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confused!
I am 15 years old and i ahve been going oiut with a 14 year olf for a year and 11 months now and he is a virgin and im not he said he wants to loose his virginaty too me and i want him to too but he is afraid his parents will find out whats a way to tell him not to worry about n e thing ur first time is always fun and feels the best he is just afraid he is going to get caught and not be able to talk to me n e more????
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if you both want to have sex, you should tell him that he won't get caught. find a personal place, and also tell him that his parents have no business snooping in his sexual life.
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Tell him. that you guys will find a PERFECT TIME AND PLACE. that you are 100% sure you guys will NOT get caught. Reassure him that everything will be ok. Make sure. It's like somewhere where. nobody would like find out. =D make him feel comfertable with the whole situation.
hope i helped.
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Well before you tell him that you won't get caught, make sure you won't get caught. Don't try to do it within the hour before your parents come home! Be smart about it. And just explain to him that it's no way that you're gonna get caught (either cuz your parents are away or something like that!)
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Well if he really wants it he`ll do it not thinking or worry about his parents.. His parents can`t tell by looking at him whether he is a virgin or not.. Askin him is the only way to find out and him be truthful.. So really he doesn`t have much to worry about other then like doing it in his house then them like walk on him but you got to be careful planning it out.. ♥ Dez
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Just tell him there's no way that his parents can find out you guys had sex if he tells his parents. Calm him down && don`t rush the guy if he`s just really worried. Just wait until he`s not worried anymore. Also, be VERY sure that you`ll use protection. Duh :o)
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So hes truley ready but is just worried about being caught? Tell him you will wait for a time when it will be impossible to be caught. Do you have any friends that drive?
-do it in their car hehe
- wait until you will be home alone for a lonnng while..no chance you will get caught
- any cousins like 16-21 that drive? or can lend you their appartment? lol
- the best bet is to do it at either of your houses when you will definately have a few hours alone
maybe its more than just getting caught and he doesnt want to admit hes not ready..because getting caught isnt a big deal..you two can definately find a time and a place to be alone.
good luck! dont forget..he has to be ready himself! dont talk him into it by saying it feels good and stuff..because afterwards he will be regretting it.
i hope i helped..let me know how it goes
-melissa-
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