okay...i was with this guy for a month and then we had sex but the next day an old guy friend called me and we talked for a while even tho i was still at his house. then he got really upset and started yelling at me and i yelled at him saying how he cant talk to me like that and he slapped me across the face. i broke up wit him right then and there and called my sister to come pick me up and the next day he called me saying how hes so sorry he was just going through a lot and has so much stress on his back (which i knew he did) and he called me and asked me to take him back..this was today and i know that i shouldnt but i love him and i have all these feelings for him..what should i do because there is always a chance that he could do it again????
It's almost a positive that he would do it again. I would not take him back. There is no excuse for him hitting you, even if he was under so much stress. Tell your parents, friends, and whoever else that really cares about you. Tell them to make sure that you don't go back to him. Whenever you think about any kind of good feelings that you had for him, remember how much of an asshole he was when he slapped you.
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Ok im Bi and I have a really big crush on my best friend who is straight and a girl. She knows im Bi and she flirts with me all the time as a joke, and ive always taken it as one till I started to get a crush. So now when she flirts I take it for real. I dont know if I should tell her how I feel or just keep my feelings to my self caues I would hate to mess up the relationship bc we have been best friends for 3 years. What should i do?!
Slowly bring it up and judge her reactions. If she seems to be starting to get nervous and stuff, then stop coming on to her right away. You shouldn't just hold your feelings in, but you also don't want to make it so she avoids you.
If she does turn you down, then just forget about being with her in a sexual way right away. But there shouldn't be any big harm in trying to find out how she feels. If she's a really good friend then she'll still be able to hang out and have fun just like before.
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Ok.. I feel really guilty and awful about this but my mind was on a blank and I really really like this kid but he has a girlfriend.. we kissed once before I even knew he had a girlfriend.. but then I found out and i got wicked upset, and I guess he really likes me too. Then one night when we both slept over my friends house.. something happened and now I feel so bad, because all I was thinking was he has a gf wtf am I doing? In his eyes I saw he seemed alittle.. nervous, and teary at the same time.. we made out. His gf and him got into a little fight and weren't speaking when this happened, but still.. i duno.. I told him I was going to wait for him until he broke up with her, if they ever did.. but i got a bf and now I'm stuck on him.. but it's over.. and I tried hanging out with other guys but I was with this guy I like and we just did.. well.. i duno wut to do..
Signed- Confused
If this guy would so willingly cheat on his girlfriend two times, then he really isn't a good guy. Don't wait for him, don't make out with him anymore, just don't waste your time obsessing over him. He sounds like a big jerk.
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Hey I'm having trouble picking what school I'm going to go to this year. I can choose this one school that goes from 12:30 to 3:30 and get all A's there. The only problem is that all the kids there are drugies and I probably wont be making a lot of friends. It's an alternative school so thats why its easy. My other option would be a school with regular hours but I would not be getting good grades there. Mabye C's and I have really bad anxiety about people so the other school would be better. It has only 5 people in each class room. But all my friends are at my school. I need some advice. Wat school should I choose?!?!?!?!?!?!
You should never go to a school simply because it's easy. As much as school sucks, you should go because you need to learn something. Once you get out of High School, you will realize that your going to need to go to college if you want to make a decent living. And if you go to an extra easy high school, then you'll never learn how to handle homework. College is stressful, and it's better to learn how to handle the stress while your still in High School.
Just go to the harder school where your friends are, and try to have as much fun. Don't let your C's bring you down or stress you out so much.
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Ok well i been wid mybf for over 9 months and i have been thinkin bout"IT" lol well i wanted to wait till i was like 16 but i dont think im gunna b able to wait that long cuz im 13 now turnin 14 next month but i feel im conforablen stuff n im almost definately positive my bf iz!! lol so my questions iz do u think i should or do u think im to young?!?!?!?! plz help!! thanx
~*~ Should I?!?!? ~*~
If you can't even type out the word SEX without laughing and putting lol next to it, then your not mature enough to be doing "it"
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i never said it was me! But some of the things that you have said to people! gosh! Just don't reply to this
This counts as a stupid and annoying "question" so, you are helping to make this site unbearable by continuing with this. gosh!! If you don't like what I have to say then don't read it.
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Well don't answer the stupid or annoying questions, just ignore them and go answer one that make sence and isn't annyoing to you!
Don't ask stupid and annoying questions if you don't want people to give stupid and annoying answers.
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Why are you so rude and foul when you answer your questions? Your suppose to be here to help not bring people down! At least try to put effert into the advice you give! It's wrong what you are doing and I'm not trying to tell you what to do, it's your desicion but maybe you should think about what you are saying and how that effects other people some as young as 8-12!
First, maybe you should actually read some of the advice I've given on this site. I take this site very seriously, and it's only stupid and annoying questions that get stupid and annoying answers. I am rude to the people that make this site almost unbearable to come back to, in hopes that they will stop coming here and filling it up with stupid questions.
Secondly, it is stated when you register for this site, that it is for people OVER 13. So, if a little 8-12 year old kid comes on this site and asks a stupid question, then they are doing it against the rules in the first place.
Do not tell me that I am not putting effort into my answers. Ask me a serious question and I'll give it the effort that it deserves.
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ok im almost 13 and im going into the 8th grade. Ive never had a boyfriend in my life. But ive liked guys and i was always afraid if i asked em out theyd reject me and it would go around i would be a bigger loser that i am now because 'i tried to ask out someone more popular than me' or something. because im not a geek or anything but im not popular either. Im like the in-between-kinda person. I know you'll say "just ask em out, who cares what they think" but its easier said than done. I dont know what to do...PLease help me! thanks
I was like that in Middle school and some of High school. Don't just go ask someone out though, what you need to do is learn to be happy with yourself. The only way your going to get over this is to realize that your not a loser, and if someone thinks that you are, then it's their loss.
I don't know how to help you to just be happy with yourself, I'm still sort of working on that. But confidence is really attractive. Just be friends with guys, and maybe you'll actually meet someone that makes you feel good about yourself, instead of someone that makes you too nervous to even talk to them.
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O.K. my family members and all sometimes say that I'm annoying, I have also heard it from some friends, I am 13 years old but I act like I am 5, I try not to but I guess its a habit and I can't help it! Have any tips? How can I not be 'annoying'?
*I RATE*
Here's one thing you could do to not be so annoying... Don't put I RATE after your question. A lot of good advice givers will simply pass by a question that says "I rate"
The people that answer questions like that are only looking to get more fives, instead of actually helping people.
*sigh, look, you asked what to do to stop being an annoying little girl, and I told you what I thought was annoying. If you want to give me a one and call me a bitch, then that just shows more immaturity.
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Hey I'd just like to say to everyone that when people are asking a serious question do you have too be so sarcastic and tell them to kill themselfs?? This is a help sight not somthing to be rude about. Is there anyway people who say things like that can be stoped?
If you have a problem like this, then ask the site administrator if this person can be banned. If he is really being unnecesarily rude then you should have no problem getting him banned, but if he is just joking around and your taking him to seriously, then no, he probably wont get banned. You should be smart enough to not listen to assholes like that.
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i dont know wut to do..i have this love for this boy that i have never felt befor i kno im only 15 but neone can fall in love no matter the age its ove thats wut happens well this boy i been wit for like a yr now on and off break ups but he always came back he always tells me he loves me and im difrent from his other girls but how do i believe him...he told me the other day that he wanted to be with me but he wanted to fuck other gurls...hes a player i knew that from the beginning but hes changing little by little... and i dont know if i should wait for him or move on... i dont think ill ever move on cause he is my first love and shit and i never felt this way bout anyone...its hard i almost killed myself over him...help me please... (i rate)
Thats stupid to think that your in love with someone like that asshole.
It's not love, he does not love you, so move on and get some respect for yourself.
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my neighbor fingered me but i didnt get an orgasm. did he do something wrong?
Most women are unable to reach orgasm through internal stimulation. Tell him to mess with your clit if you want to have an orgasm.
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im 14 and my boy friend of 11 month, who is 15 wants me 2 give him a blow job, im scared b.c ive neva dun it b4 and im scared that he will laff and tell his m8s. we realli luv each otha and i dont no wat 2 do. plze help!!
Why would you think he loves you if you think he would laugh at you and tell all his friends about you giving him head???
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My dog has been sleeping a lot more during the day than usual and i dunno why. She isn't feeling up to going out to play or anything either. I am worried. Will this stop soon? She is 9 years old though and she is healthy too. What is wrong?
Signed- Puppy Love XoXoX
She's getting old. 9 years is pretty old for a dog. When dogs get older even a month can make a lot of difference in they're health. Give her doggy vitamins daily, and you will just have to try harder to get her up to play. When you go outside run around with her and throw the ball for her and just play with her a lot more. She might not be quite as energetic, but she'll be happier that your spending more time with her and wont be as depressed.
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SORRY IT'S SO LONG, BUT I HAD TO SAY IT!!!!
STUFF SOME OF THE MODERATORS ARE SICK OF DEALING WITH (actually im speaking for myself, and i'm not sure but maybe a few others)
the people that ask to be rated, I usually rate them LOW, just because it seems like all they care about are ratings, and they aren't in it for the advice
the people who say I Rate, it's like they're so desperate, that they tell people that they rate, just so they can get better answers, WTF¿?
And what bugs me, are either the non-advice questions, like asking for a screen name(thats what you have friends for)
And, the people who ask the following, I like a guy, I'm Not sure if he likes me, What Should I Do? Uh Hello obvious, TELL HIM!!!
And people who say, My boy Friend wants to have sex, I'm not sure, I almost feel like I'm to young, what should I do? well thats easy, if u have to ask, then the answer's NO
The one thing that gets me is people who say admin please don't delete, HELLO that just makes the admin know that it's a Dumb question
All these repeats, and stupid I Rate, Rate me questions are SO ANNOYING, i just wanted to state that
sorry i know that it wasn't asking for advice, but i just felt like posting that, it just really gets on my nerves, i mean i have done that before, but i've realized how stupid it was!
by the way, if u wanna leave something in my inbox, like a rude reply to this, or just any question, then my name is SoUtHeRn_ChIcKeTy
i don't care if this gets deleted, i just HAD to post it!!
I'm both surprised and very much delighted that you got more posative remarks as opposed to negative.
I like what you said.
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I've been goin out with this guy for about a year now. We both really like each other and I believe it could be love (I'm 18)... we've talked about having sex, we're both virgins and he told me he's ready to have sex with me and wouldn't push me if I wasn't (and he hasn't pushed me at all)... but I don't really know if I am or aren't... so how can I tell for sure if I'm ready?!
He sounds like a great guy, and you sound like a very responsible person, but you shouldn't have to ask this question. When the time comes you will probably just know. Just wait it out, and if something happens, and you feel comfortable, then let it happen. If your uncomfortable at all, then say something, and if he's a good guy, then he'll listen to you and back off a little bit.
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hey, guess who?
I'm glad it is all trendy 'n shit for everyone and their sister to ask for a screen name. But you konw what, if you can't think of one yourself, what the hell? And people asking for nicknames - most people I know get nicknames from their friends, not random strangers on an advice site...
But for the love of God, can we stop it with the "give me a screen name" requests? That's just kinda sad.
I mean, how many of the same exact "question" do we need?
And don't you just love it how people are still telling you to rate them?
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um i was wondering...what does an orgasm feel like? like right before it happens and when it does. im not sure if i almost had one bc if felt like i had 2 pee..it was really weird thx for the advice..xoxo..i rate good!
Actually, you might have almost ejaculated. It's different from an orgasm for a female. I've heard that if you ejaculate when you have an orgasm, then it is ten times more pleasureable than if you just have an orgasm.
But I also had a friend who would ejaculate, and she didn't orgasm, and wasn't fond of it.
But, just so you know, it is impossible to pee while your having an orgasm, so don't hold back if you think your going to have an orgasm, and maybe it will come easier.
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Whats a good place to get supplies for your dog?
Call around to your local dog boarders, or dog day care centers, or animal shelters. They can tell you a lot of good places to get good quality food for your dog. Places like PetSmart abuse the animals that they sell because they are only worried about the money, not the animals themselves... So, you should not give them more business by buying anything from them.
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