ok, well every time i shave, when im done, my legs are always really itchy. its not like a rash, but it wont go away. what should i dot to stop this?
Try shaving with baby bodywash.. I find that to keep my legs from itching then afterwards put lotion on them..I suggest baby lotion as well.. ♥Dez
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okay so for valentines day i cant think of anything to get my boyfriend since his bday was a couple days ago. so far im going into his room w hiel hes in school and putting balloons and notes n stuff in his room but i cant think of anything to actually get him. no he doesnt want cologne. he plays drums and loves music.
help! thanks
Maybe get him a set of drum sticks..
Get him some chocolates with a stuff bear..
Maybe take him out to dinner give him a valentines day card with a gift card..♥Dez
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17/f
My boyfriend's favorite animal is a cow, and we have inside jokes about it. I was thinking of getting him a stuffed cow and chocolates for Valentines Day. But I was wondering, do guys like getting stuffed animals from girls? I mean he's kind of like a "man's man." And I've been dating him for 5 months, so do you think chocolates and a stuffed cow would be enough? Or should I get him more? Or maybe make him dinner along with the stuffed cow and chocolates? Or would that be too much? Help!
Aw i think thats a cute idea.. Whatever way you go would be good i don`t think it`ll be too much or too little either way you go.. ♥Dez
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Hey so valentines day is coming up soon and i was wondering what 2 get my boyfriend. Im 15 and hes almomst 17. So i was wondering if any of you guys had any ideas on what for me 2 get him for valentines day!!! thanks a bunch!!
~Ashley~
I always say a build a bear..! they are so cute and you can dress them up or whatever.. What about some candy or a little something you know he likes.. ♥Dez
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I've always been the type to worry about STDs but I went a little far with my boyfriend and we have preformed oral on each other. Even though I might have the chance of already having caught something is it ok for me to ask him to be tested? Where might he get tested?
Its never to late to aks him to get tested.. yeah go ahead ask him and explain why you want him too.. ALso he can go to like a local health department place to get checked for free or planned parenthood.. They`ll also give you condoms or some sort of birth control.. ♥ Dez
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okay i am 13 years old...adn there is this guy that i really like and he likes me. the only thing is that hes 2 years older then me...to me it doesnt seem bad or anything but to everyone else it does. everyone keeps telling my that he does drugs and stuff but whne i ask him he says no. and people are telling my that he only wants to go out with me to make out and have oral sex. when i asked him about this hes like i would never make u do anything that you didn't want to. and i said good b.c i would never give you oral sex. and he said fine...
should i go out with him???
please help...thanxx
For one thing this guy wouldn`t admitt to you he does drugs.. And another don`t believe what other people say.. Find out for yourself.. Start out as friends so you can get to know him.. I wouldn`t jump into a relationship with somebody you hardly know sweetie.. Age isn`t a problem or bad in my opinion..
♥Dez
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So im going to be going back to school soon, and I want to do well and get like all A's!
I want to make new friends especialy guy friiiends..
what are some things I can do to make this happen!?
Studying would be the best thing you could do to get those A's.. get ahead of the game if you have too.. Also to make friends join maybe a sport or some sort of club..Don`t me shy but don`t be annoying either.. Be yourself.. ♥ Dez
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I don’t know what to do anymore, my life seems to be dying slowly even though I am alive. I don’t want to live anymore; I have imagines everyday of me jumping out my window. My life just seems all messed up. It may seem like nothing to you but all my problems put together are just killing me little by little. No one understands. Today I came from school all upset I couldn’t take it and told my grandmother I don’t want to live anymore. She got mad, called my mom and dad and was yelling at me telling me how lazy I am. She kept saying I’m just a lazy person that wont get anywhere in life without studying. She kept yelling and talking and now her and my mom got into a fight over this. My grandma tried to make this all seem like she’s the victim and I’m taking advantage of her. She kept saying with a grandchild like me the one who cries for every little reason she should just take an overdoes and die. Why on earth would she say all these things when she knows how I feel about life! I go to her are you crazy you bitch, don’t you understand why I want to kill myself you are one of the main reasons. I don’t have a main reason its juts that I’m very unlucky, I have really low self cofidecne, some people tend to make fun of my face, since I have acne and put a lot of cover up on. Which hurts the most because I had acne for about five years and I tried everything, I went everywhere, took her pill possible, and nothing works. It’s like a long rode that never ends no matter how hard you try. You keep running and running until you think you got to the end but it just keeps on going. That’s how my life feels. Now we got new teachers and new students in our classrooms. I hate most of my classes, and most of all I hate my math teacher. Now I’m really bad at math I mean really bad I don’t even know what 7 times 8 is unless I think about it for half an hour. Yeah sad I know. Hes really mean and trys to bring people who are not as smart as him down. I tired getting out of his class but my counselor is such a bitch! She told me to come early to school today so she could change my singing class since they put me in the wrong one. They put me back to the one I already took, so I would be learning everything all over and I passed her class with a 90. I come back at the end of the horrible day I had and she tells me the teacher said its okie and I can stay in that class. I was like butt … she stooped me and said theres nothing I can do. I was like but wait im learning everything over again I don’t understand. She goes yeah I know but then we would have to change your whole program I was like sooo you do it for everybody else. I know shes just a fucken lazy bitch that needs to get fired, Counselor my ass. I don’t know what to do! I hate schhol and wanna quite im only 16 but I don’t see school in my future. My grandma makes me feel like shit about this but I don’t know what to do!!! Please help and don’t say talk to her because that wont work ill just end up killing myself faster. I don’t know what to do with my life. Please answer if you ever felt like this about school and juts ur whole life and tell me what you
Hey sorry to answer this late..
I`m very sorry your going through this.. Yeah i know life is hard i`ve had some problems as well.. You sound very angry to me.. Which i`m not complaining cuz i have my days too.. But i honestly think you need to talk to somebody.. Like go to therapy.. I did this when i had problems and it helped some and i had issues with my mom and bringing her with me helped our issues at home.. Yes this will cost some money but if you have isurance its not that much.. I have a suggestion on the acne problem if you`d like to try it.. But thats completely up to you.. I think Velocity by Mary Kay is a very good product and might help.. I`m not promising but i just thought i`d help a little with that as well.. Um i`d also try talking to your grandma and mom about how you feel if possible.. And when they say mean things to you *TRY* to ignore them.. Yes! i know its hard.. Best of luck SWEETIE!! ♥Dez
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Why are some guys such JERKS? No, that's not really my question, but I would like to know.
My question is this... I have a boyfriend. I think. Thing is, I haven't spoken to him since early December. He WON'T take my calls. How do I know? "Hello Mrs. Carr, is Andrew home?"
"Just a second" *calls his name in the backround*
*Andrew whispers back* "Who is it?"
"May I ask who's calling?"
"Yes ma'am, it's Brandy."
*Andrew whispering again* "I'm not home."
*His mom* "Brandy honey, could you call back in a few minutes please?"
"Of course."
So I wait a few minutes, about fifteen, and call back. NO ANSWER. I call my friend Meg who lives right next door to him and asked if he was there. She said yes. I called him again. No answer. I waited a few more minutes and called back. No answer.
He missed my birthday and hasn't spoken to me at all in over a month. I just don't know what to think. I mean, he hasn't broken up with me, so does he want to be with me? And if he didn't want to be with me, couldn't he grow some cohones and tell me instead of ignoring me?
*Sigh*
YES! thats an asshole for ya..
I would take that you guys aren`t together hun.. He`s punk to not call you an mention that your broke up..
I`d just move on hunny if i was you.. Give up on calling and everything..
You defiantly deserve better so get out there and find a good guy.. ♥Dez
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hey. im 14 years old and im looking for some romance novels! I loved Wuthering Heights, that kind of book, but im looking for some choices that are an easy read, just for fun you know!. Any suggestions!?!
This girl at my school loves these books called Desire.. She reads them alot.. Theres titals to the books but i`m not sure what they are.. Sh`s talked about the books to me and they sound good but i`ve not actually read them sorry if i didn`t help much.. ♥Dez
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Im just wondering,whats a good brand of face cleaner for semi oily-acne prone skin?
I absolutely love Velocity by Mary Kay its the greatest in my opinion.. Or i`d suggest Clean and Clear its good too.. ♥Dez
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omg im like going to die i borrowed a friends pair of light jeans last week and i have my period and i leaked throu on them and i put peeroxide on it and put it in the dryer and ran them through cold water and it didnt come out please how do you get period stains out!!?!?!? i need help fast shes going to be here in like and hour
Thats something thats extremely hard to get out.. I`d tell her what happened yea its a little embarrassing but better then makin some cheesy lie up.. Tell her you`ll give her the money for them.. She`s a female she should understand sweetie.. ♥Dez
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um i know this is kind of a weird question but how do u kiss/makeout? like what are some "techniques?" and what exactly is making out, it it basically french kissing? thanks, i rate
Some people call it french kissing some call it making out.. *same thing*.. Umm Just follow the person`s lead who your kissing.. Its really hard to be bad at something like that.. The more you do it you`ll find out what you like doing and what the person your kissing likes.. here are a few tips for ya hun tho..
*Don`t close your mouth completely while having the guy's or your tongue in the guy`s mouth cuz you don`t want your tongue bit on or his.. *embarassing..
*Brush your teeth or have atleast decent breath..
*Don`t try to gag the person with your tongue
*Swallow spit before kissing
*Don`t chew bubble gum before kissing or take medicine **NASTY!! maybe chew chewing gum or something
Best of luck (= ♥Dez
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today, at school i walked for about 30 minutes..about a mile, then i walked home...about 30 more minutes...then i lifted weights for 20 minutes, then did my gazelle for only 10 minutes, i then walked to the school to get my couison, and home ( 30 minutes ) then i did an intermediate pilates video..
me and my couison plan on doing this a few times a week..will i lose weight? ( sum days though i won't be doing all that walking, and it'll be weights, video, and gazelle )
any advice to stay motivated on the gazelle for 20 minutes? i feel like its like 5 hours! i love reading advice..so i'll take comments..
thanks in advance!
much love
hopeless romantic
Yes this will help you lose weight.. The more you do the Gazelle the more time you`ll be able to do it hun.. Thats pretty much with anything you start doing that involves exercizing.. You`ll be fit in NO TIME!! ♥Dez
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i am only 13 ( female ) and i have horrible nasty legs! its groce! how can i help get rid of this? i'm ONLY 13! AHH i hate it! celulite makes me not want to go swimming! please please please don't suggest running, i can't run!
thanks in advance
I`m not going to suggest running..
But defiantly try walking.. Maybe not long periods at a time but start out slow then start walking longer and so on and so on.. Also eat healthier go on a diet.. or eat six small meals a day instead of 3 big meals.. Make sure their healthy..
Maybe try streching some so you will be able to walk longer or even jog..
You can lift weight with your legs.. Might be hard to do that since your 13 and its kinda hard to get in gym`s at your age but maybe you can do it at school..
You don`t just want to work your legs out hun.. Try working your arms and abs out as well.. Lift weights with arms if possible too.. Do crunches that would be good to maybe not alot but enough to get your heartrate goin..
Best of luck (= ♥Dez
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how do i get a background for my advice coulmn plz help and thanks!!
Everything [Karen] said is true.. Go by what she says.. Rate her good.. No need to rate me k.. ♥Dez
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So I like this guy named Joey. He is really sweet. And I love him to death.
Yesterday, he finally asked me out. And then I heard from my friend Therese that my other friend Mario [who was with me when Joey asked me out] likes me a lot, more than friends should like eachother. And now, Mario told me that Joey thinks that I made out with Mario [which I didn't]. And Mario is trying to do almost everything for me and Joey to break up since he likes me.
What should I do?
Please help!
Steph
I think you should go talk to this Mario guy and tell him that you`d like for him to stay out of your and Joey`s relationship.. Tell him if he wants you happy he`d do that for you.. Whether or not he admitts he likes you more then friends you should still tell him to leave you guys alone..
Maybe warn your boyfriend Joey whats going on a bit.. Don`t let him do anything to your friend tho..
Mention also to Mario all you want with him is *friends* and thats it.. ♥Dez
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Well I am dating this really nice guy and I was talking to a very trustworthy friend on the phone and she said that somone likes him and told me their name and I was like their a hoe its no comparison to me and shes like well she offered him head and I was like so, so she was like well have you and I was like no ofcourse not and then she said shes after him, if she offers him head again do you think he will say yes what should I do? He dated her once and all they did was makeout but do you think that now she will try to do more because hes now my boyfriend, hes really sweet and super cute. I just got out of a bad relationship and I dont want this to be like the last one. Please help.
Well its hard to really say since i don`t know this guy like you would.. But if he would do that to you then you don`t need him anyways.. This girl that likes him is most likely jealous and just sayin that so she could possibly get him back.. I`m not sayin she wouldn`t do it or anything cuz i don`t know but thats most likely the reason of her saying this.. If this guy really likes you sweetie then he won`t do that to you.. Talk to him about what you`ve heard maybe leave your friend`s name out of it so he don`t have hate towards her.. ♥Dez
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there is this girl that i realy like
(she is in 8th grade and i am in 7th)
the only problem is that our parents are going out... what should i do?
If the relationship with your guys parents are serious i`d forget it cuz that might be your step sister but if they just startin out or something maybe not be girlfriend and boyfriend but try being good friends then see what happens from there.. Your still quite young and so is she so you don`t want this to be something serious at a young age but if it happens that way good for you =) ♥Dez
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Is it gross or weird for a girl with very dark and coarse hair to shave her arms?
Nopers defiantly not weird hun.. But if you shave the hair is going to grow fast and you`ll have to keep up with it sweetie.. ♥Dez
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