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Confused...Am I a lesbian?
I am a teenage girl. I get really horny and enjoy it when I see girls boobs. I'm not sure if this is unusual or not. I also get horny when I see guys to. I would never act in messing around with a girl. But I would and I have messed around with guys and I enjoy it. Guys give me pleasure, its just I also get pleasure from looking at girls. So do you think I am a lesbians or something?
Please help!!!
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you are prob. bi and or bi-curious it might pass its a little eary too tell now but you should experiment a little and see if you pass it through if not your bi and thats okay
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It's fine. Your no lesbian either. You maybe be bisexual, but I hardly doubt it. Don't be feared who you are.
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This could possibly mean you are a bi-sexual. There is nothing wrong with being one. Or this culd mean u are just a plain and simple lesbo. Which eva one is ok! If u r happy then tht is all tht counts!
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This can be completely normal. But before you make up your mind about this, think if this "hornyness" you are feeling towards both sexes are in fact different feelings. I say this because it is definitely normal for someone to look at the same sex and like what they see. You may just be happy with what you have and are proud of being a woman but also know that there is a very thin line there. If you are attracted to girls boobs and want to act on it (which you said you didn't but I just want to go over nonetheless), that may show that you are in fact bi-sexual, which is completely fine as well. Don't let people influence you and what you believe and who you are. So, my advice in a nutshell is that while I think you are straight, think about it some more and make sure that you have no feelings to mess around with girls just as much as you do with boys and enjoy it. Also, don't be embarrassed if you are in fact a bi-sexual. There is nothing wrong with being you! Good luck and let me know how it goes. - GC07
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it's normal..youre just curious about your body and everyones around you..dont make yourself believe that your a lesbian or that somethings wrong with you because that deffinately isnt the case..you would be more apt to being a lesbian if you developed emotional attractions to a gurl
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you're just acting on normal human instincts. it's totally normal and you're probably not a lesbian. no need to worry.
-celina
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Nope, you're not a lesbian and you won't be unless YOU call yourself a lesbian. You're just human. Humans have desires for other humans. Your sex drive doesn't know the difference between a girl and a boy. All it knows is "Oooh, pretty. Want touch." There is nothing going on, other than pure horniness.
(But never say never. I've changed my mind about who I'd rather be with--men or women--atleast fifty times within the last five years or so.)
Anyway, the bottom line is that people are attracted to other people. It's always been that way, it's always gonna be that way, and it's nothing to worry about.
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It doesn't mean you're a lesbian, it means you have eyes! I went through the same thing, and I am perfectly straight. Just to be certain, take this test: Okay. Picture yourself in the loving embrace of your favorite crush/actor/attractive guy.
That should turn you on.
Now, picture yourself making out with a girl whom you consider attractive. If this grosses you out, you are most likely straight.
Girls are cute, and it's normal to think they're attractive or that they have great figures. Even mild crush-like feelings can be considered normal. I hope this helps! :)
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I don't think it necessarily means you are a lesbian or even bi. You are at an age where you are learning about what is sexy and the fact is that women's curves can be very sexy. There's nothing wrong nudity making you feel turned on.
However, you are also at a time when sexual urges will be happening a lot because these sorts of hormones are starting to appear and because they can be very confusing, now is a good time to work out what you do and don't want in a partner, whether it be male or female. In other words, you may want to try doing something with another girl and what I want to get across is that if you want to try it to see if you like it then there is nothing wrong with acting on these sorts of urges. We live in a time when it should be okay to be homosexual.
For now, if you only want to do stuff with guys then stick to doing stuff with guys. Thinking boobs are sexy doens't make you a lesbian so don't worry too much about it and based on what you have said, I doubt you are gay. If a time comes where you want to try something with another girl then do but if you are confused right now, try to stay open to your options.
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No hun, that doesn't make you lesbian.
It also doesn't necessarily make you bisexual.
Tons of girls find both seeing girls and guys sexually pleasureful, but not necessarily are they intimately attracted to both sexes.
You might just be bi-curious. This means that you are curious about being intimately and/or sexually involved with both genders.
I think if you are still curious and would like to find the most accurate answer, you should try and see which you're most comfortable with. But also hormones might slightly affect this, I've known people who are like that, and grow out of it, but that doesn't always happen. By the way you described it, you just sound bi-curious.
If you have anymore questions, you can just ask!
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No hun if you like looking at both guys and girls...then that makes you a bisexual!!! If you need help my AIM screen name is DirtJumperKelley! Take care
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