There is this boy that keeps calling me. He called me 5 times in 2 days and left a message asking me out for the whole world to hear. I told one of his friends to stop calling me..gently though. His friend was a little harsh and i don't think he likes me anymore. What should I do?
luckiedice3817 answered Monday January 19 2004, 5:05 pm: well what r u supposed to do? he wouldnt stop calling you! thats like a violation of privacy or sumthing. i feel kinda sorry for the poor guy, but geeze. *thank you for your time*~luckiedice~ [ luckiedice3817's advice column | Ask luckiedice3817 A Question ]
Lizzy answered Monday January 19 2004, 5:05 pm: Well, do you like him? There's a question, but also, wouldn't what he did be considered horassing if you asked him to stop? Answer those two and your problem is solved! [ Lizzy's advice column | Ask Lizzy A Question ]
notnormal answered Monday January 19 2004, 3:21 pm: You told his friend that you didn't want him to call you. It is completely logical that he would leave you alone then, no matter how his friend put it. You can't have it both ways. I would just let it go. [ notnormal's advice column | Ask notnormal A Question ]
MFS answered Monday January 19 2004, 1:15 pm: I think you should deal with matters like that yourself next time, instead of passing the buck and getting someone else to do your dirty work.
What should you do? Apologize for the harshness that his friend used when telling him to not call anymore. [ MFS's advice column | Ask MFS A Question ]
DruidX answered Monday January 19 2004, 12:40 pm: I'm confuzed. You like the mate or the guy who keeps calling you, or the guy who keeps calling you?
If you like 'always-calling-you' guy, say yes and see what happens.
If you like the mate, then you should talk to him about your feelings.
If you like nither and the behavoir of 'always-calling-you' guy reaches unacceptable levels contact some one in authority, a teacher or perent.
AskColleen answered Monday January 19 2004, 8:08 am: Yous should try to talk to him about the meaning of STALKING! If that guy was calling that many times a day, you had a reason to let him down. Though it probably not as gently as you meant to be, it's ok! You don't want him to like you, right? So, you got your wish. If you still want to be friends with him, talk to him. [ AskColleen's advice column | Ask AskColleen A Question ]
Cspinoza1 answered Monday January 19 2004, 12:21 am: Just tell him that you don't like him anymore than a friend if thats what you are. But you say " I don't think he likes me anymore" so is that true or do you share feelings with him? Just be honest with him, he will understand eventually
aka_kittkatt answered Sunday January 18 2004, 9:22 pm: If you've got caller ID don't pick up the phone. Tell the guy who keeps calling you that you don't like it and you want it to stop, politely but firmly. [ aka_kittkatt's advice column | Ask aka_kittkatt A Question ]
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