about

I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.


I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

advice

Okay i'm in highschool and my mom is finally letting me wear gothic/punk rock clothing. I've got my wardrobe but my room is the opposite. How can i make it more gothic or punk rock WITHOUT painting my walls or buying anything too expensive.

I have sort of very light baby colored pink wall. I have rough creme curtains. My furniture is medium brown wood. Tomorrow I'm going to remove all my colorful objects but what else can I do? The only dark comforter I have is a plain dark green comforter. Do you think that will do?

I don't know if this helps but I'm 14/f

Thanks in advance

My room is covered in pictures/posters of my favorite bands and singers. I also wrote quotes on index cards, and those are everywhere. I have punk/scene fashion clippings on my walls too. I have light gray curtains, but you can use black/dark gray. I don't really know what else you can do to your room. But your comforter will work.

♥TiNA

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My boyfriend wants to have children after marriage. Not right away though. Maybe 1-3 years after marriage. I don't want children. I think its a huge responsibility and will put a stop to some plans that I have. He said that if I don't have his children that he would not marry me. I fell in love with him and want this to work out between us. He says he loves me very much. He says that he would be a great father and would help out a lot and this is his dream to have this family. How do I come with an agreement with him? What is so great about having children?

I understand where both of you are coming from, but look at it from his point of you.

Having kids is a wonderful thing. You're bringing a new life into the world. You get to see them grow up, and take their first steps, and hear them say their first words. That's a once in a life time experience. People who don't have kids miss out on that, and while they think it's great, they see parents with these cute babies and being able to have fun, and put love at a new level. Even though they're a big responsibility, nobody will love you more than your own child.

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Im in a band right now. Im am the leadsinger and main song writer. THey are all my good friends but I hav a problem. I feel stuck. I try to put so much into this and get nothing in return. I dont want to diss my friends but Im realy starting to think that I wont be able to make my dreams happen with them. What do I do?

Tell them to put more effort in, or you're quitting and finding a new band. I realize it's harsh, and that they're your friends, but you have to be stern with them so that they get the point.

♥TiNA

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could i be pregnant?

You gave no information to lead us to an answer. So I'm just gonna be an ass and say yeah, you're pregnant.

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ok so my friend was on advicenators, on my computer.....and she got herself banned.....but it banned my whole computer, so it wont let me sign it........

my question is...how long till im not banned anymore??

When you try to log in, it'll take you to a page where it says "So and so has been banned until..." And then it'll say a day and a time.

After that day & time is up, you can sign back in, and answer questions.

♥TiNA

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how do i stop caring about what people think of me?

Ignore it. If someone says they don't like something about you, tell them that's their problem not your's. Tell yourself that you don't care, and think positively about yourself. And if people don't like you for what you do, or what you wear, then they can pretty much go to hell & shut the fuck up!

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okay well i just started school 3 days ago on wednesday. the 6th. and ive been talking to this kid whos a softmore & im a freshman . and we like talk all the time. were always flirting && hes like asking to go out sometime. do u tihnk he likes me or should i wait & see how things go

If he's asking you to go out somewhere with him [like the movies/mall], then I'm pretty sure he likes you.

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I have a big question thats always been bothering me. Being a punk rocker or a goth is it really unmoral? Is it bad so God won't except your or anything?

I truthfully don't think it is. People dress how they dress. Labels shouldn't matter in religion. That's why I hated being catholic. Stupid things such as how I dressed, or the music I listened to, or the things I did people considered sins. And I wasn't gonna be held back from doing the things I love because of a stupid fucking religion. And God seemed really unlikely. Anyways, I don't think it is, unless you actually read it in the bible yourself. Don't worry about it.

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Hey! Well, I just got in a HUGE fight with my "best friend" and I really have no one to talk to about it, so if anyone could help? I just need someone to talk to and whatevers. :D

My AIM screenname is chocoholic95624

Thanks!

You can always talk to me. I'm here to help. My sn is:

tina x electric.

I added you to my bl, so you can IM me whenever you need to. If I'm away, just IM me anyways, and I'll come back, because I never really leave my computer.

♥TiNA

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ok so for our school fall dance we need to dress up because it's a costume dance. The theme this year is Once Upon a Time...so it should be like fairytale and stuff like that. It's a date dance too and our date has to have a matching costume. I just need suggestions for costumes and stuff.
thanks

Beauty & The Beast.
Cinderella & The Prince.
Sleeping Beauty & The Prince.
Princess Jasmine & Aladdin.
Snow White & The Dwarf[s].

Any disney princess will work for this.

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since i was probably in 7th grade i have always weighed 105 then this year (my senior year) i gained about 10lbs. so my weight jumps around to 111 112 115 and so it hasn't gotten any higher then 115 i'm about 5'3. i know i dont' eat right and i don't have time to work out. i dont' wanna starve my self i've done that before. but a few of my friends have noticed i've been gaining weight and so on. what are some good things i could do with a small time. as in things to eat and do?
thanks

You act as if you've gained a lot of weight. You haven't. You're still a perfectly good weight for your height range. Don't worry so much about it. But if it really bothers you. Try to eat more healthy, because you admitted you don't, and there is time for you to work out because no one is ever as busy as they say they are. Some people claim they're busy, but truth of the matter is, they just don't feel like it, so they make excuses. Anyways, just exercise, eat healthy, and drink lots of water.

♥TiNA

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How do you get on TRL? like how can you be in the audience??

This is actually the only thing I could find. I'm not sure how old it is, or when the last time it was updated, but maybe it's still accurate.

http://www.nytix.com/TVShows/NewYork/TotalRequestLive/Tickets/tickets.html

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My friend and I have been growing apart, you know it happens. Well, she has other freinds that I know, and some are my actual friends. And now that me and her aren't that good of freinds anymore, I am worried she is going to tell her friends all of my secrets I told her in the past. What should I do?

Well, if she has respect for you, she'll keep your secrets, well, a secret. But if she does tell, then she obviously had no respect for you at all, and that just gives you the right to tell her secrets right back. Well, that's what I would do. Besides, big girls don't get mad, they get even. =] Don't worry about it. She probably won't tell, but if she does, well then she sucks.

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im in drama and every time i try to do my act, this girl keeps taking over and keeps saying im not doing it right on every little thing. how do i become good enough so she wont say anything, she doesnt only do it to me, she does it to other people and they get mad too. any advice to this situation?

Tell her she's not the teacher, and she should just focus on how she's doing, and how she's performing. Other people should be none of her concern. If the teacher's concerned, the teacher will say something. But until then, she should just keep shut! Hope I helped. =]

♥TiNA

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there are these two cliches and i dont know which one i should be in. the one i want to be in is the preps and stuff;but i hang out with the other because i dont know how to fit in. should i move with the one i want to be in and see what happes? what if the other gets mad and stuff? help, i hate cliches

If you hate cliques so much, don't be in one. I mean, after all, they're kinda pointless. Why just talk to the same people everyday? Be friends with everyone. Be your own person. Cliques are stupid, and pointless. They usually cause drama, and feelings usually get hurt. And besides, they don't last forever. I'm not saying the friendships you get when you're not in a clique do, but they sure last a lot longer. Just hang out with everyone. You'll like it more. And if these cliques get mad at you because you wanna hang out with other people; well then they were never true friends in the first place, and they're not the kind of people you should surround yourself with. I hope I helped.

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okay so im always so used to be the skinny girl. and lately ive gained a lot of weight. in one year i gained like 12pounds!!!!! can someone please please help me like maybe lose those pounds cause ive gotten really chunky and i wanna be skinny again. just please help..


*please no rude comments*

Okay, you have absolutely nothing to worry about. 12 lbs reall isn't that much. I weighed 75-80 lbs in 7th grade. I now weigh around 150. And I'm in 10th grade now. So, that's like 75 lbs in 3 years. Don't worry about it so much. If it really bothers you, just drink lots of water, eat really health, and exercise tons.

♥TiNA

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Like what would happen if i overdosed on pills . like on purpose.. wha would actually happen to me ? Like would i die right away , would i pass out , be weak get sick .. ? what ? k thanks =]

Don't take this the wrong way, but are you a fucking moron? Why in hell would you want to overdose on pills? Why would you even think about it? And then why would you wanna do it on purpose? What the hell is wrong with you?

Anyways! It really depends on what kind of pills you take. Some pills aren't strong enough to do anything. Some can make you get sick, some can make you pass out. And some can make you dizzy. It also depends on how many you take. If you take, I don't know, let's say 12, you'll probably just get sick, and throw them all up. But, if you take like 50, chances are you could die. I don't suggest overdosing on purpose. I can see if it was an accident, cause we all make mistakes. But, if you wanna do it on purpose, you're kinda retarded. So, don't do it. If you're doing this cause you wanna die, please learn to cherish your life. It's a wonderful thing. =] And besides, if God was real, he'd take you when he felt like it. Not when you tried.

♥TiNA

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i just had sex four times b ecause i got raped..they used condoms..

am i prwegnant!?

my stomache has been hurting
and i hacve been peeing alot.
please help me.
14f

Well, if they used condoms, probably not. But I'd check anyways. Go to the doctor, get checked out. Get some counselling because this is a tramautic thing, and then go to the cops.

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(13/f) Okay, so there's this one boy in my 1st hour advanced band class and i really suck at band. Anyway, I don't want to embarrass myself and he's in the chair right behind me, so, he can see and hear how I play(which is not too well). He's mainly the class clown and is always cracking jokes. He's really cute and yesterday(which was the first day of school) he got in trouble and had to move up next to me and so he like, whispered in my ear, "I love you" in a really goofy voice so obviously I know he's joking. But I developed a crush on him instantly but I know he has a girlfriend because I saw him sitting with her at lunch. I am REALLY quite shy and I want to talk to him and be noticed but I don't know how! Can anyone help?

Don't move up on him. He has a girlfriend that he likes, and she likes him. I wouldn't try to "get noticed" by him because with his girlfriend and all, he probably won't be interested. Be his friend for right now, but if they break up in the near future, and you still like him, then you can ask him out. But don't try to get cute with him now because if she finds out, she'll probably get really pissed off.

♥TiNA

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i have a problem. a guys likes me i like hima nd my friend likes him. what now? thanks in advance

This is so hard. It's kinda gonna put you in a no win situation. You like him, he likes you, you wanna go out, but you don't wanna hurt your friend. And then if you don't go out with him for the sake of your friends feelings, he'll get hurt. All I can suggest, is to talk to her about it, and ask her if it's okay if you & him go out, if she agrees to it, but has that look on her face like "Yeah...go out with him, whatever." She's lying to you, and she doesn't want you to. But then again, she'd be selfish by telling you that you can't. That's telling you not to be happy. Just talk to her about it, and see what happens.

♥TiNA

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