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I need advice
I need to have a girl friend. I'm 12 can you help me?
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I agree with Dragonflymagic. There is a difference between want and need. It's okay to want a girlfriend. But if you don't want a girlfriend but you feel like you need one to prove something, then you should re-think your decision.
But I'm pretty sure when you wrote your question you meant that you really want a girlfriend and you want to know how to get one. Well the best way to get a girlfriend is to just be yourself. Show her the real you. Try to be her friend and get to know her first before you ask her out. Alot of people make the mistake of asking someone out or dating someone only to find out they have nothing in common. That's why it's important to get to KNOW SOMEONE FIRST BEFORE YOU DECIDE TO DATE THEM.
I hope this helps.
~Andrew~
P.S. Girls like guys with good hygiene.
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You must learn the difference between a "Need" and a "Want". A need is something that is necessary for organisms to live a healthy life. Needs are distinguished from wants because a deficiency would cause a clear negative outcome, such as dysfunction or death. Needs can be objective and physical, such as food, or they can be subjective and psychological, such as the need for self-esteem.
So example, you need food, fresh air, clothing, shelter. If you lack a girlfriend that won't cause you harm or eventual death. So it's not that you
"Need" a girl, but that you "Want" a girl. A want is To desire greatly; wish for something.
Not everyone at your age finds a girlfriend/boyfriend. Besides those who do, statistics say only last about 5 months on the average before they break up.
But to help steer you in the right direction, learn how to be the kind of guy that ALL women of any age will be impressed with, as to how you treat them and talk to them, girls your age, and mom and her friends...nothing romantic or sexual about this. If you can learn that, you will never have a lack of ladies in your life no matter what age you are. Here's an article I read a couple days ago. The principle of how to talk to little girls works same for teens and adult women, learn it now dear.
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