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I know this person, he's not a real being, more like an anthropomorphic manifestation, but I feel he doesn't like me. What can I do? (Indeed)
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bring down console and type GG money²
²RW
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at the dance s i always rejected this guy i know, but now i like him and he probably wont ask me. he has a girlfriend now, he went out with her to make me jealous, so he doesnt like her. what should i do? (Indeed)
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Its your fault so make it right.
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my boi likes me alot and i like him alot but i like someone eles also and he knows what should i do? (Indeed)
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First of all, spell boy with a y not an i. I bet that would make him angry.
Secondly, you cant have 2 boys at once. Its not fair to either of them and eventually, it wont work out anymore.
Pick one or pick neither. You cant have both.
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MY BF IS MOVING OUT OF STATE AND I LUV HIM SOOOOOOOOOOO MUCH! I CANT STAND NOT BEING AROUND HIM AND I WAS GOING TO ASK HIM IF HE LUVS ME! WE TELL EACH OTHER WE LUV EACH OTHER ALL THE TIME BUT I DONT KNOW IF HE MEANS IT I AM REALLY SCARED HE IS GOING TO MEET ANOTHER GIRL! I LUV HIM AND HE SAID HE COULD STAY IF HE WANTS BUT HE WOULD HAVE TO STAY WITH HIS UNCLE. BUT HE REALLY WANTS TO GO! I DONT THINK HE CARES ABOUT ME! WHAT SHOULD I DO? (Indeed)
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Settle.
Writing all in caps makes me think you are shouting. How annoying that would be.
You can try to make the relationship work long-distance but if it doesnt work out then you will get over it. What is meant to be will happen so if it doesnt happen - it wasnt meant to be.
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I am in love with this boy Joey. He is in 8th grade and I am in 6th and he will be leaving for high- school soon. I don't want him to leVE BUT i DON'T KNOW WHAT TO TELL HIM BEFORE HE LEAVES. i WANT TO HUG HIM AND TELL HIM HOW I REALLY FEEL BUT I DON'TR WANT TO BE EMBARRESED
WHAT SHOULD I DO? (Indeed)
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Well I doubt he'll flunk himself and stay behind and not go to highschool, but I dont know stranger things have happened I guess.
You cant really stop him from going even if he cares about you. You can have relationships with people that you dont go to school with. That is what after school is for.
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MY BEST FRIEND IS MOVING TO NEW YORK AND I AM ACROSS THE U.S. WHAT SHOULD I DO??? (Indeed)
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Get their address and write letters.
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ok i have a really hot and awsome bf...i get good grades...i have tons of friends...and i am lots of fun clubs..(gifted and talented siging)..my family is awsome...for some reason i feel like i am missing something..like there is a big whole in my body tht is missing..can anyone explain? (Indeed)
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Your missing a hole in your body? I wouldnt. Just kidding.
Even the very lucky can feel down and in the dumps. I really liked the idea from another columist of volunteer work, that might be something to fill your missing void. As well, you're helping the community and all those around you.
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My friend hasn't been doing her homework and she has 6 zeros in the grade book. I'm afraid she is going to fail. What to do? (Indeed)
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Make her feel like there is a reason to try.
And give her stickers. I like stickers and wish people randomly gave them to me.
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Well basically I'm really out of shape. I don't play any sports i don't take dance classes or things like that. And i would like to stay in shape even though it's really hard for me. Does any body know any excersises that i could do over a couple of minutes to keep me in shape? (Indeed)
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Put on some music in your room and dance around like a fool for a couple of songs.
Seriously, its good exercise.
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I AM CURRENTLY DATING A GUY THAT IS IN LUV WITH ME. I DONT KNOW IF I LUV HIM, I FEEL WEIRD AROUND HIM. IN A GOOD WAY. ITS LIKE NUTHING ELSE MATTERS. HE SAYS HE LUVS ME MORE AND MORE EVERY DAY... AM I IN LUV?? (Indeed)
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MAYBE BUT MOST LIKELY ITS JUST GAS².
²props to MFS for the capital letter replies.
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There is this guy in one of my classes, and I'm not sure but I think hi MIGHT like me. he's on tha honor role but he's not a nerd. HE's actually kinda cute, but we've only really talked once. we were on a field trip and he just came over and started talking to me. Later I decide to eat lunch with him and he asked if I wanted his oreos. I know that sounds like a question a friend would ask but the way he said it was so sweet a kind (not like other people). So I'm confused. Does he like me or doesn't he. Kinda sounds like a question Shakspere would ask (to be or not to be? That is the question.)
Confused (Indeed)
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Here is the one and ONLY solution:
Talk to him more than once.
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I HAVE A RABBIT BUT I HATE RABBITS. I LOVE DOGS, THOUGH. MY GRANDMA (WHOM I LIVE WITH) SAID I COULD HAVE A DOG IF I TOOK CARE OF A RABBIT FIRST. I DON'T WANT TO TAKE CARE OF IT BUT I KNOW I HAVE TO. WHAT DO I DO? I DON'T WANT TO TAKE CARE OF IT BUT I REALLY WANT A DOG. (Indeed)
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feed it - that will help in the staying alive process for the rabbit.
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Me & my BFF really wanna pierce our bellybuttons. She's got hers done already, but I can't get mine thru! Any tips?? (Indeed)
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Go to a professional and stop messing around your body with sharp pointy objects. You'll end with diseases and infections and your belly buttons will be crusty and disgusting and no one will want to see it anyways.
The reason you cant get it through is because your stomach is covered with a layer of fat (not just you, everyone) and your friend probably got around a pocket of fat by chance and it went through. Professional piercers have piercing guns which force the piercing through quickly and with a lot of pressure.
You simply wont get it on your own and its risky.
Theres pretty much a 99% guarantee for infection when you do it yourself.
If you try and dont get it but make half-way through punctures into your skin you will end up scarring yourself.
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Everytime I am on center stage, for playing an instrument, singing, acting, auditions, giving a speech in front of my class, whatever.... I get soooo nervous. My feet shake, my hands shake so hard it's hard to hold papers or instruments steady and they get really cold. Sometimes I get this nervous twitch above my lip. I don't know any way to get rid of it! And I can't just avoid the stage, because even though I get nervous, I really want to perform. Ugh.
Help! (Indeed)
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Here are some solutions:
You need to get into a certain mindset when you get on stage. You need to puff yourself up and be extremely over confident. Seriously, like pompous.
If you make yourself believe that you are better than everyone who is watching you then it wont matter how badly you do, because well, those little people dont matter.
Practice a LOT and in front of people you know really well and are comfortable with. Rehearse over and over and over again with these people, and when you get to the audition or performance, try to pretend that you are only in front of those people.
Try to impress. If you concentrate on being the biggest superstar since sliced superstarbread (yea I dont know) then you will appear more confident even if you are super nervous.
Just focus on what you are doing. If you are playing an instrument - visualize the notes and concentrate on those. Dont look at the audience.
If all else fails - look at the back wall. Directly at it.
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ok i have had to decide between to guys and i have picked my neighbor not only is he the man of my dreams but is every thing to me i mean im just the girl next door and have the look to but i ran into a problem i cant stop thinking about the other boy can anyone help me find a way to put him in the past as a boyfreind but also be my friend too? (Indeed)
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how do you look like the girl next door? Doesnt everyone look different despite who their neighbour is?
Get over it. You chose and now you have to deal with your decision.
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Hey
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To anybody who wants to ask me a question about anything that's bothering them, or things they have to deal with, and you don't want anybody seeing the question you asked, email me at
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please...I love helping people and I'll try helping you. (Indeed)
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Giving phone number on the internet = not a good idea.
You should post this on your column if you really want questions that bad.
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I am a senior in highschool and once i graduate i would like to go into fashion designing or interior designing. I have "shadowed" an interior designer before and have helped people in their rooms with designs. I am also curretly designing my prom dress and would hopefully some day like to design my wedding dress. Just one concern.... What if i am totally out of my league and really have no clue with what i am doing. What if i go to college and major in this and then find out that it isnt for me? I guess its just a concern i have been having for awhile now, someone please give me advice. KT
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All you can do is plan for what you think you want now, if that changes.. well then it changes. There is always room to change your mind and who knows even if you find its not for you, it will probably have been fun and a great experience.
You cant hold back just because you are afraid of changing your mind later, what if later you realize you should have gone into fashion and design and you didnt go. Then you would be stuck wondering what if!
If right now thats what you think you want to do, then do it. If you've thought long and hard about it, then do it.
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okay im like with this guy on the net and stuff and we've like been 2geter for two months rite and i like really like him and like he's all like saying about how much he luvs me and junk and want to like sped eterinity with eachother and im like i don know and like what do i like do. (Indeed)
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like if you dont like like him then like stop like pretending when like you know like nothing will like happen like ya know?
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I haven't had a boy friend yet but I feel like I could just pick any boy and have sex with them but i'm afriad to ask to hook up with the guy.
I just REALLY REALLY REALLY!!!!!!!! need sex do you think i'm desperate HELP ME (Indeed)
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If you really needed sex as you say you do, then you would not have come onto an online advice website to say that. What are we supposed to say? OH NO PLEASE DONT GO THROUGH WITH IT! Its your life. Yea, desperate ... a little shy of super-whore.
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When are you going to update your part of the family album?
-your father (Indeed)
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When I'm no longer lazy!
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