There's this guy at school i like and he likes me. the problem is he has a girlfriend. he never liked her, but shes madly in love with him. i recently heard from his friend that he's dumping his girlfriend for me. but last week his girlfriend's friend yelled at me during PE and LA. If he does ask me out what should i say? either way i'm hurting someone. i really like this guy, though. should i say yes or no?
Lizzy answered Monday January 19 2004, 5:30 pm: Well, obviously this girl is not your friend, so what would the trouble be. She is obviously a snobby brat who knows she's getting dumped, can't let fate down. Hope he makes out with you in front of her,
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notnormal answered Monday January 19 2004, 2:53 pm: This is a classic love triangle. It is logical that his girlfriend would not like you. Depending on her personality, she will show it by yelling at you, or gossip, or other more unpleasant things. So I don't think you will be able to be friends with her unless she changes her feelings about the guy.
I would hesitate to say yes. If a guy dumps one girl to go out with another girl, that may be a sign of the way he will act with you later. I would say no, even though you like him. [ notnormal's advice column | Ask notnormal A Question ]
MichiruKaiou answered Monday January 19 2004, 1:03 am: There's nothing you can do if he dumps her for you. Plus if his girlfriend hates you, then why should you care what she feels/says? She obviously doesn't care for you! So just go with what your heart desires, which is probably a 'yes' to if he asks you out! [ MichiruKaiou's advice column | Ask MichiruKaiou A Question ]
1800Advice answered Sunday January 18 2004, 9:54 pm: If your really like him, dont worry about what other people think. Im not saying you should say yes just right after he dumps his girlfriend, because that would prove her friends theory, but wait a little while after she gets over it and then either u ask him or u say yes. If you have anymore questions feel free to ask. [ 1800Advice's advice column | Ask 1800Advice A Question ]
Kurara answered Sunday January 18 2004, 8:41 pm: If he dumped her for you, you can't do anything about it. You didn't ask him to dump her for you. I say go for it and say yes. It will not change anything for the other girl because no matter what she's going to hate you because she will know he dumped her for you.. So like I said.. I think you should go with him.
However, if he asks you out and he hasn't dumped his girlfriend, the situation would be a little different. You could say yes, but you'd end up hurting his girlfriend and that would cause more problems.. [ Kurara's advice column | Ask Kurara A Question ]
Elle answered Sunday January 18 2004, 8:37 pm: If you can't talk to her because she doesn't want to talk to you, then yeah, you should say yes. She's just being jealous.
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shay*shay answered Sunday January 18 2004, 7:36 pm: His g/friend is just jealous of you. I could understand that if she was a friend of yours you shouldnt go out with him, but in this case you have every right to.
-shay :-) [ shay*shay's advice column | Ask shay*shay A Question ]
Cspinoza1 answered Sunday January 18 2004, 6:38 pm: hey you have done nothing worng, and if you like him go for it. Its not like he was cheating on her with you. SO honestly I say since the feeling in mutual for you two go out with him if he asks.
all_star_gymnast answered Sunday January 18 2004, 6:27 pm: go for it. if he asks you out and you like him, then say yes. who cares about that other girl. if she has a problem with you going out with this guy, then too bad for her. you like him and he likes you. who cares what she thinks?? [ all_star_gymnast's advice column | Ask all_star_gymnast A Question ]
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