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Is it weird for an African-American girl to say things like "Dude", "Narley", "Hot", etc.? (link)
not its not weird at all say what ever you would like and if someone is against you saying that and has a problem with you saying it just ignore them

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what is the best product to use on acne? (link)
i tried so many things from clean & clear to clearasil and so much more none worked
i also tried proactive and thats one of the things that actually work
you should try it
simply go to www.proactive.com
to get more information
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ok i was just wondering if anyone knew of any hair products that will make your hair straighter...
i used to use an iron to straighten my hair but that REALLY kills your hair....so now i use remington wet 2 straight hair straightener...it makes my hair puffy and frizzy...
does anyone know of shampoo that straightens your hair...or a GOOD hair straightener...
i just dont want frizzy hair...so just ANY hair products that doesnt make your hair frizzy...and makes it straighter...

please and thank you!!! (link)
what i do is use my Conair Ceremic Technology straightening iron and after i put BioSilk Therapy in my hair its sorta like oil for your hair to make it not frizzy and dry you should try it out
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does anyone know any songs to dance to or just rock to or cheer to or anything like that? i dont care what type of music it is. thanks (link)
Wisin y Yandel - Rakata
is such a good song to dance to
also try
Usher - Yeah
Rupee - Tempted To Touch
Rihana - Pon De Replay
Pussycat Dolls - Don't Cha
Daddy Yankee - Gasolina, like You
Da Buzz - Alive
you could also try
50 Cent - Disco Inferno
Lloyd Banks - On Fire

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I feel so ugly.. no matter what I do, I'm always comparing myself to girls that are prettier than me, and putting myself down... I always feel like I'm not worth anything because I feel ugly.. What can I do to raise my self-esteem or make myself prettier??? (link)
i used to be like that too but then i got over it and you should do the same
your just stressing your self out by doing this
you might not know this but those girls that you think are prettier then you might be doing the same thing you do - compare them selves to other girls, every one does that
but thats not going to get you to feel better
im sure you are a very pretty girl every one is beautiful in the inside and out thats because every one is different in their own special way and they are unique
take a piece of paper and a pen and list all the good qualities you have about you im sure there are so many of them
and sweety stop comparing yourself to other girls ever one is beautiful in their own way including you

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i was just wondering what the website or where do you go to download the program or whatever to go on more than one sn (aim) at a time? thanks in advance. (link)
on aim you can link up to 7 screennames
if you go to My Aim on your AIM window and click Manage Linked Screennames you could add the s/n

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does anyone know any sad and depresing songs i can listen to. break up songs, madning songs, or sad songs. ill rate 5s. (link)
Divine - Lately

Amanda Perez - I'm Sorry, I Pray

3 Doors Down -Here Without You

Backstreet Boys - Crawling Back To You

Eamon - I Don't want you Back

Natalie - goin' Crazy, Emptieness

Fantasia Barrino - Truth is

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hey im 13 and my girlfriend is 19 and we do everything together..go to the movies, mall, make out, and more! the only problem is that i think she might be seeing someone else...whenever she picks me up to go somewhere shes always late..what should i do?

-lover boy (link)
this might not be what you would like to hear but since you are only 13 and she is 19
i say dump her chances are she is seeing some one else some one her own age

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i went out with this guy like 5 months ago, but we broke up after 1 day because this girl from my school started a rumor that i was using him even though i wasn't, but then 2 months ago, he asked me out again and i said yes, and now we're still going out, but i don't really like him anymore because i got to know him a lot better and now i know how he really is. i was going to brake up with him yesterday, but before i did, he gave me all these presents and said that he was so glad that we were going out again, and that he hopes it lasts really long. and he still sort of doesn't know if i used him or not, and if i just brake up with him right after he gives me all this stuff, then he's gona think i just used him again, so what should i do? should i wait for like a month or something so that it's not right after he gave me all the presents and he doesn't think that i used him, or should i just go ahead and just brake up with him? i don't want to wait because i don't like him, but if i don't wait he'll think i just used him, and it'll also hurt his feelings because he's liked me for 2 years now and he's been trying to get me to go out with him ever since.
please help, i rate high for peeps with good answers!!! (link)
it might hurt him alot but you really should tell him because staying in a ralationship where one person is pretending to be interested in the other is not right
explain to him your feelings and how you think its best if you two broke up

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how do you get the hearts to fall fromt he top of a myspace page? (link)
its a code IM me anytime on AIM and ill give it to you
or you could just go to www.myspacehtml.net and find it there


Hey. Well, i just bought my hair straightener yesterday at JCPenny's it was $130. And i haven't used it yet but someone told me that u have to buy like some gresse or some oil to put on after or before doing it. Is that true.or can u just do it like that without putting anything. And if true can yall tell me what to buy, and were to get it from. Thanksss.
Brenda (link)
i dont use any oil when i straighten my hair and i have wavy/curly hair and it comes out nice and straight so i dont really think you need the oil

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Does anybody know any good sites to get like surveys and quotes for your profile, or live journal? I rate 5's!! THANKS! (link)
for a live journal try
www.xanga.com

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i've been having trouble going to sleep... any help? (link)
hey hun same thing with me l0l

each night before you go to bed eat a spoonful of honey
that should get you to sleep
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I haven't even had my period for a year and it comes like every two weeks and lasts like 5 days... it sucks! Is this normal?

Thanks! (link)
you should talk to your mom and have her take you to the doctor

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does anybody kno any really good websites to get animal layouts for xanga? or just really good layouts? plz help i rate high! (link)
look on xanga or if you would like me to find you some then IM me anytime on AIM

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ok well i had my period.. 2nd time now.. and i dont know.. like how many times a day should i change my pad/ tampond?? or like my mom never had the talk with me so idk what to expect (link)
every 3 - 4 hours it depends on how heavy/light the flow is

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hey does anyone know the name of the song that kid rock and that one girls sings..it came out a couple years ago...its like she put her picture away or sumtin....nd who's the girl's name?? ill rate high ♥ (link)
Kid Rock ft. Sheryl Crow - Picture

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i just had the greatest oral sex of my life, with was with my mom. for a while now i've been wanting to lick and suck pusssy.. i loved it.. butis it wrong? she gave me an orgasm that shook thehouse, literally. i dont know if its wrong.. im so confused. i made themove on her and we've been fuccking around for like.. 6 months, sometimes my dad would join in too. i love it but i just wanted someone's input on it.
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Hornygurll (link)
if you enjoy it go right ahead!



i've just had sex with my dad. before this i was a virgin, he came in me and i think i could be pregnant. it was the most amazing night of my life.. but its my dad. what should i do. (link)
wow!
well if you didnt use protection you most likely are pregnant
take a pregnancy test and if you turn out not to be pregnant i dont think you should tell any one about this unless you would like to
if you are pregnant then i really dont know what to tell you hun your going to have to tell people what happeend
just hope you arent pregnant

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i love my boyfriend and he loves me also he doesn't have a problem in opening up to me bout how he feels but i can open up and let him into my life what should i do? (link)
it seems that you are shy and you should just take your time

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