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MY B.F.


Question Posted Sunday January 18 2004, 9:08 pm

MY BF IS MOVING OUT OF STATE AND I LUV HIM SOOOOOOOOOOO MUCH! I CANT STAND NOT BEING AROUND HIM AND I WAS GOING TO ASK HIM IF HE LUVS ME! WE TELL EACH OTHER WE LUV EACH OTHER ALL THE TIME BUT I DONT KNOW IF HE MEANS IT I AM REALLY SCARED HE IS GOING TO MEET ANOTHER GIRL! I LUV HIM AND HE SAID HE COULD STAY IF HE WANTS BUT HE WOULD HAVE TO STAY WITH HIS UNCLE. BUT HE REALLY WANTS TO GO! I DONT THINK HE CARES ABOUT ME! WHAT SHOULD I DO?

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Pandabalism answered Wednesday January 21 2004, 11:36 pm:
Alright, I'm not trying to be a bitch, but are the caps necessary? I don't think so. And, spell love correctly, please. Unless of course you're spelling it "Luv" for the sake of mockery, then it's ok, but some how I doubt you are. Anywho...how old are you 12..13? If so, don't worry. It's more than likely not love anyway. But, you seem like you're a sincere person, so this sucks for you. So, here's my advice: If he moves: you obviously can't date anymore. And, I don't think it means he doesn't care about you. But, we are talking about his life here. It would be foolish for him to make choices (big choices like this) based on how you feel. So, take time to get over him, and then get back to reality. Have fun being single, or find someone else. However, if he does decide to live with his uncle: Consider yourself special.

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dwarp answered Tuesday January 20 2004, 10:07 pm:
Honestly, maybe he doesn't care about you. Moving can be tough on people, but you have to consider the oppourtunities that he will gain by migrating somewhere. He may not mean it when he says he loves you. A lot of people take that for granted now and days. However, I think if you really love him, you should let him go. Don't tie him down with his uncle, that's seperating him from his family. Clearly, if he wants to go, you should let him. You'll probably grow farther apart by bossing him around than appreciating his wishes and having him move. And if he does meet another girl, he couldn't provide the care that you need anyway. Just move on.

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luckiedice3817 answered Monday January 19 2004, 5:13 pm:
well if he really wants to go and you really luv him you'd let him go. the sappiet quote ever that i think might help you is 'if you let a butterfly go, and it comes back to you, it is yours, but if you let it go, and it doe not, it was never yours in the first place' so if he goes off out of state and still calls you and you keep in touch and he still goes out with you, he luvs you. if he meets another girl and forgets all about oyu, he never loved you in the first place. *thank you for your time*~luckiedice~

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Elle answered Monday January 19 2004, 2:33 pm:
I think you to should sit down and talk about what's going to be best for both of you. You need to really know what each other of you wants.
~Elle~

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MichiruKaiou answered Monday January 19 2004, 1:21 am:
WHY ARE YOU TYPING IN CALL CAPITALS? IT'S ANNOYING!..

WELL THERE'S NOTHING YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT. IF YOUR FRIEND IS MOVING AND HAS NO CHOICE THEN THERE'S NOTHING ELSE TO DO. YOU CAN'T CHANGE THAT. SO JUST TRY TO STAY IN CONTACT.

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shay*shay answered Sunday January 18 2004, 10:21 pm:
Tell him how you feel, open up to him. Also keep in touch with him. Maybe he loves you too.
-shay :-)

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AskColleen answered Sunday January 18 2004, 9:28 pm:
If he's not willing to stay with his uncle so he can stay with you, he might not be worth it. How far out of state is he moving?

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spongers223 answered Sunday January 18 2004, 9:26 pm:
IF HE DOSNT LOVE YOU THEN JUST TELL HIM YOU DONT THINK ITS GOING TO WORK OUT. BUT IF HE PICKED YOU OVER THAN MOVING THAT IS LOVE!




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aka_kittkatt answered Sunday January 18 2004, 9:14 pm:
I'm sure he still cares about you. It's just fate.

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browneyes answered Sunday January 18 2004, 9:12 pm:
if he really loved you he would want to stay more than he would want to go....

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FernGully answered Sunday January 18 2004, 9:10 pm:
Settle.

Writing all in caps makes me think you are shouting. How annoying that would be.

You can try to make the relationship work long-distance but if it doesnt work out then you will get over it. What is meant to be will happen so if it doesnt happen - it wasnt meant to be.

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