I am a girl and was wondering if any other girls have the same thing that I have. Well this is going to sound really gross, but here goes. I have hair growing inside of my butt cheeks, right near my anus. It's not just fine hair either, it's dark and course, like the same type of hair that I have growing on my vagina. I goes all the way up my butt cheeks. It's so embarrassing! I also have dark hairs growing on my breasts, right around my nipples. My question is: is this normal? And if it's not, what can I do to get rid of it? It's too hard to shave down there. I would appreciate any advice!!
Yes this is normal.. Some females have dark thick hair and some have light thin hair.. But if you want to get rid of this i woudl suggest shaving or waxing.. Waxing is defiantly going to be more painful then shaving tho.. But you`d have to do it less often then shaving.. You`d probably have to shave pretty often if you decide to do that.. and the nipples hair i would just leave it alone unless its very embarassing and noticeable.. ♥Dez
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Ohk i have a serious question.
And sorry its going to be kinda of long but i would really appreciate if you guys took the time to read this.
i Just watched True life the one about obessive Compulsive disorder. Well alot of the Things those People were doing kinda reminded myself of me. Like not what they would do like count and retouch things because it didnt feel right but heres some things i do.
Thourgh Out the day i make sure all the doors are locked all of them- i dont know why it just bothers me
-Before i go to bed i make sure the doors are locked and the closet on the first floor. When i go in my bedroom i check my closet and make sure my window is locked. Like two days ago i had to make sure my door was locked because i heard something out in the kitchen.
Im afraid of someone coming into my house and taking me. I watch alot of law and order and Csi.
But i dont think that would have any thing to do with it.
-im terrified of needles. When i go to get blood drawn or shots. I start to cry.
-When i see needles on the tv i have to cover my eyes or look the other way. My mom is diabetic and she has to use insulin with the needles i looking at her while she does it.
When i was little i had this dream of me and my friend getting kidnapped by a doctor and he shoved needles in us and i died.
-i Cant throw-up if i do by getting sick or something i won't eat nothing for like the next three days.
-At school with my lockers ill lock them and then check 5-6 times to make sure theres no way anyone can open the locker - I have had my purse stolen from me and my locker broke into before like 3 years ago.
-At work I have to sign off the register everytime i walk away form it. I constantly walk to make sure im off.
I dont really know if this could be ocd. or its just being a strange person. Im 17/f
Sounds like your trying to be more safe then anything.. It defienty doesn`t sound like OCD.. ♥Dez
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I want to clean up my room and make it less depressing. What can I do to my room to make it more outgoing cool and happier?
Maybe try painting it your favorite colors,Umm hang posters up or pictures.. Put colorful lights up of your favorite color.. Change the sheets and blanket if you can afford it.. ♥Dez
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Please do not delete Im honestly 100% want to know this.
Do you believe in Aliens?
Life on other planets, Aliens.
Thank you.
Nope don`t believe.. ♥Dez
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if i put on pressed powder.. does it cause freckles ?
Nope press powder can`t cause freckles only the sun hun.. ♥ Dez
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Does cocoa butter really help fade stretch marks?
Yes sweetie sure does.. Best of luck ♥Dez
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I am an advicenator and i am new so i didn't know what to do. i pushed random quesion for me to anwser and i got one about a girl and she said her friend started cutting himself and she said he might commit suicide, i told her to get an adult now! did i do the right thing, please help i am new!
Yes thats completely right.. ♥Dez
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Is there a proper name for fake nails?
Acrylic Nails.. ♥Dez
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My mind always fills dirty things about guys. I always fantasize about their penises like how big they have, shaved or un-shaved, fat or thin. Its about all men, young and old, known or unknown. Imagine when I talk to a man, my mind goes fantasizing about his penis, Is this sickness?
I am 15/F.
Its normal sweetie.. Everybody thinks about this kind of stuff and i`m sure everybody wonders the same thing you do.. ♥Dez
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okay, im 13/f and i really want to start using a tampon. I relaly hate pads. I tried last night i just couldnt do it. Is it going to hurt? how do i do it? im just so confused, if anyone could help me, please answer
The box has instructions on it on how to put it in.. Take your time and read carefully..
People handle pain differently,So some people say it hurts and some don`t.. I personally never had a problem.. ♥Dez
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whats the difference between smoking pot vs. smoking a normal cigarette? like, whats the difference between the two? thanks!!
Pot gets you high,effects your mind/brain and you can`t buy it,its against the law..
Cigerettes don`t get you high,you can buy them at age 18 and they effect like your lungs and stuff.. ♥Dez
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I am 15 years old and i ahve been going oiut with a 14 year olf for a year and 11 months now and he is a virgin and im not he said he wants to loose his virginaty too me and i want him to too but he is afraid his parents will find out whats a way to tell him not to worry about n e thing ur first time is always fun and feels the best he is just afraid he is going to get caught and not be able to talk to me n e more????
Well if he really wants it he`ll do it not thinking or worry about his parents.. His parents can`t tell by looking at him whether he is a virgin or not.. Askin him is the only way to find out and him be truthful.. So really he doesn`t have much to worry about other then like doing it in his house then them like walk on him but you got to be careful planning it out.. ♥ Dez
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can someone tell me things that people do if they DONT go to college?? im just wondering, im debating weather to go to college or not, but i have no clue what id do if i didnt go?
You can go to vocational schools for somethings.. Some go to community colleges.. Some people want to do things that don`t require college so thats why some people go to vocationla schools.. Thats what i plan on doing for cosmetology.. ♥ Dez
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I usually sleep really well, but last night I didn't fall asleep until 2 o clock in the morning. I don't know why. I think it might've been because I was talking to this one guy and I really didn't want ot sign off and go to bed but I had too. So i was thinking about him and stuff and I couldn't sleep.
Does anyone have anything that might help me sleep?
Well you only had this happen one night.. I don`t think its big deal unless you can`t ever go to sleep.. This happens sometimes and is perfectly fine.. This happens sometimes when you have alot on your mind good or bad.. But this doesn`t mean its going to happen all the time.. Don`t take a nap so tonight you`ll most likey sleep like a baby.. =) ♥Dez
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I got sick yesterday morning, and i stayed home from school today because of it. I have a really bad scratchy sore throat. Like those ones where you constantly have to cough and your throat feels dry and scratchy. Thats' what I have and I want to know how i can get rid of it asap because I have a dance to go to tomorrow night. Anyway have any home remedies I can try? Thank-you..
Take some allergy medicine,Sore scratchy throat..
Try drinking some water,Tea or tea with honey..
Also try eating ice..
♥Dez
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okay i decided to shave 'down there' instead of trimming it and now i have little red bumps down there. how can i get rid of them and if i shave down there again are they going to come back?
Hey.. Damn that razor burn it sucks
Well here are some suggestions about shaving hun..
1-Shave with a new razor,Different from the razor you shave your under arms with and legs..
2-Use shaving cream and keep it lathered while shaving,
3-Try conditinor instead and i recommend[Herbal essces,Tresseme or Dove]
4-Always shave the direction the hair in growing in..
5-Put a non scented lotion on the area afterwards [try baby lotion]
6-I personally think Baby body wash is good for shaving that area too..
7-Change your razor often if not everytime you shave that area..
8-Don`t shave everyday
9-Shave everyother day or close to a week depending if your still red in that area
10-Take your time,Don`t rush shaving that area cuz that can cause it to have red bumps too..
♥Dez
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okay well i am on a diet and ive only been drinking water and 2% milk but are there any other drinks out there that are okay for me to drink besides like diet pop (under 80 calories and 10g of sugar per 8 oz.)
and i dont like orange juice (i think that fits under my thing)
Well try gatorade.. Thats good for you.. maybe buy some protein drinks at like a store..
Also 1% milk would be better for you then 2%..
♥Dez
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Are guys supposed to masturbate? This was a big issue at school today. I was wondering if most guys masturbate. K thanks .. ♥ Tiff
Nope it sure isn`t something guys are suppose to do or have to do..
Yes guys do masturbate but not every one of them do.. Its their decision.. Exploring is normal for males and females.. Even some females masturbate..
I`m not positive if most guys masturbate but i`m sure most of them probably have tried it atleast once.. ♥Dez
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I know that my boyfriend is going to officially propose to me (19/f) sometime soon. He told me he bought a ring and that he's waiting for the right time to give it to me. I'm okay with the fact that he told me, I'm actually pretty glad about it. You see girls in the movies all the time that are pressured into going along with engagement. I think it was really respectful of him to talk about it with me, it's just that I'm not quite sure how to act when the time comes. Obviously I'll be happy, but since I'm probably not going to be surprised should I sort of pretend to be? I tend to show very little emotion and I think it might hurt his feelings if I don't appear to be happy or surprised or SOMETHING. I want it to be really special. Can anybody help me out here?
I don`t think you should act surprised it`ll be special.. I think just say yes when he asks and give him a kiss.. And say a simple i love you.. I don`t think you should bust out in tears i mean you already know he`s going to do it.. But if he didn`t mention it and then asked i think that would be a different story.. Congradualtions!!! =) ♥Dez
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i have expression lines between my eyes and ive been using cocoa butter lotion evryday to get them away. will that work and if not what can i sue or what else could help ne solutions to gettin rid of wrinkles???
P.S they arent like major wrinkles or nething just annoying since im young.
Hey!
Well no cocoa butter will not help.. Thats helps stretch marks..
Try avon's alternative.. My mom,Grandma and my mom`s friends love it.. You also can try this stuff from Olay.. Look for it in stores such as Walmart/Target.. ♥ Dez
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