Hello. Im asking advice today for a stupid little problem i have, but im not sure if there is any way i could control it. If im in school, or with my friends, or whatever (by the way im 14), when they mention "mom" or "dad", or "family", my eyes start to water and i just about cry. Not the "WAA-WAA" kind, it is just the red face, tears coming down and stuff, no squeaking or any of that crazy stuff. I cant say anything about parents or anything. When i talk about my family when someone asks, my voice gets shaky and i choke, and it makes me very uncomfortable because crying in front of the class isnt really a fun interest. I cry because my family has...problems. I just feel like i want either them or me to die. I feel like i hate them so much. Its not some "im mad at them because they took away my cell phone" kind of thing. Its more of a love issue. Im seeing a therapist but that is not working, she's not changing them. Well, in a nutshell, whenever someone talks about their parents, and when i talk about mine, i cry. Umm, i hope someone can help me with this, if its possible. Thank you.
i have the same problem my "dad" left us and when people talk about him i get sad to what you should do is tell them whats going on or ask them not to talk about that around you if your in school you can tell your teacher to see if she wont have nothing to do with that!
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A few days ago i spent the night @ my friends house and she has a bro so he always has friends over too! and my friends mom said that my friend (13/f) is not aloud to have friends over when her bro does cuz were getting older and everything, and my parents feel the same way! the thing is that i like going over there when her bro has friends over cuz it's fun and stuff! HELP! i rate high!
why dont you and your friend tell your guyses parents that nothing is going to happen you just want to be over there when his friends are here because its fun!
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So I like this guy and Im almost 100% he's digging me back. But I need some kind of magic line to let him know it's all systems go so he can ask me out. Im old fashioned and not willing to ask a boy out so it's kind of up to him. How do I get it across that Im ready to take this friendship and turn it into something more?
you can give him pretty looks and flirt with him!
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I'm 14-years-old so I'm not looking for my life partner or anything. Well, my friends and even some people I don't know call me shallow because I only go out with guys I think are hott. And it's true but only to a certain point. Yes, I do look at looks first but doesn't everyone? I look at looks and if I think they're attractive then I'll talk to them and such. But I'll only date them if they have a great personality to go along with their looks. Personality can also make a guy hott to me so even if I'd initially think they were ugly but they had a confident, amazing personality I'd think they were hott. And like I said before, it's not like I'm looking for they guy I want to marry right now; I'm just having fun and meeting different guys. Does the way I see that make me shallow? Or is the way I pick the guys I want to go out with wrong?
i will tell you what you are doing a good job just look for guys who make you feel comfortable and that is nice to you!
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i went out with my boyfriend for 9 months, and he was my 'first person', but things happend and we broke up :( . This was about 3.5 months ago, and he has a new girlfriend now. So i dicided to move on to and now i have this guy who i like and he likes me a lot too. But i have a problem because every time i'm with him i think about my ex! i can't do it :( ... it hurts inside to think of being with any1 else. THe problem is, my ex boyfriend doesnt want to talk to me, but somtimes i know that he misses me to, but doesnt want to be with me again. What do i do? I'm so lost :( please help, ill rate.
u should just wait until u know ur completely over your ex then when your ready you can go out with other people!
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i'm going skiing in a couple of months and i'm REALLY out of shape. any ideas what i could do to tone my legs...and the rest of me while i'm at it?
u can walk or u can work on your machines to get back in shape
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I've just started gym class, & she said we're NOT allowed piercings what so ever, even ear. & your not allowed to cover it up or anything. i have 2 of my piercings in my cartilidge, i can take my other ones in my lobe out but not my cartilidge because it'll close and i won't be able to get it back in anyways. I start it tomorrow. and i really duno what to do. I dont want to take them out because I don't want to have to get them repierced. My mom said thats really stupid & she said I won't have to take them out. What should I do?
I would say listen to your mom because they know best!
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what kind of things do you give guys on valentines day? Like really good things, or simple things are good to. I just need some ideas. i like to get my shopping done early so i wont have to woory about it later. but im completly lost on what i should get for him as a v-day present. Any Ideas? please help
You should get them roses or pink flowers or chocolates!
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im so depressed. im 13 and ive never had a bf! most of my friends have. i have golden blonde hair and crystal blue eyes. no guys like me at all. i really want a boyfriend. at this point all i want in a guy is a pulse. my friend, i personally think shes gorgeous(not in a lezboe way) she has a boyfriend i can understand that. what i cant uderstand is that my other friend, not appealling at all, yellow,crooked teeth,chubby. shes had like 3 in 2 years and guys are all over her! i dont get! please help!
ok you dont need a boyfriend just because your friends have one! Just be yourself and your time will come and u will have a boyfriend that you like!
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I have a boyfriend who is abusive. He doesn't hit me.. but he makes me fear him. He's always telling me that my best friends don't like me and that i'm not as special or great as i think i am. When i ask him why he would say that because it really hurts he says that it's the harsh truth and i need to realize it and stop being such a poser. I'm also bisexual and he tells me that i say that to fit in.. that that isn't really who i am. he thinks he knows me so well but he really doesn't. Normally i wouldn't put up with this kind of stuff, i'd break up with him, but the problem is is that i really really love him. For a year we went out on and off 7 times.. this is the 8th. He's the one who always persued me and the one guy i always knew loved me. he's never treated me like this before and it scares me and i don't know what to do because i miss him.. the guy he was.. the guy who would run away with me.. the guy who loved me.. i don't know what to do and i don't think i'm strong enough to leave him.. please help
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