iviQueenBivi answered Tuesday January 20 2004, 10:37 am: Not today could mean wrong time to ask, or he's not interested, or he probably just had a upseting break up. Maybe the best thing to do is ask him what does it mean. Dont let it get to you. [ iviQueenBivi's advice column | Ask iviQueenBivi A Question ]
notnormal answered Monday January 19 2004, 7:57 pm: I would think he doesn't really want to go out with you. Sometimes guys just feel uncomfortable when girls are too agressive, and then, he may just not feel the same way about you that you feel about him.
Elle answered Monday January 19 2004, 7:22 pm: Maybe he wanted to ask you out or maybe he likes you but not ready to date.
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aka_kittkatt answered Monday January 19 2004, 6:51 pm: Not today probably means just that, 'Not today.' Most guys really aren't into the whole "I'm going to use certain words so you'll have to listen carefully to my sentence so I can mess with your mind" sort of thing. Unlike us girls. ;) [ aka_kittkatt's advice column | Ask aka_kittkatt A Question ]
Lizzy answered Monday January 19 2004, 5:17 pm: Not Today? Well that is weird. Ummm, you don't wanna seem desperate so do what i do, get your friends involved. Somehow, good friends always can tell if a guy likes their friends
Good Luck
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Cspinoza1 answered Monday January 19 2004, 1:15 pm: It just means not today, so ask him out again. He didn't turn you down he just didn't tell you why he couldn't go so generally he was busy he weasn't pushing you aside. Ask him out again for a better time.
Whatever answered Monday January 19 2004, 12:34 pm: It means he's not really interested in you...because if he was he would say yes or if he really can't because his schedule doesn't permit him, he would set up another date where you two can go out. Let this be a lesson to you that you should wait for a guy to ask you out if you're not sure that he likes you. [ Whatever's advice column | Ask Whatever A Question ]
DruidX answered Monday January 19 2004, 12:15 pm: It probably means he doesn't feel ready for a relationship.
How old is he? For that matter, how old are you? I wouldn't take it to much to heart, and I expect you are at the begining of your life so there will be plenty of other guys for you. Its not worth getting that upset over.
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