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can't trust her
My friend and I have been growing apart, you know it happens. Well, she has other freinds that I know, and some are my actual friends. And now that me and her aren't that good of freinds anymore, I am worried she is going to tell her friends all of my secrets I told her in the past. What should I do?
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Hey. If this girl was your good friend and you feel she is going to go around telling your secrets then I don't think she's a very good friend. The other friends won't like her telling other people's secrets and they will probably see her as untrustworthy so I wouldn't worry about it. Don't talk about her when you're around your other friends either because they will think you're just as bad :-(. Just go about hanging with your new friends/old good friends or if you are really worried, talk to your friend. Say I know we're not as close as we used to be but can we start off new? Want to come over tommorrow? If she says yes, great, if she says know oh well no matter. Or if you don't want to be her friend again which is okay too, say, but please don't tell my secrets because I would never tell yours. I really hope this works my friend and please give me feedback :-).
Chrissie
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well you should know her well enough that you could tell if she is going to tell people your secrets.but if you think that she really was your best friend then she wont tell your secrets.if she does then she was never yur friend to begin with friends never tell friends secrets(i learned that the hard way )and hey if sher tells to embarassing of a secret im sure you know some of her secrets as well.let me know how it all works out
lots of love,lizzie
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Just accept the fact that you made a mistake telling your friend all your secrets. Trust Nobody because before you know it someone can backstab you real bad. So if you guys moved apart then move back in with your actual friends.
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Well, if she was your good friend in the beginning she probably still respects you and won't tell To make sure you should straight up ask her not to. Call her up or say in person I know we've been growing apart, but I would really appreciate it if you wouldn't tell anyone the private things that I told you and I won't tell yours either
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Well, if she has respect for you, she'll keep your secrets, well, a secret. But if she does tell, then she obviously had no respect for you at all, and that just gives you the right to tell her secrets right back. Well, that's what I would do. Besides, big girls don't get mad, they get even. =] Don't worry about it. She probably won't tell, but if she does, well then she sucks.
♥TiNA
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