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i went to camp with this guy and i slowely fell in love with him. i liked him for three years and now we rarely talk anymore. im not sure if i like him in a crush way, i like him more as a brother. i miss us talking. i dont want to go up to him and start randomly talking, i'd look like an idiot.what should i do???
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Just ask him a simple question that would just take a second to say and casually turn it into a conversation. Good Luck Hon
Lizzy
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if you miss talking to him then by all means talk to him.
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Maybe call him?!?!?!
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You should randomly go up to him and re-introdcue yourself: 'Hey, do you remember me? I'm the really odd girl from camp if you don't.' Then you could maybe ask him if he want to hang out some time. Remember, e-mail, text, IM and letters are acceptable means of contact if you are unsure what his reaction would be and don't want to be embarased.
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As always, feel free to contact me if you need to talk.
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Think about it.. looking like an idiot would only last a couple minutes.. but knowing a friendship is still intact lasts a lifetime. So.. talk to him.. why toss a friendship away over embarrasy?
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When you say you fell in love with him, I don't think that means in a brotherly type of way, am I right? Just hang out with him and be nice and maybe he'll ask you out.
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Start randomly talking. It's natural for humans to communicate with others of its own kind. It's weird when they don't, unless they're a hermit.
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YOU MAY LOOK LIKE A IDIOT BUT YOU REALLY WONT BE WHEN YOU TELL HIM BECAUSE THAT IS LIFE AND LIFE IS STRANGE!
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Actually if you've been his good friend before, I don't think you'll look like an idiot. You don't have to jump on him and scream "HI!!! HOW ARE YOU!?" or something like that. All you have to do is go up to him and say hi and smile. If he seems to be embarrassed, take some distance and say you just wanted to say hi and try again later. If he seems happy to see you, just tell him you've missed talking to him. Maybe he actually feels the same way about you.
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He wont think your an idiot he'll enjoy your company. Think if he came up to you to talk how would you feel? He may just be shy.
-shay :-)
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dont care so much if he thinks ur an idiot. just BE YOURSELF!!!!!
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