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gettin confused lately


Question Posted Sunday September 3 2006, 3:17 pm

Ok, there are so many sex questions going around that I'm getting really confused, so here are some that I need answers to so it can straighten everything out.
1. If the guy REALLY doesn't cum, can you get pregnant?
2. What is the big diference between pre-cum and cum? or is there no difference?
3. With a condom, what is the % of pregnancy? without a condom? with birth control? with birth control AND a condom?
4. On average, how long does it take for a guy to cum?
5. How common ARE STD's?
6. If you have sex with a carrier of an STD, will you for sure get it?

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Melody answered Monday September 4 2006, 1:02 pm:
1) Yes. You can get pregnant even if the guy doesn't ejaculate (cum).

2) There is actually no clinical term for premature ejaculation (precum) but you can describe it as an uncontrolled ejaculation with little stimulation. Pre-ejaculation flows in small portions throughout the entire 'session' while when you acutally ejaculate it's at the end and it means you hit an orgasm. If this doesn't make any sense to you or you have further questions, leave one in my inbox and i'll try answering it more thoroughly.

3) When using a condom correctly the chances of you getting pregnant is only 3%. When not using a condom the chances of you getting pregnant is 85%. When the pill is used correctly the chances of you getting pregnant is only 0.1%. If you use a condom and the pill together and use them both correctly, their is no chance of getting pregnant.

4) Suprisingly less than 5 minutes. But a lot of guys can go much longer.

5) More common than you think.

6) It's just like pregnancy. You won't necessarily get it. But the chances are incredibly high!

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XoXoXoXo77 answered Monday September 4 2006, 12:17 am:
ok im gonna answer ALL of them. cuz im just that cool.ok so..

1. no if doesnt actually cum then you cant get pregnant because the sperm is in the cum. and if theres no sperm. theres no baby. its that simple.
2. theres not that much of a difference. there is sperm in both. so you can get pregnant either way.
3. with a condom.. theres not a very big chance of getting pregnant. without a condom.. BIG chance. with birth control.. not very big chance. with both.. VERY VERY small chance.
4. it really depends on the guy.
5. if the guy has had sex a lot then he probably has an STD.
6. there is a VERY high chance you will get it.

xox hope i helped

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sizzlinmandolin answered Sunday September 3 2006, 7:13 pm:
Your questions have been answered pretty well already, but I'd like to give you the link to a really great website. It will give you the answers to pretty much all the questions you have about sex and more. It's entirely informational.

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adviice_whore answered Sunday September 3 2006, 5:27 pm:
I'm sorry that I don't know the answers to most of these questions but I'll answer the one I know so I don't give you wrong information.

6. It depends on the std if its something really strong then you will probably get it.Its not 100% but pretty close.

I'm soooo sorry I only could help with one question but the 2 people before me basically had very good answers so yeah I hope I helped.

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Xenolan answered Sunday September 3 2006, 5:05 pm:
1: If there is intercourse and the guy doesn't orgasm, then there is still the possibility of pregnancy, though it is reduced.

2. "Pre-come" is a clear fluid that fills the penis and dribbles out a bit when the guy gets excited. Its purpose is to lubricate the passage so that semen can more easily pass through it. Since "pre-come" does have sperm in it, it can cause pregnancy.

3: When used properly, a condom prevents over 99% of pregnancies; it's improper use that can lower that percentage (improper use includes not putting it on right, using expired condoms, not withdrawing promptly after orgasm, etc.) With no method of birth control at all, odds of conception are roughly one in three, though other factors play into that. Birth control, meaning oxycontin or "the pill", is about 97% effective (be aware that antibiotics can diminish the effect of oxycontin). With condom and pill together, the odds drop very nearly to zero, though you can never discount human error.

4: That depends greatly on circumstance, but most guys probably could do it in three to five minutes if they were trying to get there as fast as possible and had sufficient stimulation. Most guys actively try not to let it go so fast, though, because the slower build-up is more pleasurable.

5: I read a statistic once that about 10% of the world's sexually active population has SOME kind of STD, though of course some are more benign than others and many people have more than one. Also, bear in mind that this probably isn't an easy thing to get accurate statistics on, because many people don't know about it or will deliberately lie about it.

6: It is entirely possible to have sex with someone who has an STD and not get it. Herpes, for instance, will generally only spread when there are open lesions (though these are not always visible, and the infected party can have them without knowing it!) However, knowingly having unprotected sex with someone who has an STD is kind of like running naked through the alligator exhibit at the zoo; you might get away with it, but that doesn't make it any less stupid.


Incidentally, your doctor will answer these sorts of questions in complete confidence, and will be speaking from a position of much greater authority than most of the crowd around here.

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HectorJr answered Sunday September 3 2006, 4:56 pm:
Not a big fan of these questions, but I'll do my best. Most of these things I've already seen replied to so I'll pass on what I saw.

1. Yes you still can.
2. Pre-cum has a higher concentration of sperm. There is less of it.
3. Have no idea about percentages, and they don't really matter because nothing is 100%, so even if birth control and a condom was used and had a 90% rate of not getting pregnant, then yes you could still get pregnant.
4. Depends on the guy.
5. With a person who has been around, probably very common. There are some STDs that are transferred just through contact, with or without a condom.
6. Depends. If it is a strong STD (transferred just by skin contact), then most likely. It really does depend on the people, circumstances, and the STD there is. Sorry that there is no direct answer. Hope I helped.

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