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Judi my friend. is avoiding me. I don't know why. What do I do?

--Confused In Maryland (link)
You should try to talk to her, ask her whats wrong, work things out. She may be mad at you for some reason or something may have happened to her and she doesnt feel like talking. Hope everything works out.


theres this guy lets call him brian ok well his friend luke keeps asking stuff like if brian wanted to go out w/ u then would u go out w/ him and i never know what to say so i just say i dont know so does this mean brian likes me?? but theres also this guy zack he wont tell me who he likes but he said she has one class w/ him nd that she has blondish/brownish hair nd that could possibly be me i dont know but we definitely talk a lot more and he always looks at me in class so do these 2 guys like me?? if they do how do i know which one to pick?? (link)
It sounds like Brian likes you, and Zack may like you too, but its more obvious that Brian does. It sounds that you know and like Zack more, so if he asks you to go out with him, then you should give him a chance. Or, you could ask him out. If it turns out Zack doesnt ask you out or anything like that, or you want to go out with Brian you should tell his friend when he asks you. Good luck with your guys.


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ok. im going to say this best i can. i am a pitcher and i pitch for a tournament team. we are a b team currently and i have a tournament this weekend. at our last tournament, i pitched the first brackett game really well, only walked 3 or 4 people in 4 innings, and the umpire was retarded. haha. anyway, we were tied for a long time and then the 3rd baseman made three errors in a row and they scored twice on us, so we lost. & we should have won.
well i started at right field in our second brackett game and then the starting pitcher got tired after 2 innings, and came out, and our other pitcher came in and walked in three runs :o bad, i know. well i moved up to third and after she walked like her sixth person, our coach switched us, and i never got a chance to warm up. my mind was kind of not there, & i was tired, i had pitched the most out of all of our pitchers and i started throwing air-balls. like, really high ones. i got really upset about it, and then time ran out, and we were already losing and there wasnt really any damage left to do. this was a triple elimation tournament and we came back sunday and i didnt start because i had gotten a stomach virus at like 2:00 am and wasn\'t feeling good. we were getting pounded by this team and for whatever reason, my coach told me to go warm up, so i did. i was throwing really really good in warmups, popping the catchers glove and stuff, and when i went in to pitch, all i could think about was throwing air-balls, and thats what i did too. so my coach switched me with the left fielder. we lost, we went home.

anyway sorry the storys so long but its kind of needed to answer this question.
-- my question is: why did i throw all those air-balls. in practice, i pitch like an ace. i don\'t get it its kind of freaking me out. i\'m afraid i will pitch those tomarrow at the tournament and people will get mad.. is there anything i might be able to do? is it just because i was exhausted, sick, stressed about throwing air-balls, and all that? that\'s what everyone was saying.. but idk. my coach says she will always believe i am good, and that the only way she would give up on me is if i quit on myself and didnt stick it out. i always stick these things out so thats not a problem. my pitching coach thinks i could be something great. i mean i know it doesnt mean im a bad pitcher, it just means im a nervous one about tournaments, they are all new to me. it doesnt determine my future and it\'s about having fun.. but still i want some advvice.

sorry again its so long.
help pleaseee♥ (link)
Ok, you probably threw all the air-balls because you were tired and under pressure, then on sunday, you were still upset about the other day that you couldnt get it off your mind. You said the tournaments were new to you, so once you get used to them, you should be great, just like in practice. Before the games, relax and clear your mind and just go and have fun.


i need to know who sings this song- im havin a brain freeze and cant think i know a guy sings it its hiphop and the line that i can remember is cath em ridin dirty, muy musics so loud theyre hatin help please+ (link)
ridin' dirty by chamillionaire
thats my ringtone :]


I am a teenage girl. I get really horny and enjoy it when I see girls boobs. I'm not sure if this is unusual or not. I also get horny when I see guys to. I would never act in messing around with a girl. But I would and I have messed around with guys and I enjoy it. Guys give me pleasure, its just I also get pleasure from looking at girls. So do you think I am a lesbians or something?
Please help!!! (link)
It's fine. Your no lesbian either. You maybe be bisexual, but I hardly doubt it. Don't be feared who you are.


Is there any other advice sites like advicenators, where you can get free advice? I'm just wondering, I love advicenators though. (link)
yahoo answers, except that one isnt too good. the good thing about it is that you dont have to have your question approved, but then since you do that, after about 10 minutes, no one will anwer it anymore


heyy... you know how in some people's profiles they have like sayings or quotes or part of a song that's like decorated or whatever... so like one word is like big or underlined or a different color or whatever?? well i need some ideas... like what sayings or quotes or parts of songs or whatever that's good for my profile?? (link)
you should go to xanga.com and click on blogrings. then type in aim profiles and greatttt ones will come up :]
x.


what is the best black pencle eyeliner out there??
i want eyeliner that goes on smooth help!! (link)
i use maybelline line stylist. its a chisel tip so you dont have to sharpen it. and its only like $7 and it goes on extremely smooth


i have a silver TI-83 plus and before a math test i 'erased the memory'.. i didnt know that it would erase everything! It erased everything in my applications except for the first one which is 'finance..' is there anyway to get all my other programs back?? please help because i need other programs on the calculator!! (link)
you cant get them back, but you can get your friends programs such as games by using a cord.


17 female I didn't brush my teeth alot when I was little like I was suppose to and now that iam older i've been brushing my teeth 3 times a day and they are like really yellow and there is a big brown stain on my teeth how do I get my teeth whiter besides brushing them? (link)
ok you willprobably think this wont work but orbit white works so well. chew about 4 pieces a day for a week or two and they will be noticably whiter (take it from experience :]
x.


I was woundering,
can you breed fish in a 10 gallon tank?
and if so what fish would be the best to breed?
I wasd thinking anglefish but I dont know if the eggs will survive.
and also, How can I keep the eggs alive?
I am going to have diffrent breeds of fish of corse I will ask the clurk or a guy at the store if they would get along first. and if they do. Will the diffrent breed of fish try to eat the eggs?? I also dont know how to sepperate the other breeds if they DO try to eat them. and my last question.-
who should stay with the eggs?
I know the mother should. But should the father too? (if there's any othjer info i should know about breeding fish please let me know) (link)
1) go to your pettore, and they will have a section for like fish that are very easy to breed at home. (petco if you hvae on in your neighborhood) otherwise try fancy tailed guppies and baloon mollies.
2) the father shouldnot stay with the eggs, and neither should the mom. she will eat them after she had them.
3) you will have to have lots of decortation in your tank, like lotsss of plants.
4) usually the fish that are easy to breed like the guppies and mollies, they usually get a long


hi im a 15 year old guy (soph) and i like this im guessing 14 year old freshamn girl...i dont really no her at all but there is something about her that just draws me to her she is very attractive and ive talked to her 1 time for maytbe a minute online but thats it and she just seems like a really nice person..so i was wondering how should i approach it become friends with her first and get to know her or talk to her friends just to see what she's like then talk to her? thanks so much in advance (link)
well you should get to know her a bit first, but then most definently ask her out if she shows an interest back (since you are a sophomore, that is like major bonus points for her)


sometimes when i go to the bathroom i realize that my panties are wet like i was horny or something. could i be gettin tunred on by something and not realizing it and this is why it happens? (link)
I deal with this some times at school. It all began when I was about 6th grade. I felt like I was having my peroid but I was just wet.
The thing is, some of the guys, I don't even like.
It's all normal and it's just part of woman hood.

Sorry my answer isn't filled with great answers.


we got this current event worksheet in class today and i can't seem to find the answers to these two questions . . .

1) What terrorist organization located in Lebanon participated in a war against Israel?

and

2) What law did the U.S. Congress pass which affected American citizens to help combat terrorism?

do any of you know??? Thanks in advance!! (link)
1. hizbulah i dont know how to spell it


what are some depressing love songs? thanks. (link)
"Slaughter of the Soul" by At the Gates.


I'm a 13 year old girl going into 8th grade, and i am getting a new backpack. I was wondering if an llbean one would be out of style or babyish? If so what other kind do you reccomend, and if not, what color should I get. I was thinking pink but is that kind of childish? (link)
no they are not childish. as long as its not a roller back pack you should be fine!
x.


My dad got a rat terrier puppy from a lady that was having to move away. I cannot stand dogs. They're too hyper and stinky and so unintellegent because nobody around my community has trained dogs. Every time I walk outside I get jumped on or he tries to bite my shoes or something. Or he's humping one of his toys. I'm so tired of it! My parents expect ME to play with him. Why should I? It's my dad's dog, not mine! It's not my fault Dad is never home to play with him. How on Earth am I supposed to share my yard with that stupid dog? Please help me out! (link)
oh my gosh! thats so rude. dogs have as much rights to live, and feelings and stuff as you do! just say someone said that about to, because you were stinky and unintelligent, even though they didnt know you. they're individuals with different personalities, just like us, so get to know the poor boy. imagine the stress he'z going through anyway, with moving home. and anywayz why WOULDN'T you want a dog. theyre cute and all sorts of stuff. ill leave you to ponder that.....


Okay well I know what making out is. But I don't really get how you do it. I know it's like kissing with the tongue but do you keep kissing while the tongues in each other's mouths or are your lips just like together? And what do guys like you to do when you're making out? Uhmm help (link)
ok well when i do it your tounge touches the whole time and yea guys like it when you ohold their neck or like their back. just dont stick your tounge all the way down his throat ;) haha k hope i helped :)


my dad's offering to buy me a used car. what are some cute cars that aren't too awfully expensive? (link)
ugh. i hate it when girls want cars... they never know anything about them and buy into shoddy makes like honda or toyota simply because they hear that, that's the kind of car to own. the fact is you shouldn't be asking anyone but a mechanic, or your parents what you should get.

cars are expensive. how much money is your father willing to spend?

insurance is expensive. any car you get will cost your parents a lot more in the long run to insure someone as young as you are.

it's a first car. most people wreck their first car. it's a known fact that a majority of people wreck their first car and so a newer car or fast car for a first car is a bad idea.

maintenence. the problem with a toyota, honda, nissan, DMW, mercedes, audi, volkswagen, or any other non american make is that it will cost more money to keep it running.

financing. to finance a car is to take out a loan from the bank to pay for the vehicle. problem with this is that you need to make payments on it once a month every month in order to keep the car. the loans are usually issued on a 24 month, 36 month, or even 60 month basis. so you will be stuck with this car's payments for a long time. and even if you wreck it you still have to pay off the cost of the vehicle. thing is though this is how most cars are purchased these days.

safety. as a young driver you want something safe. you want something reliable and you don't want something that will kill you insurance wise or any other way if you wreck it.

the cars i reccommend to you, you might not like. but know that these cars will be smart purchases. i'm a mechanic, i fix cars for a living, and i know what is good, and what isn't.

volvo:
740
850
940
S80
S70
240

ford:
crown victoria
focus
five hundred
fuaion

lincoln:
town car
LS

suzuki:
aero
verona

mercury:
grand marquis
marauder

mazda:
6(mazda speed6 prefferably)
3

these cars wont cost an arm and a leg to purchase, shouldn't keep you in the shop too often, and can be found for really good prices used. and get this insurance on them is not bad.


my birthday is tomorrow and im not sure whether i should get either a ipod shuffle or ipod nano or a sidekick 3 or a nextel...i really want a cell but the nextel i want is kind of expensive i have a sprint phone but it's really crappy and i dont use it i would like to be more in touch with my friends and family and boys...but then again i loove music and the ipod shuffle is really cheap and the ipod nano is not so bad but i was thinking maybe i should get that for christmas (what are the differences between the shuffle and nano) the sidekick 3 is just amazing but im not with t-mobile and its really expensive too. does anyone have the side kick 3?? how is the plan and do you have to pay extra for web, instant messaging and text?? anything else about the side kick 3?? i think i'll probably get a nextel but i really want to know about the other things thanx so much in advance (link)
My mother is in a few weeks and I was wanting an iPod Video and a Razr...but that's like nearly 500 bucks and under! WOW.

www.t-mobile.com
Check the information here.

www.ipod.com
Check your prices here.




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