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The confusion of a lost love.
So i asked a really close friend of mine out...lets call her V. V rejected me and it was kinda awkward for a week, about 2 weeks later everything was back to normal until we played truth or dare and someone told V to kiss me..so she did. During that week her 2 best-friends were telling me to ask her out again, and kept on saying "what if she likes you?". And finally yesterday there was a dance and she asked me if i could slowdance with her, i accepted and during the slowdance we were really close to each other, nose-to-nose. After the dance she thanked me... Do girls change their mind so easily?? What should i do??
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Girls can be very confusing. It gets even more confusing when other people are telling you what to do and telling you things that you don't know are true or not.
So the best thing to do is talk to her. Just simply go up to her and tell her that you're getting mixed signals because hers friends are going up to you telling you she likes you now.
So once she tells you what's going on, then you'll know what your next move will be.
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You won't be cheesy or desperate just by asking her what is going on. I think you'd be going towards the cheesy direction if you wrote her some love letter or something. I think you'd be going in the desperate direction if you kept texting her, wouldn't leave her alone, ect.
So you're fine. Just go up to her, if she's with her friends, ask to talk to her privately then just tell her that you're getting mixed signals because her friends are also coming up to you.
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Well this girl is obviously a good friend... the reason why is because she feels bad because she rejected you. Like FRIENDS can dance together and they can get really close. like i've made out with my best friends ( which are guys) a bunch of time and were still cool :P so its not that bad. but if you really want to know whats going on inn her mind.. i suppose you ask her, cause girls love a guy with confidence ;)
Sincerely,
Nobody :)
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People change their minds all the time, not just girls.
She was brave and asked you to dance. You should be brave and ask her out again.
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