Okay well I know what making out is. But I don't really get how you do it. I know it's like kissing with the tongue but do you keep kissing while the tongues in each other's mouths or are your lips just like together? And what do guys like you to do when you're making out? Uhmm help
Xenolan answered Sunday September 3 2006, 5:38 pm: Usually, serious make-out kissing involves tongue, but different people enjoy kissing in different ways. Heck, it can even be fun to experiment with different kinds of kissing.
Guys like different things when it comes to making out, of course, but something that is fairly universal is that they need to know where the boundaries are. If it's okay with you that they feel your breasts, then there are different ways you can encourage that (rubbing them yourself, nudging his hands that way, a little shiver and a sigh when he "accidentally" brushes his hand over your nipple). However, if it's NOT okay for him to put his hands inside your shirt, then stop him gently but firmly, smile and say, "I'm not ready for that." A decent guy will always respect your limits, and it IS up to you to set them, because he probably won't.
Here's a list of things that guys like to hear (as long as they're true - don't fake it!):
(1) "Mmm, I like the way you _______" (fill the blank with something you like)
(2) "Hold still, I want to try something." (follow this with something you haven't tried before, like nibbling on his ear or kissing him upside-down, like Spider-Man.)
(3) "You're getting me really excited." (NOTE: Unless you plan on actually having sex, this is probably the sexiest comment you want to make!)
(4) "I feel so safe with you." (This is both a stroke to the male ego and a reminder that they need to be respectful of your boundaries)
Things NOT to say:
(1) "You're much better than _____." (Guys don't want to know about your previous boyfriends at a time like this, even if they ARE better.)
(2) "I wish we could go all the way." (His response will be, "Why not?" leaving you having a conversation about why you can't have sex instead of enjoying what you CAN do.)
(3) "Is that a pencil in your pocket?" (The reason why not to say this should be obvious.)
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