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Sex problem
I haven't had a boy friend yet but I feel like I could just pick any boy and have sex with them but i'm afriad to ask to hook up with the guy.
I just REALLY REALLY REALLY!!!!!!!! need sex do you think i'm desperate HELP ME
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masturbation. or get a sex toy like a dildo or vibrator and learn to use it.
because if you pick a random john off the street, you won't get any more out of it than you would have with the dildo.
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You may feel like a one night stand may not change ur life and its just for fun but what if this guy has STD's. I been down this road and yeah it feels good for a start but then you may feel used or dirty. Look to have make friends with boys first then nothing more special then haveing sex with your bf. Sex is special its showing your feelings to someone you care about and after you get to sunnglew up together please its ur choice but use protection. You can always going to your nearest family planning clinct they are friendly and give advise. Take care lots of love
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No, you're ust experincing the rage of hormones that come along with your age. There's nothing worng with that within itslef. BUT, there IS something worng with your feeling that you can just pick any guy and have sex with him. Have you tried masturbation? Does it do anything for you? That should release some of the urges that you find raging inside AND....it's a hell of a lot safer than your first choice.
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yea a lil desperate try fingering yourself it helps
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Why don't you just masterbate since u can't seem to be able to find a guy. But picking up any guy and you don't know him could be disatrious like u could get aids or something else. When u want a guy like that chose carefully and try to get to know him before u try anything like that.
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I guess it's a plan... but it sounds like trouble to me.
Rushing into sex is liable to get you all kinds of complications... whether it's the physical stuff (possibility of pregnancy/STDs) or the human factor (weird attachment issues, choosing a crummy guy, etc.) ...if nothing else (and there are other benefits, from honour/religious reasons to concentrating on school or other parts of your life), waiting lets you get a guy somewhat figured out.
You might wander off to somewhere like scarleteen.com, where you can read about people wrestling with this kind of thing, get perspectives and think about taking alternatives "in hand".
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You really need to talk to someone. You need to find out why you feel that you have to have sex. Its really not a good idea to have sex with just anyone due to STDs and the possibility of having a child. Plus you would enjoy it much better in the confines of a committed relationship because you wouldn't have to worry.
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If you really needed sex as you say you do, then you would not have come onto an online advice website to say that. What are we supposed to say? OH NO PLEASE DONT GO THROUGH WITH IT! Its your life. Yea, desperate ... a little shy of super-whore.
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Yes I'd say that's a little bit desperate, why don't you try to get to know a couple guys before you just go off having sex with them?
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You don't need sex.
You need a clue.
grow up
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Okay I think you should calm down. You cant just pick somebody. You have to have strong feelings for that person. Unless you want to be labeled as a hore. I think you stay a virgin.
-shay :-)
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