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best friend blues
I am caught in a love triangle I like 2 guys that go to my school they are both my friends but I don't know what to do Who should I choose. THe person my age or the 8th grader?Plese help
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You know you really dont have to know right know at this insrant. Maybe find out who you like best?
-shay :-)
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well, age really doesn't matter. I think though, if you want to go by age then you should choose the person your age because it is easier that way so there is nocontroler of the relationship like there would be if there was one older one younger. Of course, if you really like both of them, find out if one likes you back, it will be easier that way. If they both like you, go on a date with both and see which one you like better. Good luck
Lizzy
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well if they're both your friends then they haven't shown any signs of asking you out yet, and if you ask ONE out and he turns you down, the other one probably wouldn't want to go out with you even if he did like you because he'd know you liked someone else. i think you should wait, and go out with the first one that asks you out, and stay friends with the other one. if they both ask you out at the same time... thats when the problem starts! *thank you for your time*~luckiedice~
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I think you should not choose. Why do you have too? Keep them both as friends.
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First, it's unclear by your question how old YOU are, or whether or not you are already involved with ONE of these guys, which makes giving sound advice a little difficult, but I'll give it a try.
First, is usually ALWAYS better to choose a partner who is either your same age, or close to it.
Secondly, if there truly is a choice to make, then you owe it to yourself to choose the one who will treat you with the most love and respect. Many women make the mistake of choosing the one that makes them "quiver," rather than the one that makes them happy. Now, if you can find a guy that give you BOTH, that's great, but if NOT, happiness has to come FIRST. Choose the one that is going to be best for your overall happiness, not just your happiness for the moment.
Sincerely,
Samantha
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Age really shouldn't matter. It should just be whom you think you could picture yourself better with.
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I think I need more details. If you're below 8th you shouldn't be dating imho. If you're 15 or older date all you want. Enjoy young life while you have it.
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what grade are you in, probably 7th or 6th right? You have to follow your heart, I'd go with the person your age though. Less messy.
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How old are you? I think you should just stay friends and wait awhile until you are sure with who you want to stay a friend and who you want to go out with. Keep in mind this might also wreck your current relationship you have with both of them.
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Well what grade are you in. What kinds of things do you like about them. Maybe you just like them because you want to be in a relationship and you don't want to hurt the other ones feelings if you pick one. I think you should just stay friends.
~Elle~
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i think you should choose the one your age because you and i know that people older than us will dump us to the curb ok !
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go out with the eighth grader. sams taken!!
p.s. i love sam!! just kidding!
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try the 8th grader. SAM LIKES ME YOU DORK!!
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