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Hello. This is the first time I have looked for help on this subject. Long story short: my mom met a guy, we moved in eith him, I was an asshole before this happened, I saw what he was like to her, we moved out, and I was the perfect son for three years, then something went wrong. This is what my mom said and I agree. We have fought constantly on and off since then. My mom has chronic headaches and a sleeping disease. I usually make light of the situation by making fun of the problem and I started making fun of my mom. She got pissed which I can understand but she knows how I deal with things. We have gotten into fights many times and she has packed up my stuff and taken me to my aunts, said she was going to leave, or said she was going to kill herself. I make fun of her for crying, and for her diseases because everyone else's life seems to be like the brady bunch. I understand I have been ignorant and I need to change. We just had a fight tonight because last friday I told her that the only person that sleeps more than her is a dead person. I guess that and all the names I have called her finally built up again. She has raised me well but insists that she is a bad mother and I deserve better. And that better is for her to leave and for me to live with my aunt and to never see her again. I told her that I don't need all of this confusion along with all of my school work. Then she atarted making fun of me for saying that. I told her that she isn't me, she isn't in my head, and doesn't know what is best for me(by her leaving)I actually think that she is going ot leave this time. Please write back at------slayer512@earthlink.net
I don't know what else to do please help I am a 17 year old guy (link)
that is always sad when a family member says their going to kill themsalf. wow this sounds tough, i dont know what to say. i just think you and your mom should get counseling. that might help.
~*coco*~


I really like this guy and I asked him out yesterday and he said Not Today what does that mean?




FRom PLease HElp ME (link)
no in a nice way


my boi likes me alot and i like him alot but i like someone eles also and he knows what should i do? (link)
hey lia, if you like the other guy but he doesn't like u, and your boi likes u, keep it with him!!!


my parents got divorced a year ago and ever since my mom has always been trying to do stuff with me. My only free days of the week are wednesday and sunday..and now she wants to have dinner both those nights. I feel like everything I do with her is scheduled. What should I tell her to make it not feel like she had to make an effort to see me? (link)
I say talk to your mom and tell her how you feel. if she doesn't lay off, go see a family counselor. maybe they can help.


I am in love with this boy Joey. He is in 8th grade and I am in 6th and he will be leaving for high- school soon. I don't want him to leVE BUT i DON'T KNOW WHAT TO TELL HIM BEFORE HE LEAVES. i WANT TO HUG HIM AND TELL HIM HOW I REALLY FEEL BUT I DON'TR WANT TO BE EMBARRESED
WHAT SHOULD I DO? (link)
hey shica, call him and tell him how you feel. that way you cant be embarrassed.


There is this boy that keeps calling me. He called me 5 times in 2 days and left a message asking me out for the whole world to hear. I told one of his friends to stop calling me..gently though. His friend was a little harsh and i don't think he likes me anymore. What should I do? (link)
if you dont like this boy, it doesn't really matter because they wont keep bugging you anymore.


I'm not very popular at school and kids pick on me. I don't really know why they do it, it's been that way since 1st grade. I'm in 8th grade now and I'm sick of it. I don't know what I did to deserve this. They hurt me emotionally and physically, should I stand up to them?
Respond please, I'm desperate,
Hurt and confused (link)
tell them to lay off. if they still torment you, talk to a counsler. that's what they're there for.


I want to go out with a guy!I love him but he only wants to be friends with me what should I do! I think he likes my friend and I am really confused? (link)
get another guy!!!!


I am caught in a love triangle I like 2 guys that go to my school they are both my friends but I don't know what to do Who should I choose. THe person my age or the 8th grader?Plese help (link)
try the 8th grader. SAM LIKES ME YOU DORK!!


if i had a dream about a boy that i dumped like a month ago and i liked the dream does that mean i like him? (link)
it depends what you were doing in the dream


im so much in love with neighbor and i wanna tell him but the words wont come out please help me?? (link)
write a letter. it will get to him fast.


There's a boy I know, he's the one I dream of
Looks into my eyes, takes me to the clouds above
Ooh I lose control, can't seem to get enough
When I wake from dreaming, tell me is it really love?
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yes


I like this guy named Joey and he is an 8th grader and I am a 6th grader and I really like him but I don't know what to do! People are like ask him out but I don't know what to say what should I do? (link)
Lashica, get a new guy. He's not there for you. you'll find the right guy. eventually.


Ok my friend Kyle likes this girl who he used to date, but she's going out with someone else now. He wants my advice, but I really don't know what to say, can someone please help?
Kortni* (link)
why is he asking you for help?


my friend thinks it's funny that she's not doing her homework. Every time we try to talk to her, she doesn't listen. She's failing and i don't know wht to do. (link)
if she's not listening, let her be. its her fault she trashed her life. shell regret it later.


at the dance s i always rejected this guy i know, but now i like him and he probably wont ask me. he has a girlfriend now, he went out with her to make me jealous, so he doesnt like her. what should i do? (link)
ASK HIM


helo, me!


i went to camp with this guy and i slowely fell in love with him. i liked him for three years and now we rarely talk anymore. im not sure if i like him in a crush way, i like him more as a brother. i miss us talking. i dont want to go up to him and start randomly talking, i'd look like an idiot.what should i do??? (link)
dont care so much if he thinks ur an idiot. just BE YOURSELF!!!!!


I like this boy named Robert. The only problem is he doesn't know. How can I tell him? The next problem is he doesn't know my name. I think I'm cursed. What should I do? (link)
first of all, your not cursed. second of all, say hi, talk to him, be your self. then have your friends tell his friends that you MIGHT like him.


what do you do when u fall for you best friend? i know it sounds like the CLASSIC relationship question.. but i really dont know what to do! i have been best friends with this guy for 3 months.. that mite not sound like a long time... but we have grown really close in that time! i like him as more than a friend now and when he starts to talk about who i like... i dont know what to say! he says im shy.. and well i agree.. lol cause im not the foward type to just come out and tell someone that i like them... i dont want to ruin our friend ship by telling him how i feel, but what if he likes me 2 and he wants me to make the first move?? please someone help me.. (link)
no problem, thats happened to me! i kept it asecret, but he eventually found out and it died away. DONT DO THAT!!!! tell him!


i really like this guy. he's been really weird lately and says that he wont go out with anyone until hes in tenth grade. he did like me for a week, but he wont answer any of my friends about me. i want to stop liking him, but i just cant! i really like him! what should i do? (link)
try t owait awhile till he cools off. then hang out with him, but dont follow him around school.
luv ya!




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