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Parent blues
A few days ago i spent the night @ my friends house and she has a bro so he always has friends over too! and my friends mom said that my friend (13/f) is not aloud to have friends over when her bro does cuz were getting older and everything, and my parents feel the same way! the thing is that i like going over there when her bro has friends over cuz it's fun and stuff! HELP! i rate high!
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just have both parents over and talk about it like make a deal,if you mess around then you wont see eachother again and stuff like that
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just explain to your parents that you would never do anything with them and that you always have a great time with them.
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You're 13... I know your intentions... You know your intentions... Your parents are right, you dont need to be spending the night at a house full of boys.
You can go and hang out with them in an other situation, why does it have to be in a situation where you will all be sleeping within a given distance where you will be unsupervised and have the opportunity to do something you really shouldn't be doing?
Just let your parents win this battle, you'll get more opportunities to hang out with guys through out your life.
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Yeah well just dont let your mom know. Or you can just all hang out and meet up somewhere-trix
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if you werent such a whore this wouldnt be an issue. whore
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well just maybe talk to her parents saying that you dont like that kinda stuff and since she is such a good friend you wouldnt do nething because you guys r to good of friends and so r u and her brother and you dont want to ruin things with that so say that you would like it if you can come over when ever you want
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If you went over there again at your age, it would be ALOT funner. Your parents are sort of like mine, but I've earned enough of their trust. What they are saying is completely true, but I think you should have a say in this as well. Try talking to your parents from your point of view, and TRY to get them to trust you alot more. Maybe that will help the situation out a little. =*
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well you cant exactly get them to change their minds. you're just gonna have to except that. maybe try getting together and hanging out at a different place. or sleep over one of the other friends houses. i'm sure that atleast one of their parents will allow their kid to be around kids of different genders and not have such a big fuss about it. but if not try going to like the mall or the movies together or something like tat. sorry this wasnt much help. i was never in the situation. i was allowed to be around guys when i was younger. so i hope this helps.
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why dont you and your friend tell your guyses parents that nothing is going to happen you just want to be over there when his friends are here because its fun!
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Dear Writer,
Maybe the rents dont think you all will be mature enough to hang out with the boys and still be able to keep it together.
Try telling them that you are mature and you understand that you have to have boundaries when it comes to the opposite sex. Tell them that you have no intention at all of causing trouble for them with the boys.
Best of Luck,
She Screams.
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Well what can you do about it? You cant change your parents minds...so just hang out somewhere else with them. Movies, Park, whatever.
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