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Valentine's Day LOSER...me :-(
I am very new to this site and have only heard GREAT things about it. I have a very important question… I have never had a date on Valentine’s Day EVER!!! What can I do to make guys like me? I am very outgoing and intelligent. I am not the prettiest person in the world but definitely not the ugliest. If anyone can help, I would love to hear someone else’s opinion. Any help will do...Thanks!
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Honestly, I have never had a date for Valentine's Day either, but I dont let it get to me, I would say to try tlaking to some guys ya know and get to know guys and let them get to know you and just try to be really outgoing and i'm sure someone will ask you out on A date if no one ask's you out on a date on Valentines day, dont worry everything will be okay, i'm sure you will get a date with someone, when the time is right, remember Great things come to those who wate! But just be yourself and i'm sure everything will work out fine, keep your head up and try not to let not getting a date for Valentines day get to you, I hope this advice helps! Let me know how things go!-Nikki
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neat lol anyways. You cant make a guy like you but you can flirt up a storm and just be flirtacious and be nice and be cute. Even if its just as friends it'd still be nice to go out- ▄TrIx▀
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Someone once told me that you can't look for love, it just happens to you when you least expect it. I don't know how old you are or your particular situation, but I think that these words apply to everyone.
They'll be plenty of Valentine's Days, which will be very special for you.
But in general, be yourself. There are probably already guys that like you and have a crush on you, but are too afraid to talk to you. You want guys to like you for who you are and not the mask that you may put on for a party or what have you. Love is supposed to be comfortable- you can't be comfortable when you have to act like someone you aren't.
In due time, they'll see you for the diamond that you really are.
Good luck,
Arun
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Confidence and completeness is the key.
What do I mean? Don't let your life revolve around having a guy in it! Learn to love yourself, develop your own interests and hobbies, and make lots of great friends. Be confident in your strengths and be complete as a person even without a guy in your life.
The funny thing about being confident and complete without a guy is that guys are so attracted to confidence. They love a girl who loves herself. After all, if you expect people not to like you because you don't...they won't.
You'll probably find that once you get to the point of being totally okay with just being you, all alone, a guy is really interested.
Funny how it works, huh?
Remember: confident and complete.
Good luck!
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Never forget to be yourself. You don't want a guy falling for someone you aren't. You could try being even more outgoing and if you like someone, go for it and ask them out. Don't ever be scared. You should always think positive. But for right now, don't just try to find a boyfriend because you feel like you need one. If you really like a special guy, try getting to know him better so you guys can get "closer".
♥ Krissy
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