thelaura answered Thursday September 7 2006, 8:57 am: If this terrible ordeal JUST happened, you would certainly NOT be experiencing symptoms of pregnancy. You say they used condoms.. So that makes the risk minimal, however, the condoms may have broken etc.
You are 14. You NEED to tell someone about this. and get a pregnancy test etc ASAP.
Good luck. [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
Elcee answered Thursday September 7 2006, 6:43 am: I am so sorry to hear that you have been through such an awful ordeal at a very young age.
Please seek professional advice from a doctor because the chances are you have an infection. You also need to be checked for physical damage and for any diseases.
Please tell your mum and ask her to call the police because these animals should not get away with this. If you feel you can't tell your mum please tell a teacher you trust or another adult. You will receive all the professional help, such as counselling, which you will need to get over this.
Don't try to deal with this yourself even if you feel capable of doing so. I wish you all the very best and if I can help you any further please let me know. [ Elcee's advice column | Ask Elcee A Question ]
christina answered Thursday September 7 2006, 5:47 am: Well, if they used condoms, probably not. But I'd check anyways. Go to the doctor, get checked out. Get some counselling because this is a tramautic thing, and then go to the cops.
thrantos answered Wednesday September 6 2006, 11:17 pm: It's very hard to tell if you're pregnant immediately after you've had sex. However, I concur with the other advice given in response to your question: GET YOURSELF TO THE DOCTOR!
First of all, you need to make sure that you weren't injured in the attack. First-time sex, especially if it was forced on you, can physically hurt your vagina. Perhaps you've had your muscles torn. At any rate, the fact that your stomach hurts and you pee a lot is A BAD SIGN! Get this checked out before it gets any worse!
You also need to make sure that you haven't been infected with any STD's. Do not risk this either!
Finally, you need to be swabbed for DNA, although I imagine by now you've scrubbed down in the shower and any trace has been removed. At any rate, you need to report what happened to you, and receive some help. (I mean both medical and counselling- you've undergone a traumatic event, and that should be recognized and delt with by any competent health care worker.) [ thrantos's advice column | Ask thrantos A Question ]
XXkaiiOO answered Wednesday September 6 2006, 11:13 pm: well you might be pregnant. because condoms there are a chance that they wont work or they'll like break or something. I would get a pregnancy test and if it comes out positive then go to a doctor to make sure its right.. And if you are pregnant you could get an abortion or have the baby and give it up to adoption. or you could even keep it. i just dont think you would want to go through child birth at your age. not to mention that its dangerous because you are so young.
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