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E-mail: leenie.seven2@verizon.net
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Location: A-Town, Pennsylvania
Age: 15
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well i am 13 and having my second child. that pretty much says it all. help? (link)
all i can say is plug it up. don't have any more, one is hard enough. just do your very best to not get pregnant again.
-celina


hi, well im a fourteen year old guy, and well im kind of hairier than everyone else my age. well, i started to trim, using a trimmer, because my uncle told me that if i started to shave, then the hair would grow back faster, and that i should shave later on in life. when he showed me how to trim, he told me about an imaginary line, which you shouldnt trim beyond, becuase the hairs fall off naturally. he said it runs from the inner side of the side burn running through to under the lower lip. well the hair beyond that is getting long, and its even joining up to my eyebrows, so it looks like my face is covered in hair, except for the eyelids. also, there is hair above my eyebrows and on my forehead! so what is wrong with me? is that normal? please answer, ill rate 5's! (link)
hmmm, you're only fourteen, this sounds kind of unusual. you could have a growth horomone problem that causes your hair to grow much faster than other boys. you should visit a doctor and ask him or her if there are any medications or ways that will help your hair to grow in less thick. hope i helped.
-celina


I think i might be pregenent. I missed my period for the month of April. I have not received my period yet. I went to the doctor and the pregencey test came out neg. Do you think there might still be a chance that I am? Could it be to early to tell using urine? It feels like I'm pregenent could that also be a fingment of my imagination? My last men. was 3/25. (link)
hey, i haven't gotten mine for april either and i'm not pregnant. cycles can change unexpectedly due to a change in diet or even stress. if you haven't had exposure to any semen near your vagina then you're good.
-celina


im 15/f and me and my best guy friend went to a party n both got a little drunk among other things. anyway we ended up having sex and since then i've found out im pregnant and i know its his and i told him about it. hes basically demanding i keep it but see i dont want to b/c its going to destroy my body, reputation,i know i wont be able to keep my gpa above a 4.0, and my mom will kill me. so should i just go behind his back or what?
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it is all about you, here. it is your choice, not his, your future, not his. go behind his back if it is what YOU want.
-celina


After you end your period when you're around 50ish, what happens next? Is there a new kind of period? Or does something else happen? Or do you just go back to being a kid again like with no more things that come 1nce a month? (link)
you go through menopause, where you stop menstruating and get all sorts of nasty symptoms. after menopause you, yeah, just don't have anymore periods and are also not able to become pregnant anymore.
-celina


I am a teenage girl. I get really horny and enjoy it when I see girls boobs. I'm not sure if this is unusual or not. I also get horny when I see guys to. I would never act in messing around with a girl. But I would and I have messed around with guys and I enjoy it. Guys give me pleasure, its just I also get pleasure from looking at girls. So do you think I am a lesbians or something?
Please help!!! (link)
you're just acting on normal human instincts. it's totally normal and you're probably not a lesbian. no need to worry.
-celina


My Boyfriend tells me I'm not coming onto him strong enough and says that I need to put my hand on him when he's "hard on." I hardly know what that means...and i dont know what to do when my hand is there. What do i do when he gets like that and I put my hand on him? (link)
if you are not comfortable doing such a thing, you definitely don't have to. but if you are, just kind of press on it or rub around a bit. it should help a bit, i suppose. worked for me!
-celina


I have an important question. I get cramps so bad that I sometimes stay home from school, as i am right now. is that a serious problem? (link)
it is a fairly common occurence in females, but if they are affecting to so badly, you should visit the doctor and they can give you medications to help with those.
-celina


okay well.. my mom she is putting me on a pill. and before i go on it i need a exam at the ghynecologist (sp?) she said it was only partial but im terrified. is there any way i can make this experience less scary, i tried using a tampon before and i was crying hystericall cause i got so scared and it hurt. please help me
im 15
thanks ill rate high (link)
it really won't be that bad, just try to stay calm and relaxed during your experience. if a tampon hurt that bad you probably were inserting it wrong, and rest assured that the gynocologist knows what the hell she's doing. drink some tea before you leave to calm you down and maybe do some yoga to get rid of stress. it'll all be over before you know it.
-celina


If i ran on the tredmill 20 minutes everyday how much weight would I loose? I wanna loose like 15-20 lbs before the summer, so by like june. Do you think its possable. What else can i do to help?

thankss
i rate 5's (link)
depending on how fast and how high your heartbeat it, you could lose a lot or a little. i would recommend incorporating other exercises to isolate the problem areas and add a healthier diet as well. treadmilling alone won't lose 15 pounds in less than a month, so you're gonna have to work hard for this.
-celina


Is this necessary for a girl to remove pubic hairs? or it is enough to remove only from armpits as armpits are visible to any one. I also have hair around my inner hips are ( near ass hole)what about these? PLease advice. (link)
you could shave, wax, or use a dilapitive on pubic hairs, but it really isn't necessary unless they are going to be showing (like in a bathing suit). for inner hip hairs, you could definitely shave those, though it'd be a little tough to reach!
-celina


I have a friend..well she might be. She is from Taiwan and she has lived in the U.S. for 2-3 years already. What bugs me is this: she doesn't know very much English. And this BUGS me! She'll say something like, "He don't like fish" or something and I'm like DOESN'T! Anyways, that's not all. When we go to the movies or wherever, and she's paying for both of us, she won't talk to the people giving out tickets. She'll make me order them because "she's scared". Scared of being made fun of for her English. And she makes me go with her when she has to talk to a teacher. And we were at a party and we were playing a game where you describe something until someone guesses it. Well she got all quiet and she said that she was about to cry because she doesn't know much English.

Also when she eats she lowers her head to her plate instead of lifting her fork to her mouth. Just everything she does bugs me! I've told her and she started writing me all these notes saying "Are you mad at me? -Your best friend".

She doesnt even try to learn English, she and her family only speak Chinese in their house.

What do I do? (link)
well, not to offend, but it sounds like you are the one that is getting a little bit pissy with her. i mean, not to sound cliche, but she is new here and will take some time to learn customs and language. if she bugs you that much just gradually stop hanging out with her so much and hang around friends that make you feel happier.
-celina


what is a gynocologist, and what do they do??? (link)
a gynocologist or an ob gyn is basically a vagina doctor. they will check you on a normal basis to make sure everything is going alright down there. usually you should start going after you get your first period but most girls don't until they are older.
-celina




i have tan skin, brown eyes, dark brown hair and i was wondering how to find out what eye shadow colors are good for me. i don't want it to like STAND OUT, but i want you to be able to tell it's there. any tips on what colors to use or anything? (link)
use a small amount of a bright color such as a green or a purple. those two colors would look good with your skin tone and eye colors. use mascara to open up your eyes too.
-celina


Hey, I was just wondering, I walked 2 miles today, at a normal pace, could i have lost a pound from doing that? (link)
depending on how much exercise you normally get you could or couldn't have. if you get a good amount of exercise and are healthy you most likely did not. if you were walking a little faster it would have helped you lose more, as well.
-celina


whenever i try on ae or hollister jeans, they like dont fit around my butt..? like it makes my butt look flat.. you know what i mean? its like tight around the area and i dont even have that big of a butt? whats wrong.. like what pants do i have to get? (link)
it could be the way your thighs or back is shaped, but those stores are meant for anorexic models anyway, you're probably better off finding jeans that are much cheaper and will fit great and make you look great at a department store. also, i'm not sure if you have pacsuns whereever you live, but they have amazing jeans on their wall racks for around 2 for $55.
-celina


should you masturbate when you have your period?
would it be bad to?
andd would you recommend it? (link)
hmm, doesn't seem like it would matter. use a tampon so nothing comes out in the process.
-celina


*please females only..*

this is gonna sound very weird..and im sorry.. well im 14/f and i come from a family that is very hairy..yah so far i bet your thinking EW. ok well moving on i have like really bad issues with myself like im very self consious..and like since i come from a hair family my body is like yah..so my toes are ew and my knuckles and armsand tummy are yah u get it..so i was wonding what does anyone recomend..thanks ill rate! (link)
for your toes, knuckles, moustache, and arms, you could use lightening bleach, like Jolen. it comes in a teal box at any drugstore. for your stomach, i would get that waxed or wax it yourself before you have to bare your belly. don't worry about it too much, many girls have the same problem.
-celina


alright so im one of those girls who LOVES to always wear their hair up..well lately ive really been wanting to wear my hair down b.c i want to get this one guys attetion..but yah but when i put it down its always too wavy or curly!! how do i make it so it will look like normal down?! thanks!! i will rate!! (link)
you could always use a straightenting iron, they cost around 20-30 dollars at any walmart or cvs. make sure you use some smoothening product beforehand so your hair doesn't get damaged.
-celina


what do you do with ya tounge when like reallly kissing ?cause i have madeout without tounge but then my "friend" stuck his tounge in my mouth and whatever idc but i just felt stupid because i didnt know what to do with mine..soo can someone help me before the weekend?? thanks so muchh.. (link)
hmm, a tough one. it's different for everybody. but normally, you could just stick your toungue in and out, but gently and not too fast or hard. get a little fancy and twirl your tounge around his if you really wanna get into it.
-celina




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