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He Doesn't Get Jealous
My boyfriend says he trusts me a lot. If I joke about a guy that I pretend to be keen on, he laughs it off but then just as quickly, comes back with something far worse like him being very 'sexual' towards another chick- nobody in particular. However, just the idea of him maybe touching or even giving oral to another chick, drives me insane. He laughs as I react by screaming and blocking me ears. He obviously knows that I'm crazy about him and that i'd hate the idea of him wanting someone else and he knows that joking about it can stir me up big time. However because I never get the same reaction from him or even similar reaction, am I right to think that maybe he doesn't find me attractive enough to another guy? I do get alot of good attention from males but they are always older or married or not as appealing as my bf. What do you guys think?
Maybe he really does think i'd never cheat and he just trusts me alot more than I do him (and thats ONLY because he's male!!)
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He obviously really does trust you. If he didn't, he would be a lot more prying. Be happy your guy trusts you! And of course he finds you attractive!!! That's why he's with you! Don't ever think that he doesn't like you!
As for the jokes about cheating on you, don't worry about them. Guys LOVE sarcasm. See the beauty in it. If you joke about cheating, he's going to as well. If it bothers you, then don't start saying that you were with another guy and the subject won't be brought up.
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I once read somewhere that when there is real love one does not feel jeallous of another. Cause real love means trust.
I think this mostly happens to men who spent hard times in the past. When they ve been through shit with some ex girls of her they no longer worry about stuff. They expect anything, they expect to be cheated and feel no pain when forgotten. Its a defense.
For sure it has nothing to do with him finding you hot or not.
My opinion.
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boys like playing games. i think hes just playing with you, and if you would ever actually like sumone else he would freak out
maybe ge just trusts you 100%?
or maybe hes trying to show hes not so mushy
or maybe he dosent like you very much, and thinks he could replace you?
i dont know, i dont know this boy!
i really hope hes just teasing you, and that he would never leave you
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