was very frustrating and I just wanted to scream.
Really, it's the same both ways with people who strongly believe what they believe and want to express it to the world.
So don't get involved in it. If your uncle decides to target you, just tell them that you respect their beliefs and you'd rather not get into an argument about it.
Don't get involved in topics that you strongly disagree on. Not that it would be wrong to stand up for what you believe in but in this case, it will just cause unnecessary drama within your family.
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My boyfriend conner and Me are both 16. He was my first kiss only recently, We have been dating for about a month (ONLY!). He is sooo sweet to me and wants to make sure he doesn't upset me... But I know that he is not a virgin (and he drinks) and that he has been VERY sexually active (one night stands, etc) I am a virgin, never been touched by anyone or anything. Im christian, and previously was/am planning on saving myself for marriage, or at least until I'm older. I am (was?) as innocent as i could be, honestly. My parents are very very strict, an are putting a ton of pressure on me from the opposite end. Recently he has pushed me toward getting more physical. At one point I told him that we were moving too quickly, and he backed off for a while, but then continued to push farther. I really like him, I don't want to ruin our relationship... He is very involved/ dedicated in the relationship and has made it clear he is looking for a long lasting relationship. We have discussed some of the points above...
I feel like we are sooo so so early in our relationship. He understands that I was to move slowly, but I don't think he realized how slowly I want to go! I'm not prepared emotionally to give myself away, especially to someone who I wouldn't yet say that I love.
The main problem is that I'm horrible at saying no. What my body and heart tells me is contrasting directly with what my brain says. We have gone farther than I care to go, mostly because Conner is pushy after I tell him no... And I don't know if it's to late to backtrack? Im sure he expects sex eventually, but I don't know if I will be ready for that huge step ANY time soon, probably not. I'm not good at communicating my feelings out loud, and it's making me anxious.
Just in case you want to know, we have gone as far as: making out, him touching me over (minimal) clothing, and basically dry humping... (Yikes)
I'm acting on impulse when I'm with him like this, and I feel a little different about this situation when we are apart. I do like him a lot, I feel like I want to have sex much later (even when we are apart), but I think the guilt of my parents and religion would ruin it for me? What if it doesn't work out?
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Lots of girls have gone through your situation, unfortunately.
I had an unfortunate incident when I was 16. My boyfriend at the time was very sweet to me. He had at least 10 girlfriends before me though. Which I think is a ridiculous amount to have by the age of 17..or even in general.
Anyways, at the time, I was saving myself till marriage and didn't want to become sexual at all. He respected that for the most part, but in the moment, he would be pushy. Eventually I gave in, I didn't go all the way, but I went farther than I had wanted to. Then he wanted more and more and I got myself into a bad situation where I ended up raped.
So, I'm not saying that will happen to you. But you should not be in a relationship when you don't know how to say no.
You wouldn't have really expected it, the guy I was with was genuinely a nice guy and wanted a future with me and was dedicated to the relationship but in the end he was just too pushy and did not respect me at all.
Your boyfriend doesn't truly respect you. You tell him you're not ready, he backs off, but then does it again. He's pretty much going with "I'll make her change her mind." You don't owe him sex no matter how far you've already gone with him.
So in my opinion, your not ready for this kind of relationship, or maybe even a relationship at all.
My reasons for this are..
-You're having problems communicating your feelings out loud. Which will end up giving him mixed signals on how far he can go.
-You stated you're horrible at saying no. Which can end things badly for you and can lead you to doing things you don't want to do.
-You've already gone farther than you intended to go, because your boyfriend is pushy and doesn't respect your feelings.
-You do things on impulse in the heat of the moment. Don't get yourself into those situations.
Communication is very important in a relationship. If you can't communicate and talk about important things, it just won't last anyways. So if you still think you want to be with him, sit him down, tell him that you don't want to have sex. You don't want to become sexual. You're just not ready. If you change your mind, you will let him know.
If he understands, then that's fine. If in the future he starts doing it again, don't stay with him.
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My sister says I have irrational fears. (4 phobias, and 13 fears) I would like to go to the school counsellor about them but I (unfortunately) am too scared. Like, I don't want to waste her time or interrupt her. What do counsellors talk to you about? What do they do to help you? Does anyone have answers to these questions? All advice appreciated. :) (link)
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I went to my school counselor a few times. Then during my senior year in high school I worked in there.
You won't be wasting her time. They work there for the specific reason to help students. They really do care.
You can just go in and say you're having some problems and need someone to talk to about them. She'll be happy to help you and have you sit down and you can tell her what's going on.
She'll most likely give you suggestions on how to deal with the phobias and fears. It really depends on the fears and phobias. If they are interrupting every day activities and making it hard to live your life normally, then she'll help you find someone who specializes in that area.
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What do you do if the boy you've talked to for more than a year suddenly stops talking to you and ignores you completely like your not even there, when at one time he made it seem like you were everything to him? (link)
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What you do is move on. It sucks when guys lose interest in you. You'll find someone else who is more deserving of your time.
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i meet this guy in August he's 31 im 23..i've grown a lot of feelings for him..he says he has feelings for me too and can see us together in the future but just wants to take things day by day and isn't ready to commit right now...but he's constantly saying he.thinks im beautiful and too good for him.he always concerned about me talking to my ex...we had sex for the first time Saturday and he said he didn't have condom and i told him i didn't have birth control. he said he'd be careful. ...he came inside of me and didn't even try to pull out..and said hopefully i didn't get u pregnant. .then he says im not ready for kids but if i was to have a baby i would want it buy you..then he starts talking being a family and so on...does he love me, or is this an accident or is he trying to trap me bc he doesn't want t comit but doesn't want me with anotherguy.. (link)
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No, he doesn't love you.
He's extremely disrespectful and seems to be a bit controlling. You don't even want to be with a guy who says one thing then does another.
He doesn't want to commit to a beautiful girl who is "too good for him" and talking about being a family. That's ridiculous.
He won't commit to you, but doesn't want you with someone else. That is controlling.
He didn't even try to be careful while having sex with you. Hopefully you at least took the morning after pill.
He's not worth it.
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I've only made out with guys and by now I feel like sooner or later I'm gonna go further more likely sooner. And I'm just wondering is it weird if you get fingered by a guy and you cum on his finger or you discharge on him?? I know that I get off easily if I'm hooking up with a guy I get horny so that's why I'm saying i know it's gonna happen. But I'm just paranoid if I get fingered like the last thing I want is for him to pull his finger out and be disgusted. I take very good care of myself and hygiene but I think that would be gross or that they would be grossed out. Also if your getting fingered like as the girl what do you do?? Just keep making out with them or what haha? Thanks (link)
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It's not weird, it's normal.
Most guys want to see that happen or they won't feel like they did their job right. If they're disgusted, that means they're too immature to handle the female body and you should not keep hooking up with someone like that.
Just make sure that you're on birth control. Obviously, you can't get pregnant by hooking up like this but if somehow it progresses, you want to be prepared.
As for what to do when it's happening. Just enjoy it, go with the flow, do whatever you feel like doing. They're not anything specific you're supposed to do.
Anyways, I just want to stress how important it is to get on birth control. If you are sexually active at all, you should be on birth control. You don't want any accidents. We've seen it all plenty of times and I'm sure you've met some people who have made that mistake.
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I am a 20 year old girl. I have seen this guy 4 times. Two of them we were hanging out, once in a group, the other we went for coffee. We've only known one another for a short time, but I am quite sure I want to be his friend. But the trouble is, I seem to have quite a crush on him. I'm not sure what to do. He is popular and I am not. I don't want to be obvious about liking him. But I'm afraid to make a fool of myself around him. (link)
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How should you act around this guy? You need to act like yourself. I mean if you start acting how you normally won't act, you're just simply putting on an act and he'll be falling for someone that isn't even really you.
Other than that, be friendly, be sweet, be kind, and be a little flirty with him. Like compliment him every once in awhile. Be genuine.
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it makes me mad to think of those things i mean ive been asked several times if i was married or dating which im neither and im not exactly ready for marraige and i do not know if im going to date or not but i dont like those kind of questions thatb idiotic people have asked im just not obsessed with dating or marraige so how can you make people stop asking you those questions (link)
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You can't stop people from asking these types of questions.
It's simply just small talk. It doesn't make them idiotic people at all.
If it's the same people asking you these questions, just simply tell them that you're not interesting in dating at the moment. They'll stop. If it's people who don't know, they're gonna make small talk with you.
I have the same problem except with a different subject. People will always ask me if I'm going to college. I'm 19 and still struggling with finding out what I want to do and still looking for a job so that I can afford college. It does make me feel bad, but it's small talk and you're just going to have to deal with it.
They'll ask me if I have a job, they'll ask me if I'm dating anyone. It's just talk.
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i submitted this question but forgot to log in so i cant add information to it. therefore i post it again below with the extra info.
my partner has gone to his family in another country for several months. at first we texted occasionally and called around once a week. for the last 4 weeks i have heard nothing. last time we spoke all was fine. i thought i would give him some space for a couple of weeks so as not to pressure him as he is around family. then i called and texted and called again. phone was off and no reply. what should i do. i want him to come back but dont want to pressure him.
we have been together for 4 and a half years.
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This is really a tough situation. Like I said before on your original question, I don't think much can be done.
He isn't totally committed to your relationship if he hasn't tried to contact you in four weeks. You shouldn't have to pressure him to come back, he should WANT to come back. If he chooses not to come back, it's because he doesn't value you. You don't deserve someone like that.
It's not right for people to shut people out when they are stressed or upset. It causes worry to their partner and sends a bunch of mixed signals. Communication is very, very important in a relationship.
The next time you do get a hold of him, he better have a good excuse as to why he didn't contact you. Because excuses like, "I was stressed/upset, I was busy, ect" are not good enough excuses.
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For some reason lately I've been super controlling with my boyfriend and get mad when he doesn't do what I suggest him to. We have a LDR for right now until I'm finished with college. He likes to hang out with his friends that live an hour away, he'll stay there all weekend and I'll barely hear from him. I explained to him how much I hate when he goes with his friends and doesn't talk to me because it makes me feel neglected and he has apologized and says next time he'll try harder to talk to me. Well the next time happened and he didn't. So this weekend he told me he was going and I expressed how much I wish he wouldn't because he has fallen asleep on me 3 times this week and I haven't been able to talk to him however he still went and of course I got mad. I don't know why but when he knows I don't want him to do something and he does it anyway it turns me into this evil person where I will say whatever I can to make him just as mad as I am... why is that? I don't like being that way and I try to stop myself but I'm just too mad to even calm myself down.. is there something wrong with me? I know my boyfriend doesn't deserve it because he is honestly such a great guy and always apologizes for anything that he does that upsets me every single time but somehow I still get so angry when he doesn't listen to me (link)
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It's ten times harder when you're in a LDR. Communication becomes something that is seriously really important. He might not grasp that.
Anyways, you both are handling the situation wrong. Obviously, you know what your problem is, getting so angry you're desperate to say anything to get him to listen to you.
I'm sure he's a good guy, so when you talk to him, you guys need to figure out what's best for you. Obviously it wouldn't be right to keep him from staying at his friends for the weekend just to talk to you. So I think you guys need to arrange a time to talk during the weekend. Not like text all day but a text every once in awhile and a call in the afternoon possibly for 15-20 min. If he can at least do that, then things should be fine.
If he can't, then the relationship probably needs some time off. He can't give you what you need and that just won't work and will cause more heartache.
As for controlling your anger. Do not keep talking once you get mad. I've been there plenty of times. Tell him you'll call him back or talk to him in 10 minutes. Give yourself space, go do something that will make you feel better. Don't talk to him until you have a clear head and can talk to him normally.
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my partner has gone to his family in another country for several months. at first we texted occasionally and called around once a week. for the last 4 weeks i have heard nothing. last time we spoke all was fine. i thought i would give him some space for a couple of weeks so as not to pressure him as he is around family. then i called and texted and called again. phone was off and no reply. what should i do. i want him to come back but dont want to pressure him. (link)
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4 weeks is a very long time to not talk to someone when you're in a relationship with them.
It seems like either something happened to his phone and possibly has like no other way to contact you..which might be unlikely..but possible or he just lost interest.
So you can try contacting him but that's about all you can do.
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So i asked a really close friend of mine out...lets call her V. V rejected me and it was kinda awkward for a week, about 2 weeks later everything was back to normal until we played truth or dare and someone told V to kiss me..so she did. During that week her 2 best-friends were telling me to ask her out again, and kept on saying "what if she likes you?". And finally yesterday there was a dance and she asked me if i could slowdance with her, i accepted and during the slowdance we were really close to each other, nose-to-nose. After the dance she thanked me... Do girls change their mind so easily?? What should i do??
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Girls can be very confusing. It gets even more confusing when other people are telling you what to do and telling you things that you don't know are true or not.
So the best thing to do is talk to her. Just simply go up to her and tell her that you're getting mixed signals because hers friends are going up to you telling you she likes you now.
So once she tells you what's going on, then you'll know what your next move will be.
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You won't be cheesy or desperate just by asking her what is going on. I think you'd be going towards the cheesy direction if you wrote her some love letter or something. I think you'd be going in the desperate direction if you kept texting her, wouldn't leave her alone, ect.
So you're fine. Just go up to her, if she's with her friends, ask to talk to her privately then just tell her that you're getting mixed signals because her friends are also coming up to you.
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My mom married a much younger guy last year, and living with him has been awkward because he flirts with me when my mom's not around. Yesterday when my mom was at work I was sitting on the couch watching a movie with my little brother and sister, they were sitting on the floor. My step dad came and sat by me. He put his hands in between my thighs over my jeans and started touching my breasts. He did while my sister and brother were sitting on the floor with their backs to us and it was dark. When he did that I was scared . I told him to stop and he told me not to tell him to stop. My sister & brother were watching the loud movie, so they weren't paying attention to us on the couch. I tried pushing him away and moving. He kept on bothering me the whole time and I was scared to get up and when my mom got home I went in my room. I never feel comfortable around him. He'll put his hand on my waist, rub my stomach and get too close to me in front of my mom and it feels uncomfortable, and he's always saying "You're beautiful" My mom thinks he's playing around. And he looks at me with perverted eyes, all the time. i know my mom loves him so much and I know she wont believe me & she'll stay with him because he has money and we have nowhere else to go. She has stayed with him even though he beat her up before. (link)
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This is sexual abuse.
Talk to your mother, if she doesn't believe you and stays with him, she's not taking your safety into consideration, as well as your younger sister because she is also in danger.
You need to talk to another adult. Call the police, talk to a teacher, counselor, principal or any other trusted adult. They will help you.
Men like this should not be out doing this. Even if he and your mom split, there is a good chance he'll do the same to other girls and even beat their mothers and you don't want that.
One of the other previous advisers gave you a phone number to RAINN so you can also use that source.
Protect yourself and your sister and do the right thing. Talk to someone.
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Me and a really wonderful guy were talking. Just as friends because we relatively just met before that but I developed a little crush on him. It wasn't anything serious at the time but later as we continued to talk, we became closer. He was going through a bad break up at the time when we started getting closer. And I took advantage of the fact that I could really get close to him by helping him out and genuinely supporting him. I never told him I liked him because at the time I wasn't 100% convinced I did like him a lot. He used to message me daily and talk to me all the time. You see, I'm a type of person who likes to get to know someone first before declaring my feelings. And I'm not the most confident person in the world to boldly admit I like someone. I was hoping as we got closer and time progressed and he healed from his pain, that things would be good between us to the point that he too realized he had feelings for me. Next thing I know, he was talking to another girl. I think they were just talking but then they got closer. She out right told him that she liked him, and went a little crazy about it posting it that she was in love, etc. she's got a really annoying bubbly personality. (I'm not saying this because of how I feel. Other people have said the same.) anyway, I was so disappointed when I found out he liked her. Like what the hell did I even mean to you? I help u through all your problems and this is how it ends. The girl is a nice girl and I think she has a good heart. He says she understands him. I'm pretty sure he told me he was glad I understand him. He says he doesn't want a relationship now and that they're just talking and he's not in love with her but it still hurts. She seems like a confident person. Whereas I like to give hints and hope you take it. He told me he's really good at reading people, well clearly not so much. What sucks more is that I see him and the girl a lot and it just breaks my heart each time to think about it. I really liked him and now I'm just sad with regret. I don't want a relationship right now and I told him that (during a regular convo). He told me the same goes for him. But now this is the situation. I don't want to tell him because that will make life for all of us complicated. I want to get over him and move on.:( (link)
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Well I think you can either come out to him about how you feel or just move on.
He probably was interested in you, but you did straight up tell him that you didn't want a relationship. And even though it was true, most guys would take it as a signal not to pursue further. So like Dragonflymagic said, you could possibly phrase it better next time.
A lot of guys don't pick up hints easily. Even when they do, most won't think too much into it.
It's understandable to be disappointed. But for saying, "What the hell did I even mean to you? I helped you through all your problems and this is how it ends." I'm sure he values your friendship because that's what you are.
Being just friends with someone means that you have to accept and be prepared for them to like someone else. If you can't do that, you can't really be friends with them because you'll resent it. Hopefully that makes sense. You became friends with him and told him you weren't looking for a relationship but still hoped for something to happen. So that goes in with phrasing things differently so he doesn't get the wrong idea.
Anyways, I know you don't want to tell him. That's fine if you truly want to move on. If you really do actually want to move on, you need time away from him. Don't text, message or call him. Don't hang out with him, and keep your distance. It's ok to say hi and be friendly when you see him.
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so I have this gym teacher in high school teaching my gym class who is young, (younger than 30 I think) really pretty and good looking and red headed, and she teaches physical education and English and so we are doing the swimming unit and while in the pool she was walking around and she then said to me and some of my friends later when we were walking back to to change that she likes the swimming unit the most because she likes to look at all the male students without their shirts on in the water and she can see how fit you really are
the comment doesn't bother me in the slightest , but if some kid who was around me decides to go cry about it, will she get in trouble? I talked to a friend of mine about it (who wasn't there) and he says it is wrong and she should get in trouble but I don't see why, If she was actually doing anything then I would agree. I am not going to say anything, she is a really good and nice teacher and I will not get her in trouble
even if she does get in trouble, should she really (link)
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I saw this question a long time ago.
Anyways, she shouldn't be making comments like that. As for getting in trouble, she'll probably end up with a talking to with her boss and such.
I really don't know your school and to what extent they would take the comments.
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Do the female in the porn videos get orgasms or they just fake it (link)
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I'm pretty sure every once in awhile the female might orgasm but most of the time though, they are acting.
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