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Q: okay so i like this guy and we hang out alot and when we do i always feel relaxed and feel confertable but when ever we hold hands or sumthin my hand always start to sweat! and i dont kno wut to do! its gross! i mean im embarrased to like hold hands with him now! wut can i do?
Just keep a lil hole between the hands and if you think they are getting sweaty and your sitting down just push your jeans down like they are riding up or pretend to itch your arm or something-trix

Q: does anyone know any jobs you can get when your 14...?


14/f/ct
mcdonalds... any fast food place

Q: I've just started gym class, & she said we're NOT allowed piercings what so ever, even ear. & your not allowed to cover it up or anything. i have 2 of my piercings in my cartilidge, i can take my other ones in my lobe out but not my cartilidge because it'll close and i won't be able to get it back in anyways. I start it tomorrow. and i really duno what to do. I dont want to take them out because I don't want to have to get them repierced. My mom said thats really stupid & she said I won't have to take them out. What should I do?
talk to the people in the office. LIke the principle. Say you just got them pierced thats what happaned at my TKD tournament-trix

Q: Okay I just can't seem to stop going on AIM instant messanger, updating my site, or going on advicenators!! HELP please!! I'm like addicted and I can never concentrate plz help thanks I rate.
YOu just got to plan things out step by step. Like a agenda and what not. just get everything done then go online-trix

Q: i need a way to lose wweight fast, in like the next few months but because i am only fifteen i am not allowed to get certain things from sites such as www.ediets.com. I am fifteen and weigh 194 i am about 5 ft 8 in and would like to get sown to atleast 160 and 150 would be AMAZING!!!!!!!! can anyone suggest something that would work?
south beach diet

Q: my boobs are always dry and itchy and there are black marks on them. why is that? and what should i do?
its normal for them to react like that. Just use skin milk... works really well. You can probably get it at bath and body works. And for the black marks? I have no idea you may want to call ASK A NURSE or ask your mom-trix

Q: I am very new to this site and have only heard GREAT things about it. I have a very important question… I have never had a date on Valentine’s Day EVER!!! What can I do to make guys like me? I am very outgoing and intelligent. I am not the prettiest person in the world but definitely not the ugliest. If anyone can help, I would love to hear someone else’s opinion. Any help will do...Thanks!

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neat lol anyways. You cant make a guy like you but you can flirt up a storm and just be flirtacious and be nice and be cute. Even if its just as friends it'd still be nice to go out- ▄TrIx▀
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Q: I found a collumn dealing mostly with Hollister's shirt sizes. What about jeans? I might buy a pair online and I need to know if they run small or big. The pair I am looking at is the Baja Superflare (w/stretch) I know they are affiliated with Abercrombie, and in my experience I have worn a MUCH smaller jean at Abercrombie that at almost any other store. I can sometimes be up to a 7, but I own a pair of 2L Abercrombie jeans that fit comfortably.
Any insight?
They are big. I got a pair of mediums reg. and they are so big around the waist!!-trix

Q: Ok, My computer has Windows XP on it and I just started useing the computer i'm on now and well the problem I cant figure out how to fix is..Everything on my computer is Huge and I was wondering how do I make them smaller I know theres a way I just dont know how to do it, if anyone can help me with this then I will Rate HIgh!! Thanks!
go into your my computer and then go to and go to control panel. somewhere in there-trix

Q: A few days ago i spent the night @ my friends house and she has a bro so he always has friends over too! and my friends mom said that my friend (13/f) is not aloud to have friends over when her bro does cuz were getting older and everything, and my parents feel the same way! the thing is that i like going over there when her bro has friends over cuz it's fun and stuff! HELP! i rate high!
Yeah well just dont let your mom know. Or you can just all hang out and meet up somewhere-trix

Q: So I like this guy and Im almost 100% he's digging me back. But I need some kind of magic line to let him know it's all systems go so he can ask me out. Im old fashioned and not willing to ask a boy out so it's kind of up to him. How do I get it across that Im ready to take this friendship and turn it into something more?
Well im sure one of your friends would be willing to help you out in that sit. I know i would. So just talk to one of them and see if they can talk to him about goin tou with you-trix

Q: NEED HELP NOW!!

Ok so the other night me and my boyfriend had a talk about about porn and I asked him all these questions... and he told me that he'd only looked at it/watched it three times on kazaa... so I made him swear on us and on my life and he did, but then today me and his friend were joking and he said my b/f just had porn on his computer so i was joking around and I said I was gonna check his computer and see and he got all defensive and wouldn't let me, but then when I did... I found like 10 different websites on his computer... They're all from a long time ago, but still he lied to me! Do I have a right to be mad at him? especially since he swore on us and my life!?!?
WHAT SHOULD I DO???

PS: he appologize a LOT and said he was sorry and he loved me "so much" but I feel like an idiot now for believing him... I need help please give me advice!!
You have a right to be mad but he is a guy. and thats a typical guy thing.-trix

Q: Does any one know of any good sites, that will take away my boredom... I am 14 and i jus need somethin to do while i am on the computer.. please helpp!! ((~*Kaile*~))
www.bored.com www.firehotquotes.com

Q: Okay, well I just got mine, tonight...and I am NOT telling my mom. At least, not yet. I just have a few questions about periods....

1. How often should I change them?
2. Should I wear them to bed?
3. How many should I carry with me?
4. Where should I put them? I don't carry a backpack...or a purse.

That's it. Thank you! =D
1) every 2 hours
2) yes wear them to sleep
3) I would carry alot but it depends on how long you are going to be out and wont be in reach of them
4) you should start carrying a purse or something you can put it into-trix

Q: I don't know. My friend is super skinny and everytime I see her I get jelous. People tell me that i am skinny as well, but when i see people skinnyer than me i feel bac and sometimes i stop eating. Please any advise? 5'7 122 lbs
You shouldnt compare. ALthought its hard not to. I know. Just go on a diet and work out. Until you have the body you want. Dont starve yourself because everybodies body type is diff.-trix

Q: I really want to be an actress is there any tips or any like camps i could go to?
Acting school. Go to www.ask.com and typing in ACTING CAMPS i did that for you and i got alot so give it a shot-trix

Q: Okay, this is really odd, and kinda random, but I had an idea the other day. When it's warm enough here to go outside and stay there coatless for hours on end without freezing, I want to grab my boyfriend and do a photoshoot type thing of him. I'm a good photographer, and I have such images and ideas in my head. The only catch is, he won't agree to it unless he can take shots of me...Of course, I'd say okay to this if he didn't want to take them of me nude. Lol.
Now, I hate to admit it, but I really do hate my body. I'm not very comfortable with it, and I don't want any memories of my body...lol. But I'm so utterly determined to get shots of him. I have ideas, and I want to stick with them. I want to see them happen. The thing with him, is he hates his body as much as I hate mine, and is convinced he's not photogenic.
What can I do to convince him to let me do the photoshoot? I just want ideas. I'd appreciate no "lap dance" or anything like that. I'm serious about this, and I'd like ideas as to how to get him to agree or (better yet) want to do this with me.
Well maybe you both could talk it out and go work out together for like 2 months at the gym or until the time it gets warm out. And you will see results and start to like you bodies better. -trix

Q: i will dye my hair medium brown (my hair is naturally dark blonde) with an at home kit---at first it will look REALLY good...but the color fades in like 10 days!! it makes no sense..how do i get the color to stay? (i use color protectant shampoo). do i need to get it professionally foiled?
I think you may have to get better dye. Or just go in and get your hair done and ask them what they think would be best for you to use so that way it doesnt fade-trix

Q: what does git-r-done mean?? alot of guys at my school use this term.
Haha thats so freakin crazy!! Im wearing my home-coming lime green shirt that says on the front Git-R-done. It just means get it done. Fast and snappy-trix

Q: My friend is a horrible singer and he wants to be fameus and sing on american idol but he sucks really bad.. i dont know how to tell him

PLEASE HELP ME !

You dont need to tell him. That one guy will do it for him. Simon or whatever he is pretty harsh. Dont worry about it just help support him. You shouldnt trash his dreams. Just encourage him to also do another thing for his life rather then sing.-trix

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My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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