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hey i was wondering how you put your same buddylist on another sn? i know that, for the old aim, you just save it, and open it up again on your new sn... but ive had aim triton/6.0 for a while now and i love it, i just dont know how to transfer my buddies ? i finally figured out how to link screenames, so i just need the buddies on it.
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i had the same problem but im not sure if youd wanna do what i did..

i actually downloaded 5.9 again and sent it to my linked sn on 5.9 then i just deleted 5.9 again

but if you dont wanna go through the hassle maybee aim express would work?

hope i helped somehow and i hope all works out


is there a song that has uhn tiss uhn tiss in it? if so whats it called and who is it by? (link)
its called: uhn tiss uhn tiss uhn tiss
By: bloodhound gang

hope i helped


What is Sparkling wine?
Personally what is your opinion about it? To you like it better compared to regular? What different about it? Is it sweeter? (link)
Just by a bottle of each type and try them. Sparkling wine is great. My opinion is that it doesn t have suck an intense taste as normal wine has and it is easier to drink if you dont really like alcohol.
Sweet wine, that has more sugar, gets you easily drunk coz sugar goes straight into the brain carrying the alcohol from your drink.Thats the reason why sometimes cocktails are stronger than shots of vodka, tequila etc.


I don't have a boyfriend. I think it's because I have a hard time being myself and staying relaxed around guys.
What should I do to be myself and keep confident?
13. (link)
U dont have to do naything besides acting good looking. Leave the rest up to them. Being shy and not talkative makes them do all the talking and try harder for you. As time goes by, you ll feel more comfortable but you dont really have to.


ok there is this amazing girl at my school. i dated her last year, and now i am a freshman in highschool. while we were going out, i was to shy to really do anything. i wanted to kiss her so bad but i just couldnt find the strength to actually make my move. we broke up later because she did not like me anymore. we went out for about 3 weeks. before that we were really good friends, but now its like we dont talk at all anymore, part of the reason being we dont have any classes together. ever since we broke up though, its weird, it seemed like i wanted her more and more every day. i havnt stopped thinking about her every day and it has been almost a year now. i still see her almost everyday, because i go to a small private school. anyway, i have just learned that she is leaving my school, to go to another because she wants a change of things. i think i love her and i dont want her to leave, but i am too shy to step up and admit to her my feelings, not that it would change anything, but i just feel like she should know, before she goes that someone is thinking of her. i also feel that that might make things even more aukward between us, and i am really shy when it comes to this stuff. (link)
tell her all of this, girls love to hear it. if a guy told me all of that, i would fall in love with him haha. but seriously, tell her all of it [and act sensitive, don't try to be cool] then at the end, ask her out. you should really say it in person, but if you don't want to, ATLEAST write it in a note. you have to tell her or you will regret it forever!

1.) do you have aim? we could talk better on there.. i'm sarah99596
2.) to your question-- what should you say-- say (something like this, not exactly) "i know that you are about to move, so i wanted to let you know that i really, really love you. you mean alot to me, and i don't want you to go. ever since we broke up, i want you more and more everyday. as you know, i'm pretty shy. so that's why i acted the way i did. but now, things can be different. will you go out with me?"


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alright so i was watching spongebob the other night and squidward said his line and it was, "I QUIT WORKING AT THE KRUSTY KRAB!" so then i thought to myself "well what is squidward going to do for income?" im thinking like it's some reality!! and that's when i caught myself that i do that all the time about thing,...
what's wrong with me??? (link)
Wa-wa-wait! Nothing is wrong with you, you're just mature and you think things through like a smart person. That's a really good thing.


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alright so i was watching spongebob the other night and squidward said his line and it was, "I QUIT WORKING AT THE KRUSTY KRAB!" so then i thought to myself "well what is squidward going to do for income?" im thinking like it's some reality!! and that's when i caught myself that i do that all the time about thing,...
what's wrong with me??? (link)
ok hun... there is nothing wrong with you. your just an "out of the box" thinker. hahaha im like that too. i watch spongebob and say. "hey how do they get fire underwater," or "howcome they dont get electricuted when they turn on a light or something." it just means that you notice the logical things i guess. lol


What is Sparkling wine?
Personally what is your opinion about it? To you like it better compared to regular? What different about it? Is it sweeter? (link)
i thought sparkling was like nonalcoholic...
im not sure haha dont trust my answer but i think sparkling wine is nonalcoholic and regualr wine is
but i might be wrong

sorry but i hope i helped in some way..


does anyone know any websites you can like make photo albums on and post pictures? and make slideshows with pictures? thankss. (link)
photobucket.com
onetruemedia.com
slide.com
yourock.com
poqburn.com

hope i helped


what is an orgy? everyone talks bout it at school and i dont know what it is. :S (link)
group sex, gang bang... but basically a group of people having sex


Does Anyone Know How To Make An Album On Facebook? Can You Walk Me Through The Steps? Thanks In Advance! (link)
so go to your side bar and click on photos. then in the top right corner it says "add album" and from there its reallllly easy... but if you need ANY help, deffinantly feel free to ask for more help/tips (such as uploading them, tagging them, etc!)


What does it mean to have "a dry sense of humor"? (link)
it [could] mean a lot of things, but in general, it means that someone will not laugh at your jokes, and they dont make jokes... meaning them their selves they arent very funny. basically, imagine snape from harry potter haha.


Does anyone know any foods that will make my skin look good? I need to look PERFECT at my grad (link)
banana = good for complexion (like no pimples)
avocado gives you good, silky skin!
and water, thats the best thing you can get (but of course its good to drink other stuff!!)
stay away from like meats, like steak (or minimize ita little)
these are great for you, and they'll QUICKLY improve your skin!


stupid limewire takes forever to connect what do i do and how do i do it? (link)
limewire use to be okay [like last year], but now it is NOT SAFE AT ALL. there are some pretty major consequences if you continue to use it! i use to use it religiously, but a few people got busted IN MY TOWN, so i stopped.

oh yeah, and i forgot to answer your question. it's probably so slow because there are a bunch of people on it. [people that are taking big chances lol]


how would you describe a good person (in detail) because i really want to become one, but don't know where to start ?! (link)
these go along with becoming a better person, even though thats not really your question haha

Compliment three people everyday.
Watch a sunrise.
Be the first to say "Hello."
Don't waste an opportunity to tell someone you love them.
Treat everyone as you want to be treated.
Never give up on anybody; miracles happen.
Forget the Jones's.
Remember someones name.
Pray not for things, but for wisdom and courage.
Be tough-minded, but tender hearted.
Be kinder than you have to be.
Don't forget that a persons greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
Keep your promises.
Learn to show cheerfulness even when you don't feel it.
Remember that overnight success usually takes 15 years.
Leave everything better than you found it.
Remember that winners do what losers don't want to do.
When you arrive at your job in the morning, let the first thing you say brighten everyone's day.
Don't rain on other peoples parades.
Live beneath your means.
Keep some things to yourself and don't promote havoc by backstabbing people you love.


My boyfriend and I have been dating for seven months. We've been having a hard time lately because I've been very angry with him about stupid things. =/ He just told me it bugged him today & he actually broke up with me.

He's "broke up with me" in the past. But, it seems like he's serious this time, like he kept saying no when I'd say please.

I want to be with him, so bad. I'm seeing him tomorrow & I was thinking about making him something. Can you give me some ideas? Please.. Or just what to say to him.

Thankyou (link)
U go girl
4 real, think about yourself. Make yourself happy. He broke up with you. People tell you that there is plenty of fish in the sea and that hurts you even more, coz u dont want no other fish. But do you realise that there are men that can send you higher than he ever did? Can make you forget all about him and make you happier than ever.
Best wishes, dont worry.


do girls like average looking, nice guys??? (link)
I could write a hole essay on this subject.
The answer is 100% NO. Girls do not like nice guys.
We will always deny that though. There is something in our chromosoams that makes us claim that "I want a nice guy..." and complete "to avoid him" inside our mind.
If you are a good person, people take you for granded and no longer try to win you. They are not trying to make you happy. Make them work it.
Wish you the best.


You said on your feedback
"what about all girls who answered the question so positively?"
If you take a close look at my answer to your questions you ll realise that I say
"Girls do not like nice guys.
We will always deny that though"
Girls always say they want a nice guy, they never end up with the nice guy though.


i personally dont see what is so bad about drugs! maruana(sp) and weed and everything. i would never try it because my parents would freak out, but why is it illegal? all it really does is make you high, which is exactly what alchahol does! if drugs are illegal, alchahol should be aalso!w/ what is the difference? someone please explain to me and why drugs are so bad? (link)
Marijuana destroies your brain. Alcohon when consumed responsibly doesn t. If someone drinks 10 bottles of whisky then of course he can say that alcohol is just as bad as weed.
Also most types of marijuana are chemically messed up, therefore various types of weed are not as innocent as they seem. They also happen to be highly addictive even though many people claime otherwise.
Weed smokers tend to forget all the time. Not when they are high but generally..forget about everything.
Weed smoking is commonly to come with lack of motivation, weed smokers dont set hight targets and goals in their life, they only care about making enough money to get high. No clubbing, no fun, no partying just videogames.
If someone likes to do drugs of course, he is not harming anyone but chances are he will affect other people too. Nowdays people smoke so much weed it is considered really common to do so, people talk freely about it, people light up one without asking wether someone has a problem...Well, it is not a normal thing to do.
Alcohol is nice to drink. A cocktail with some umbrellas on, people can enjoy a glass of wine with their food, or a beer with their stake. You dont consume alcohol to get drunk. When you smoke weed, you do it cause you wanna get high.
When the body becomes used to the substance, it needs more or a different type. Wich means that if you smoke weed, a time will come when smoking weed will have no effect unless you smoke more. And so on and so on so in the end if you wanna get high you end up with a needle full of crack in your eye.
Have the disciplence not to give in in the first place. You dont know how it feels like to be addicted to something, I dont know either but I am not going to find out.
Control yourself.


My boyfriend says he trusts me a lot. If I joke about a guy that I pretend to be keen on, he laughs it off but then just as quickly, comes back with something far worse like him being very 'sexual' towards another chick- nobody in particular. However, just the idea of him maybe touching or even giving oral to another chick, drives me insane. He laughs as I react by screaming and blocking me ears. He obviously knows that I'm crazy about him and that i'd hate the idea of him wanting someone else and he knows that joking about it can stir me up big time. However because I never get the same reaction from him or even similar reaction, am I right to think that maybe he doesn't find me attractive enough to another guy? I do get alot of good attention from males but they are always older or married or not as appealing as my bf. What do you guys think?
Maybe he really does think i'd never cheat and he just trusts me alot more than I do him (and thats ONLY because he's male!!) (link)
I once read somewhere that when there is real love one does not feel jeallous of another. Cause real love means trust.
I think this mostly happens to men who spent hard times in the past. When they ve been through shit with some ex girls of her they no longer worry about stuff. They expect anything, they expect to be cheated and feel no pain when forgotten. Its a defense.
For sure it has nothing to do with him finding you hot or not.
My opinion.


ok i have this coolclose friend ive known for her for like 2 years (but i wish i knew her longer) and she told me that shes movng to Philippines this year 2 weeks before the school ends and i was shocked about it, and it pretty much makes me sad so much and also because shes like my good clos friend and all that how can i make myself not to be sad and cry? and what song describe about your friends is moving?

sorry im not good at english im from Japan. (link)
Dont worry nowdays distance no longer matters. Besides Japan and Philippines are really clsoe you ll get to see each other pretty soon.
Other than that consider installing an ADSL connection to the internet logging on to MSN and having a webcam like 24/7. I do it all the time.
When my sister was gone for a month we both had our webcams on 24/7 and once I even slept with a friend of mine. I could see her sleeping while my webcam was pointing at me, it was really cool.
Wish you the best and dont worry. Once real friends, forever friends.




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