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Is it weird if this happens with a guy?!
I've only made out with guys and by now I feel like sooner or later I'm gonna go further more likely sooner. And I'm just wondering is it weird if you get fingered by a guy and you cum on his finger or you discharge on him?? I know that I get off easily if I'm hooking up with a guy I get horny so that's why I'm saying i know it's gonna happen. But I'm just paranoid if I get fingered like the last thing I want is for him to pull his finger out and be disgusted. I take very good care of myself and hygiene but I think that would be gross or that they would be grossed out. Also if your getting fingered like as the girl what do you do?? Just keep making out with them or what haha? Thanks
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Relax that is what is supposed to happen if the boy does his job right. It is also what is supposed to happen if you masturbate. This is a normal bodily reaction to having an orgasm.
I would suggest that if you are allowing a boyfriend to go this far with you that you get on birth control as well. While it is not possible to get pregnant from fingering. It is very easy to go from fingering to intercourse even if you never meant to.
While the physical reaction, the discharge, is over quite quickly. The emotional reaction takes time to recover from and you are very susceptible to allowing a boy to go further than you may normally allow. This is how teenage girls end up pregnant. They have sex when their guard is down and the boy does not use a condom.
If you are over 14 you do not need parental permission to get birth control A Federal Law called HIPPA, look it up on the WEB, which allows for the confidentiality of all medical visits, exams or treatment of the reproductive systems of any one over 14. Also allows any doctor to prescribe birth control. Just tell the doctor you want to invoke your rights under HIPPA.
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It's not weird, it's normal.
Most guys want to see that happen or they won't feel like they did their job right. If they're disgusted, that means they're too immature to handle the female body and you should not keep hooking up with someone like that.
Just make sure that you're on birth control. Obviously, you can't get pregnant by hooking up like this but if somehow it progresses, you want to be prepared.
As for what to do when it's happening. Just enjoy it, go with the flow, do whatever you feel like doing. They're not anything specific you're supposed to do.
Anyways, I just want to stress how important it is to get on birth control. If you are sexually active at all, you should be on birth control. You don't want any accidents. We've seen it all plenty of times and I'm sure you've met some people who have made that mistake.
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It's not weird. Its perfectly normal. You were gushing, getting wet. You may be a squirter, or in other words, capable of doing the female version of ejaculation.
Before I continue, you didn't mention contraceptives, if on any. With the fingering and all, its better not to rely on condoms cus he can get his sperm on his finger and transfered into you that way. Best to be on other birth control and do it asap. See your dr. or go to Planned Parenthood. You could get on hormonal bc, like the pill but if you get side effects, you may want to switch to the only good non hormonal one, the Paragard, copper IUD.
Most likely he fingered you correctly to get a g-spot orgasm. With this kind of orgasm, females release a liquid like guys do. guys usually get a charge out of having a female who can do that. It's not gross to them, many really like it. There are only a few who out of ignorance of what is happening may believe the female is peeing on them. Empty your bladder before engaging in sex so you can know that whatever comes out is not pee. The one thing you need to realize is that earlier on, you will have the thicker creamy cum You can also have the more watery fluid which can gush out and wash away any lubrication, so don't feel bad if you need to relube. If you find you tend to do more than a few drops of liquid, then use a towel folded up under the person who is on the bottom. It'll save having to sleep in a wet spot. Some women can leave soggy spots the size of a dinner plate.
I am attaching a couple educational and informational videos for you to watch. You might share these with your guy. Get informed cus your sex education is up to you.
The first couple are from Univ. of Ore. Med School
Anatomy and Physiology of Orgasm men and women
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Lastly, Laci Green a young gal, very entertaining and funny but her information is right on.
G spot
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Squirting
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