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I am so sorry to bug you. But your just the best person who gives me advice.
The other day I had it. I just texted alex and told him "I just have to throw this out there because its eating at me. I like you."
He didn't reply that day or the next day or the next day.
Today he texted me "wyd"
And I said just sitting around wbu
And he asked if I could talk so I called him.
He then continued to explain he's sorry he hasn't replied just he was going through finals at school and things were really hectic. And appologized and wanted to be sure I knew I didn't scare him away or anything.
Then asked me to explain my feelings on what I meant on the text.
I explained that the reason he makes me nervous is because I like him. And I'm one of those people if I feel like I need to say something it will stress me out until I do. And I also explained we don't know eachother very well but I do like him from what I do know and us hanging out. And if he iust liked me as a friend I understood and that's awesome. But I'm not saying if he did like me I want tojust jump into a relationship like that and I just wanted to make sure we were on the same page. Well he said he understood what I meant and everything and that I didn't make anything awkward or weird and thankyou for being open about my feelings.
And that's it! Like he didn't say anything about me liking him otherwise or if he had feelings about me. Just thankyou for being open about mine. What do I do at this point. Idk what this means.I'm lost :(
I best guess is that even if he is crazy about you, he is not going to allow himself to indulge in telling you because he does not feel he will be able to back it up cus it seems he wants to focus totally on school. Maybe females are better at handling focus on school while in a relationship. Men thing about women and sex so much that if there was someone they were allowing themself to get carried away thinking about, a sweetheart, it truly may affect their focus on school. Maybe some guys can handle both at same time. Alex knows himself best. So he is choosing to just remain friends while in school. If you can wait til he's done with school to find out if there could be something more between you, then by all means wait it out. If you don't want to sit around waiting, then you will have to decide what it is you will do. You could wait all that time and then when he is free to pursue you, either he or you or both of you once you've given dating a chance find that you really don't like the other enough for a long term relationship after all. If you had the ability to look into the future, it might be easier. There is no easy solution here. You will also have to consider, while you're waiting for Alex while he's concentrating on school and not you, what would you do if another guy came along who was interested in you. Do you brush him off and wait for Alex? Or do you respond? If fate does bring someone else along, you might want to date the guy to get to know him better and see if there is any chemistry. See if you are attracted and if he is a step up, improvement over Alex. The only way to know is to give something like that a try. Do not settle for someone the same or less than what Alex is to you, only commit to someone is he is even more than you ever dreamed Alex could be. In my life I have made improvements in men I have been with in commited relationships. And at the time I never dreamed there could be someone better.
Not saying give up on Alex, that is your choice...just giving you the ideas of all the possibilities that may come your way.
Good luck dear.
Hi! So I'm 14yr guy and at my school, there's a girl in my grade who ALL the guys would DIE to have her alone for 10 minutes. She's absolutely stunning. Let's call her... Maddie So Maddie the other day, was apparently doing something that was turning all o my friends on. And she came over to our table Sat in my lap and started kissing on my neck and ear. I'm not saying I didn't enjoy that, but I have a girlfriend who I (I'm a little young to really call it love) deeply care for. But all the guys at my school tell me i should dump my gf and date Maddie. Now I will , Maddie is prettier then my grade But she's a complete bi#ch (unlike my gf) . So how can I tell her I don like her without upsetting her (I'm NOT gonna be a heartbreaker) and without pissing my friends off? I'm not dumping my GF.
Lets face it, a girl like Maddie is nothing but trouble. She acts like she wants sexual attention from all guys, any one will do as long as he's willing to use his "equipment" on her. And obviously your friends would have taken her up on that if she approached them. If she is what she seems to be, they will all get their chance.
Glad that at your age, you know how to pick a great girl. Your friends are young and don't know much about life yet. You need to not worry about hurting Maddies feelings, she'll find another guy to take her attention off you but she really doesnt care deeply enough about any person. Just tell her that you are off limits and you have absolutely no interest in her.
What I am more concerned about is since it was witnessed by quite a few people, is this scene getting back to your girlfriend. The fact that you didn't visibly protest to her on the spot might not look good for you. You need to put yourself right now in your girlfriends shoes. How would you feel if a story got back to you about some jock at school walking up to her, grabbing her and kissing her right there in front of everyone. And she didn't yell at him afterwards or slap him... Most peoples minds go into temporary shock at something totally unexpected like that and rational thought doesn't click into gear at the moment. Its only later you find yourself thinking, I wish I'd said this or done that. If I were you, I'd save this email and my response to show your girlfriend if anything does come up.
I could say to approach her and tell her outright what happened before she learns through someone else. You have nothing to hide. You did not go after Maddie. And yes, any guys body will react to having a female touch him like that...it doesnt mean his mind and heart are in it, mens bodies are naturally all created to react that way. It should not be seen as a bad thing by your girlfriend. Your girlfriend likely already knows and has heard about the reputation this girl has. A girl like that does not need any encouragement or flirting from a guy to choose to go after him. You never know but some gals are upset to see a couple dating and happy with each other and can't stand that she doesn't have it too. So she plays a game of trying to make the other girl jealous so she breaks up with her guy. But she doesnt necessary go after the guy once he's dumped, she just can't stand seeing other people happy. I am writing some of this for your girlfriend in mind to read if anything goes wrong. Blessings to you and your girl young man
I recently broke up with my boyfriend of two years after a struggle of about 1 year and 6 months for our relationship to get better.
Let me explain, when we met he was happy, cheerful, kind, generous and had many friends that loved him. He treated me well and we had an amazing time together. About 6 months into our relationship he injured his back and had sciatic chronic pain from him. Since then he completely changed, he became extremely selfish, mean, didn't want to do anything anymore, and alienated all of his friends. We fought all the time and finally he said it was because he was depressed. I helped him see a psychologist and get help and he seemed to be getting better then went back to being nasty. I finally couldn't take his negativity and hate for everything anymore and broke up with him. it just felt like he didn't care/wasn't going to change.
A week later he came back to me crying and with some intense emotions about how he couldn't stay away because he loves me so much. And he tells me he had been taking painkillers for his back originally but when the pain went away he didn't stop and was addicted to them for two years. He says he believes this is why he has been such an a**hole to me it controlled his life and made him not want to do anything, get mad at everything and treat me as bad as he did. He says he is done with them and quit completely and took a week to go through the withdrawals and will never take them again and he wants to prove to me how this past year has not been him and he's really not like that.
My dilemma is whether I should forgive him or believe him. Does opiate abuse turn people into jerks, makes them mean or have anger issues, and makes them depressed, pushing everyone away? Does anyone have experience with this that can give me some advice on wether it's smart to take him back. And also is it possible for someone to stop addictive behavior? Even if he stops for now won't he start up again?
Any help would be greatly appreciated.
First question: Yes it is possible for pain and painkiller meds to totally change a person. My husband has a childhood friend who updates him about her life. She is the caretaker of her husband who was injured and would never be normal again and he developed a debilitating disease on top of that, He went from a sweet loving person to verbally abusive, depressed cranky a totally different person and will be like that til the day he dies.
Of course forgive him for how he treated you. Forgiveness is a good thing to practice. But forgiving does not necessarily mean you automatically let him back in your life.
He may truly be in love with you and if not really off the meds willing to say anything to get him back. He will have to be willing to do what ever it takes to build "trust" with you again. It may mean going to his doctor and him willingly being tested for any drugs in his body. Although some people can kick such addictions on their own, it's very hard to do. If it was easy..all smokers who wanted to quit would have been able to do so on their own by sheer willpower and avoidance of their addictive substance. More people with serious addictions end up going through a treatment center program. I would trust that much quicker than someone having kicked it on their own.
If he doesnt have any more pain and there is no likelihood of it reccuring again, then there should be no desire in him to want to get back to taking pain meds. Hopefully you both can put this behind you and move on to a healthy life together
I need to have a girl friend. I'm 12 can you help me?
You must learn the difference between a "Need" and a "Want". A need is something that is necessary for organisms to live a healthy life. Needs are distinguished from wants because a deficiency would cause a clear negative outcome, such as dysfunction or death. Needs can be objective and physical, such as food, or they can be subjective and psychological, such as the need for self-esteem.
So example, you need food, fresh air, clothing, shelter. If you lack a girlfriend that won't cause you harm or eventual death. So it's not that you
"Need" a girl, but that you "Want" a girl. A want is To desire greatly; wish for something.
Not everyone at your age finds a girlfriend/boyfriend. Besides those who do, statistics say only last about 5 months on the average before they break up.
But to help steer you in the right direction, learn how to be the kind of guy that ALL women of any age will be impressed with, as to how you treat them and talk to them, girls your age, and mom and her friends...nothing romantic or sexual about this. If you can learn that, you will never have a lack of ladies in your life no matter what age you are. Here's an article I read a couple days ago. The principle of how to talk to little girls works same for teens and adult women, learn it now dear.
http://latinafatale.com/2011/07/21/how-to-talk-to-little-girls/
I'm a girl and I turned 13. Its му party soon and I don't know what to do. Obviously not a pool party cs its winter. Its boys and girls and we quite matture. Please give theme ideas, things to do, anything. Му mom doesn't wanna spend a lot of money soo yeah. Thanks x
When my daughters were that age, they wanted to simply be able to go to the mall with their friends on a Saturday with their birthday money what they got from us and what If she is messing with their friends gave em and they went to the mall and helped her decide how to spend her money. Some guys are into that too. Only you would know if this would work. Due to their age, I drove them and other moms drove too and we dropped them off and made a time to return for them like 4 pm. Then bring them back to the house for pizza and birthday cake. It's the only thing i can think of.
For the past few months my sister has been getting sick a lot. It seems like a normal cold/flu sometimes but other times shell just wake up puking and sleep all day claiming shes sick, and then is better the next day. I starting to think she's doing some kind of drugs because her boyfriend is a low life and influences bad things upon her. I know for a fact they smoke some kind of pills on foil. No specific facts about that though. The past few weeks she's allllways complaining shes really tired and she always has a headache or a migrane. A lot of times she blames it on stress, but that seems pretty far fetched to me. She gets probably 7 hours of sleep from what I can tell, which should be plenty (unless she's staying up all night and I'm not aware) she's also always broke. Idk where all her money goes either. Shes never been a very smart person with her money or doesn't make smart decisions so I'm starting to worry that her boyfriend is getting her into bad things that are causing these problems. We've lost closeness since he's been around so I can't ask her myself because I know I won't get a straight answer.
I'm 18, she's 24, her boyfriend's 27.
Could it be that she is pregnant, even if she is taking a birth control?
I have no idea what side effects smoking pills that should be taken orally would do but no matter what medication, if it is taken in any way other than what the manufacturer says or what Dr. or pharmacist says, then she could be harming herself.
Since it is unknown what she is taking, there is no way to know what the consecuences of taking it could be such as damaging organs, being addicted, or possible death.
Likely all her money is going to buy more drugs to take. If this is alienating her from family when she used to be close, then it's serious. Talk to all family about what you suspect and all go talk to her at some point encouraging her to go with you all to see a Dr. If he can confirm with some tests what is in her system, that she is on some bad stuff, then she'd need to be willing to check into a treatment center. Since she is of legal age, I don't think anyone can force her to go. I am sorry to hear this.
Ok, I wont say how young I am but I love masturbating regularly and I can get enough of it... I even have myself a sex master... I feel like a whore and even worse when I'm at school I rub myself with my pens and occasionally finger myself.
Be honest... Am I a slut?
A slut is what society considers a promiscuous woman
characterized by getting involved in indiscriminate sexual encounters, means you're not picky, you'll have sex with anything that has a cock, especially having sexual relations with a number of partners on a casual basis.
I don't hear masturbation mentioned in any dictionary translation of the word slut.
Some people have a very high libido. It shouldn't be a problem unless it starts to interfere with regular life, distracting from getting good grades at school for one.
What you are experiencing sounds like Hypersexuality which i found by looking on Wikipedia. Although there may be some things medically affecting you to cause this, if these are ruled out, no one seems to have any clue how to help yet. Heres the link:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hypersexuality
What is the legal age to purchase male condoms in Louisiana?
I haven't heard of Planned Parenthood turning anyone away due to age so check with them.
i ran away and i need help im sad and im 13 i dont know wat to do
There is a number you can call for help.
1-800-RUNAWAY
This is something they deal with all the time and are better equipped to advise and help teens.
If your home life was the problem and you feel its too dangerous to return, you need to be up front and tell all the facts. If home is an okay place and you need help getting back, let them know.
Being on your own at your age is a dangerous
thing.
Find a pay phone and make the call right away. Or if someone is willing to let you use their phone, do so.
You dont need money for an 800 number call
Find a pay phone. Although they are not as prevalent as they used to, you can check for pay phones in gas stations, on street corners and near the restrooms in restaurants and bars.
Pick up the receiver once you find a pay phone, and then dial "1," then "800" and then the seven-digit number. The owner of the 1-800 number pays for the service, so you do no have to worry about it.
Wait for the phone to ring. When you are finished with your call, hang up the phone.
Okay so a couple of weeks ago I was thinking that me and my crush were boyfriend and girlfriend but now he went and asked out another girl. I've tried everything but it's now working? Should I make him jealous and date someone else? I don't know!?!?!
Having crushes isn't always a 2 way street. One may be really attracted to the other but the other not attracted back as anything other than just friend...not romantically.
1. Never change who you are to attract someone because you are not being true to yourself and though it might initially attract someone, because you are not the real you, eventually the person is reminded of that and loses interest or loses respect.
2. Never try to force someone to change who they are for you or attempt to force someone to date you. You'd be asking them to not be true to themselves, and become someone other than who they really are.
If he is not into you, there is no one you could date that would make him jealous. In attempting to hurt someone else, the only person who is being hurt and still feeling miserable will be you. Forget about him and move on. But don't go rushing to find a replacement just so you can say you have a boyfriend. Wait for the right one to come along.
I'm 19 now and I'm not sure to have a baby when I'm a little older because I have a big familie of 11 and I'm not sure whether having a baby would benifit me!i I have my own apartment and everythin like that. I do love children but I've been round children my whole life is their anyway to make It easier to decide?
Kitten lover already addressed issues why or why not
to have children. I want to focus some thoughts on just you.
Since you were in a family of 11, and you are finally on your own, it's time for you to enjoy time to yourself without another person nosing in to see what your up to. It will take time to get used to at first and may feel lonely. But it's a good time to get to know yourself better, take time for pursueing interests, hobbies, schooling and trying to make friends of your own choosing, its real different from the siblings you had no choice but to relate to.
Make sure any significant love in your life is okay with waiting for kids. As for contraceptive that is good long term, cost effective, no hormonal side affects and once removed you can start trying for kids right away without waiting, and is the closest to being as effective against pregnancy as tubes tied, that would be the copper IUD. If I were 19 again, I would do it all over again and still use the IUD. It made my life so carefree that i could enjoy my life without remembering to take a pill or side effects, spontaneous sex. You have plenty of time to have kids. Tho married at 20, i had mine at 27, 30 and age 33 and don't regret it. Waiting til older makes for a calmer less stressed mom. Our frontal lobes of our brains don;t finish growing until we reach our mid twenties. This is our good decision making skills area. It is lots less stress if you wait until mid twenties to start.
My sister and her boyfriend got in a car accident back in November, he had a bunch of broken bones so they prescribed him perkaset (don't know how it's spelt) I believe he complained about how they weren't strong enough and called them "perk 5's" and a few times he had "perk 10s" instead of just taking the pill he crushed them and smoked them in aluminum foil I believe (the kind you use in the kitchen to cover food) he said it made them stronger or something idk. Anyways, to the point it has obviously been a long time since the wreck and he is still continuing to smoke whatever it is that he's smoking, and he's gotten my sister involved also. I'm not sure if they're smokin the same stuff or different, but I know it smells bad and still involves foil. Not that I can get much info about this with the lack of knowledge that I'm providing, but I'd like to get an idea of what this stuff is doing to them. About how much it's costing and etc. I'm assuming this is why she's always "broke" and his friend mentioned that he's had friends die because of it, and that he's told them they're addicted and need to stop and they both deny it.
Pretty much any info will help, just know this is for my personal curiosity, I can't help them or force them to stop what they're doing. Thank you for your time.
Percocet has the two ingrediants acetaminophen and oxycodone and is considered a narcotic.
Some people don't feel pain relief with oxycodone...i've had it once for help to get by over the weekend til dentist could take me as emergency on Monday.To me, it was like taking a placebo...no effect at all. i had to suffer in pain. Other people can become addicted to it in an average of 3 weeks time if just taken as pills. Taking an medication doubled up or distorted from it's prescribed use is asking for trouble with your body. It is possible this will lead them into attempting to manufacture illegal drugs to sell as well as use personally. If his friends know people making this stuff and dying from it, you can bet it's illegal. The others are making it for the money. He could go to jail if caught and your sis might go along to jail for aiding and abetting.
He needs to let the doctor know that what he is taking is not helping him manage the pain. See what else they can prescribe. There are many other avenues to try yet. Accupuncture or certain types of massage help some people. Marijuana helps others if a doctor will prescribe it as a treatment. Each of our bodies are unique so what works on one person won't necessarily work on another. If it is important to him to get rid of his pain, rather than make an illegal drug, for self use and remaining hooked on it, then he should do all he can. Please look up on line the Pain Whisperer. This guy will have a TV show soon, he is teaching his method to others so that his technique will be available not just where he lives but everywhere. People with chronic pain their entire lives are healed with his non evasive treatment after just one time. This after peoople have had multiple corrective surgeries to help.
I like this guy, weve known eachother for about a year but I'm just now coming to the realization that I'm pretty sure he's just being my "friend" because he wants to sleep with me. Is there any way to get him to actually be my friend? Lately I've been trying to hangout with him hoping we can actually do something instead of it being a make out session. I think I have a decent chance of him liking me if he gets
To know me I'm just awkward and shy and have a hard time being myself/friendly infront of people especially a guy that makes me so nervous. I just want to know if I have a chance atthis, because I don't want to wasted time trying jus to end up hurt. Idk how guys brains work unfortunately.
I'm 18, he's 19.
I am allowed to edit not start a new response so the shyness overcoming piece is added at the bottom
Some women who are awkward and shy will because of the uncomfortableness of talking to new guys, just latch on to the first one who pays any kind of attention to her and stay with him. Don't let this happen to you if you have any misgivings.
So one thing that is important is gaining your self confidence, inner strength, and boldness to know what you want, ask for it and not settle for anything less.
Guys who have an agenda, who want just sex or want someone who is dependant on him emotionally or financially cus it boosts his low self esteem and makes him feel good, or he likes the power trip of bossing and controling someone tend to be drawn to women that appear to be weaker, a pushover. I may look like that but once the guys start talking to me and discover I am strong, certain guys will back away quickly cus they dont like it.
So one point i am making is to work on you. Go hunting for the right self help book for you. Maybe at the same time find one on understanding the basic mechanics of most men although each one will have his own unique set of differences.
Your being nervous and not being able to hold eye contact is your body reacting because you are initially attracted to a guys looks and maybe that invisible energy they put out that you pick up on. If you can learn to understand the physiology of how our bodies act, react, body language, energy field, signs of interest, attraction, arousal...then you are better equipped to interact with men and be able to pick up on things that conversation or words say otherwise or don't share at all. If you want to work on the shyness. I was given a step by step process how to get over it when i was your age and it worked. Let me know and I will share it with you. Its short and simple to read, about 5 steps and you go at your own pace that you are comfortable with. If you try to rush it, it wont work for you.
Overcome Shyness
I used to be so shy I wouldn't get up to use the pencil sharpener in grade school because I didn't want the other kids to stare at me. I refused to do book reports for fear of speaking in front of the class. So my grades would suffer. In contrast, my dad was a very friendly extroverted person and always bringing home new friends he had made. The kids liked it cus these “uncles” would bring candy for the kids and many had accents from around the world with lots of interesting stories too.
It took until I was about 16 before I decided I was sick and tired of being so shy. I didn't have the guts to just switch behavior and start talking. Strange how I never thought to talk to my dad about that and get help from him. So I prayed and asked God for help (He knows each of us better than anyone )
and here's the answers I got. It sure helped me and I know it will help you. You can skip any steps you already have mastered.
None of this involves using people you already know because you already have some comfort level there For this exercise, you will have to drop the teaching, “Never talk to strangers”. Just use common sense and talk to people in public places where other people are around and don't go off alone with anyone. So here's your lesson.
1. Smile at strangers every day as you come across them. When you are comfortable with this, move on to step 2
2. Smile and add saying hello to people you don't know. This is already harder because your mind will be going, "They're gonna think I'm nuts cus I am saying hi and they dont even know me." When you can do this without feeling shy, move to step 3
3. Smile and say hi to and then pay a compliment to another person you don't know. It could be telling the grocery clerk you love her necklace. Keep paying compliments to people until you can do so without being fearful of their reaction or simply the act of doing it.
4. Smile, say Hi, and start a conversation with a stranger. Here's an example. When I'd be at a clothing rack and another woman was there...no matter her age, I would make a comment to her about the clothing. I'd pulling off the rack something that looks absolutely hideous and showing it to her, "Look at this. Can you imagine people wanting to wear this. It would make them look like a......" Or "Even though I am small, I have a hard time finding things in my size, do you have the same problems? Keep trying like to get responses from a person. If they don't open up and start responding and sharing some of their story or thoughts then they are part of the 10 % of people who are hermit like and don't like being around people or talking to them. I took a class that taught about personality types and discovered that 90% of people are very friendly but will not start conversation first. If you can learn to start conversation first, in every situation, you will find that the majority of people respond in a very friendly way. They won't find the fact that you start talking too weird. Once they figure you're a naturally friendly person you will see them willingly respond back and share bits and pieces of information and such.
I was trying to pick ripe but not over ripe melon one time when an older woman was tapping and listening to the melons. I asked what she was doing and she explained that there is a certain sound it makes so I learned something. Later we bump into each other in another aisle, and I say, "Well Hello again!" Her response, "Hello again. Do you use coupons?" "Sometimes." "Do you buy this product," she shows me something in her cart, "Yes I do." "Well I happen to have a coupon for a great deal on it if you'd like," and without waiting for my response reaches into pocket and hands it to me. You'd be amazed at the conversation you could have with people and be able to share helpful info with them or vice versa. And sometimes in the conversing you may find people who you have some things in common with and you decide to keep in touch with and exchange cell numbers and /or get their name for facebook friending.
This should help you.
I'm 15 and live with my mom and recently we moved into a nice house with a nice back garden and we wanted to get some. hickens and was just wondering if anyone had some good advice on how to care for them and the basic needs of chickens and what you need in order to keep them
Check with your local city offices to see if they have any problems with that. Some urban areas have laws against raising chickens in your yard.
If its okay here's what i observed from renting on property where the owner had chickens.
They had a permanent large chicken run about 5 1/2 ft high. 15 ft longInstead of chicken wire, they had a more sturdy wire in square pattern. But along the ground for about 18 inches they had lots of chicken wire as well to keep rats from going in. The ground did not have a blade of grass because they will eat anything. So besides grains, corn, you can fee them your apple peelings and any parts of veggies you don;t want, your grass clippings. From time to time they bought hay to spread down so they weren't living in mud. They had a roomy hen house. Chicken coops are known to smell bad. But the only time I smelled anything was on days where the temp outside was hot like 80 degrees. If you wish, there are people who sell portable chicken coops on wheels on line or the plans to build your own. That way after some time you can relocate to another area and put out seed to replant the patch they ate bare. Having chickens range free in your yard means having proper fencing, so little cracks where they can get out. And while dogs may not be able to get to them, neighbors cats certainly can scale anything to come in and entertain themselves with your chickens. So a coop and run are best.
I've read online that if you massage your boobs they can grow a cup size in 30 days. The thing is i dont know how to massage them the proper way . Sooo if any information please help.. thanks .
My ex wasn't happy with me as I was and wanted me to try anything that was reported to make breasts larger. I did it to humor him although I didn't think logically or scientifically that they would work. I can tell you that the massage doesn't work, the creams don't work and the hypnotizing doesn't work, listening to tapes while you sleep doesn't work. Finally I had enough and said I wasn't trying anything else. I was looking for something else yesterday and accidently came across the following site which I highly recommend you go through many pics of. Its a site for women by women on what normal breasts look like. Many shots are from teenagers and 20's. There are some of the flat women who nursed many kids. Differing nipples and sizes and sagging and two breasts different sizes. And the women write about how they felt about themselves how their boyfriends have no prob. with how they look. Yeah, my ex was an a hole for wanting to change my breasts. Since I left him i had plenty of relationships and all the men who were attracted to me were not attracted to big breasted women, its personal taste. My youngest daughter has one breast larger than the other. Her boyfriend is perfectly happy with her. Heres the site:
http://www.007b.com/breast_gallery.php
Ok, I'm a 19 year old female and I like to put a lot of different things in my vagina. Sometimes I like to masturbate while in a hot tub or in a mudpit. Is there any better way to fulfill these weird desires or am I weird?
I have known women who confessed why they liked hottubs, the jets are strong enough that the water hits harder than a vibrator on the clit and they get good orgasms. So i tried it once. Yes it works great. I dont own a hot tub so I dont have the chance to do so regularly. Getting mud inside you I would be concerned about. Even the possibility of too much chemically treated water getting up inside too often isn't a good idea only because the vagina is a little ecosystem that is easily unbalanced. Using just douches, soap and water is enough to upset the balance of good bacteria. It washes out all the bad and good bacteria. Without the good bacteria, you will be getting yeast infections and vaginitis. Some women get it more frequently than others. When I stopped the harsh cleansing practice, i no longer get yeast infections. Use of plain water is best.
As to using anything else, vegetables, etc...the chemicals and fertilizers that may be on them should be rinsed or scrubbed off. It's not weird to want to use different things, just pay attention to your body and if you have troubles afterwards, discontinue use and practice of those fetishes.
My Sister Let Me HAVE One Of Her Games, And Now She's Wanting It Back. I Already Have A Lot On There And I Really Love That Game. It's $60, But I Found One On eBay (Reliable Seller) For Less... But There's A Problem. I Have No Money. My Parents Don't Let Me Do Chores And They Won't Get It For Me, Either. My Birthday Is Coming Up In 3 Months, And I Asked If They Could Get It For Me For An Early Birthday Present But They Said No. Any Tips On What To Do? I Really Don't Want To Wait, And I Don't Know How To Get Money.
It's nice she shared it with you but unless she said she was giving the game to you clearly as a gift to keep, then you can not be hogging it to yourself, it is hers.
I grew up in a time where if you wanted something you found ways to earn it yourself. My sisters and I babysat, brother did a paper route. A friend walked dogs for neighbors. My own daughters when grade school age did lemonade stand, selling cut extra flowers from my garden with my permission, selling rocks painted to look like smily faces or lady bugs, and drawings and they really made money.
Yes, things are more expensive now but it is a good thing to learn how to earn your own things. Why? Because of your hard work to get it, you'll appreciate it more and take good care of your things you bought not that you don;t do that now. Your parents love you and because of that their heart wishes to give and give, all parents feel that. We hold back because we don't want to spoil our kids and want to teach them a little self reliance appropriate to their age.
Learning to wait is a good thing. I have nothing to say how to get what you want instantly because there really is no way. When it's your hard earned money, you may find it interesting after a while how what you find important to buy has changed. I did the same as a teen. Saving my cash till it added up more and more. My parents couldn't afford a bike for my youngest sister so she could bike ride with her older siblings. I was the one who bought her a bike not expecting to be paid back because it was more important to me that she be able to ride with us. Earning your own money gets you to think about what is really important to you. You stop thinking about yourself first and gratifying all your desires.
Hi, what does this mean when a boyfriend of 2 and a half years says,''i do love you and want to spend my life with you,''? Thanks guys!
wow, sounds clear to me. No one wants to spend their life with someone they are not in love with. Can you see your self married til your dying day to a guy who does not love you? Of course not. He is seriously in love with you.
If you are of legal age, then its a matter of planning a wedding. If you both are still under age, then he is telling you that he wants to marry you as soon as that is possible. He doesnt want you to think he is not as serious as he is about you for fear another could come along and try to take you away from him.
So there's a guy I met a few moths ago and he saw me and I "caught his eye" (btw so sweet :) ) and we started talking and he fell for me, and I fell for him a Little bit. So we became super close friends (we are both 14) and he helped me through a break up with my obsessive boyfriend and it just felt like he was always there for me. And he's absolutely SUPER CUTE AND SWEET. So we were talking about hanging out and dancing and we did both, but while we were dancing, our eyes met and we kissed (under the moon and it was so romantic)
And we lied down and I fell asleep in his arms and he just sat there brushing my hair an trolling me i was beautiful. But, he's going to a different high school then I am. We really want to date, but we won't see each other very much. I really want to date him and he wants to date me. But we have a distance issue. Please help me! Thank ya! :)
Makes me curious how you met to begin with unless you were at the same highschool but his family is moving to another school district.
Either way, he sounds wonderful. If he still wants to keep in touch and see you...catch a bus on the weekend to see each other. Or your family is planning a fun family day, ask if you can invite a friend along. Let them know its a friend who is a male, and refrain from saying boyfriend if your parents have a 'dating' age boundary. Thats a way to hang out together, but no privacy..yes. its better than not seeing him at all.
During the week, as long as you can get your homework done, spend time on facebook or texting or on phone together. As soon as you get to driving age, it should be easier to keep in touch.
I have had a friends w/benefits situation for the past 5 years and I have developed feelings for my partner. Well, recently I told him that I could not continue this (but I did not tell him how I felt about him) and he said he understood. He has other girls that he can get sex from but he still wants to have sex with me. Why? Could he possibly have feelings for me?
If he had fallen for you and just like you didn't want to say anything, how could you know? Then again, he said he understood instead of looking stricken.
Now if you had said, "Dan I know we agreed on a friends with benefits situation only. Since my feelings are getting stronger than that, I feel I need to stop this relationship because it's not fair to expect more from you." he would know why you were cutting it off and that gave him an opportunity right there to say something if he was developing strong feelings for you.
Keep in mind for any future situation to give a person enough info to reveal how they feel without having to ask them how they feel. If he keeps contacting you saying he misses the sex... you could take your chance then to reveal something. 'Dan, I miss the sex too, it was great. But I didn't tell you enough earlier' and then explain why you'd rather cut your losses. That you can't do the FWB thing while having fallen in love with him. If he's a really dense guy, at least now he will get it and have a last chance to tell you how he feels if he does have feelings for you that go beyond friendship.
Otherwise, don't over think it and just go on with your life. You deserve to find the man who can't stand being apart from you, not cus he's needy but because all of life is more fun and exciting with you in it, even the mundane tasks like grocery shopping and doing dishes.