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i really like this guy. he's been really weird lately and says that he wont go out with anyone until hes in tenth grade. he did like me for a week, but he wont answer any of my friends about me. i want to stop liking him, but i just cant! i really like him! what should i do?
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ask him why he doesnt want to talk to you and your friends.
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Either he just really doesn't feel the same way about you that you do about him, or he really doesn't want to go out with anyone at all right now. Either way, I would leave him alone. I don't think you will make the situation any better if you keep trying to get him to go out with you.
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If you like him that much you should respect his wish to not date untill he feels he is ready, and you will wait for him. Try getting to know him as a mate first. Also, why are your mates asking him about you, if you like him so much then you should be able to ask him yourself.
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Well, it would help to know what grade you are both in now. However, judging by the information given, I'm assuming that your both not yet Sophmores in highschool. Therefore, my advice to you is this:
You don't have to stop liking him, and you certainly can't force yourself to, so don't even try. What you CAN do though, is simply be this guy's FRIEND, for now. Respect his wishes and GROW UP WITH HIM. The very best relationships in the world have their foundations in FRIENDSHIP. Therefore, if you truly like this guy, stick by him as his friend and WAIT.
If you do this, one of two things will happen: One, you'll get to know this guy REALLY, REALLY well and you'll like him even more, and hopefully, he'll feel the same way about you ... OR TWO, you get to know him really, really well and you'll find out that there isn't much to like, and therefore, you won't care whether he likes you or not. WIN-WIN.
I know that it's easier said than done, but give it a try.
Sincerely,
Samantha
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Just respect his wishes and wait until he's in 10th grade. But buddy with him until that time!! But not too close as to be considered a best friend though.
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i think he is trying to let you know that he doesnt like you anymore.. you cant really help who u like though.. i mean it just happens! maybe you should start hangin out with some new guy friends.
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I was in almost the same problem last week. I think all you need to do is talk to him and tell him you like him. I did that and I'm dating the guy now.
~Elle~
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Be his friend until he gets to 10th grade. If you rush things for him you may never have a future with him.
-shay :-)
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You should respect him for waiting and just wait for tenth grade if you really like him. JK. Just respect him.
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try t owait awhile till he cools off. then hang out with him, but dont follow him around school.
luv ya!
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