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Ok, I have this really rare blood type (AB-) and my mom told me that if I want to have children, I have to go with my "partner" to get tested to see what blood types can mix with each other and be ok. She said if I mix body fluids (blood) with someone that isn't the same type as me, I'll die. And I really like this guy, but I don't know what blod type he is. And I don't want anyone to know that we....um, yeah. And I'm just....full of freaking questions! I'm such a dork! (link)
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There's the whole RH factor thing to deal with should you have a baby. It is something that can be dealt with though so the blood type of your eventual husband is not a major issue these days.
Ask your doctor next time you have a check up because mom really isn't correct in her facts.
You won't die. Hospital know all about typing blood and giving you the correct type in an emergency.
Do not worry about the boyfriends blood type. It makes no difference believe me. Mom is either trying to scare you into leaving the boys alone, or she honestly doesn't understand. :)
If you want more info, punch AB negative blood type into your search engine and you will pullup all kinds of site to check into.
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ok i am 13 female and i haven't gotten my period yet! i was wondering if masturbating has something to do with it? because i masturbate about 4 times a month its just that i am scared because i havent goten my period at all yet. please help me if you can.
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You are fine. Masturbating has no affect on your period.
If you are very athletic, as in a runner or something like that...that can have an affect.
Here is a website that will give you some useful info. :)
……………http://kidshealth.org/teen/sexual_health/girls/period.html
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I need your opinion:
I have been love for four years.
I am 17 now.
Some people say I'm too young and others say that seventeen is ld enough to know what you want.
I've always been mature for my age and when I told everyone I was in love at fourteen, needless to say, they didn't believe it. But it has been years and I am still in love.
Do you think I'm "old enough" to be in love? If I am, then wasn't I old enough when I was fourteen because back then, I was sure I would be in love forever and I still am. (link)
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Since I was married at 17 and have been for 30 years I have to say you can be, don't I!!
You may have known at 14. Even at 17 know there are still major changes that will take place in your lives. I do realize that I am very lucky to have weathered all the storms with my guy.
Good Luck! :)
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ok, why do people not understand that you cant get over a guy so fast! i mean all my friends tell me to get over this guy! but i cant! n thn they say im dumb! WTF?! (link)
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They will think different when its them in that situation.
You do have to move on but it isn't going to happen overnight.
Here is a site you might like to check out. It may have something useful to help you get over things. :)
http://www.lovingyou.com/content/advice/breakup/content.shtml?ART=mendheart
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So there are 2 guys lets call them #1 and #2 well i work with #1 and today at school he waited for me when i got to school and walked around with me then gave me a hug. But #2 I found out really likes me I don't really know him but today he told my friend don't forget...meaning don't forget to tell me that he likes me. I like both of them but what should I do? (link)
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Thats ultimatley up to you. I do have one thing for you to consider...
#1 didn't go through a friend. He kind of let you know himself. Bravery!! :)
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I know this may be a stupid question, but you don't have to answer it ; but are you really 47 ? I'm just wondering. You give good advice, though. [&hearts] Alma (link)
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Ya, I'm 47.
Thanks for the compliment, I certainly try. :)
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ok things have gotten really stressfull in my life right now and i need soem help. the only way i have found to handle my stress is smoking. i have smoked for 4 years offa nd on. but never as much as i smoke now. about a year ago a pack would last me almost a week. now it barely lasts me over a day! i want to slow down, but i tend to get grumpy and really super stressed when i do. any ways i can either cut down with out freakign out or just take away some of my stress? i know smoking so much is only harming my body not helping, but i dont know any other ways to handle my stress (link)
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Here is a site that may help you in dealing with your stress. Hope you find something useful in here somewhere! :)
http://kidshealth.org/teen/your_mind/emotions/stress.html
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ok, my fiance is 22 and he went to a therapist hte other day. he has a lot of mental problems (he was raped as a young boy) and thigns that other girls have done to him, he is scared will happen again. well the therapist diagnosed him with Bypolar type 2, parnoia, and depression. i don't know how to handle them or to help him out with them. i understand the depresseion, because i myself have lived with depression for a long time. so if anyone can tell me any ways i can help him out or things i can do to take care of him. becuase i love him alot and i want to help out. also could you describe these 3 things to me so that i can get a better grasp on them? thank you! (link)
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Here is a website that may help you better understand some of the things he is dealing with.:)
http://kidshealth.org/teen/your_mind/feeling_sad/bipolar.html
There are literaly hundreds of sites out there on this. If this one isn't exactly what your looking for. Hope it helps.
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i really want a baby of my own but i'm only 14. is that bad? i want a baby by the time i am a sophmore in high school. i am very motherly and plenty mature enough, i babysit all the time.
i have a boy in mind that i would want to get me pregnant and i'm sure he would have sex with me, but i know he wouldnt want to be a father at 15 or 16. (he's a year older than me) he's not my boyfriend, but he used to be,
i love him with all my heart and i know he already wants to move closer to me for college but still, thats a couple years away.
my family loves him and his family and his family feels the same way. i'm sure my family would help me out as much as they could if i did get pregnant, but still....
help!! any advice at all would be wonderful.
is it bad that i want a baby so bad? should i like, seduce this guy and have sex with him? what if he denies having sex with me if i do have a baby? what if he stops loving me because of me having a child?
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Yes it is actually.
First you don't trick guys into getting you pregnant. A baby deserves 2 parents who want it and are able to care for it. Not one.
Your parents are approaching an age when they need to think about what they will do when they retire. They do not need the added burden of raising a grandchild.
It is selfish to bring a child into the world that you cannot pay for. The hospital bill for having a baby is in the thousands of dollars. Most parents insurance will not cover if their kid gets pregnant. So that come out of pocket.
Babies need so much more than love. They need diapers and formulas and clothes. Hundreds of dollars a months worth.
They must have round the clock attention. That means no dances no fun with friends.
Friends will be all for looking at the cute baby for a month or so, then they go on with their lives while yours comes to a standstill.
Oh, no dates either. And, if you trap some guy into knocking you up...you won't have them asking anyway.
Basically, much as you want one, it isn't fair to a baby to bring it into the world with no father and mother to care for it. Not fair to do that to your parents. Not fair for you to end your youth so fast. You have no life experience to raise a baby with.
You will get there soon enough. Don't rush it. Been there done that so take it from me and wait.
I could go on and on....
Anyway, wasn't my intention to make you mad or anything. You just need to hear the facts. You will make a wonderful mother when the time is right for you to be. Wait until a time in your life when you can share the experience with someone you love. Your future baby will be so much happier! :)
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Okay.... I have a big question and I dont know what to do.. sooo.. Okay. My mom has this problem that she wont let me date anyone thats 16 and older. I am 14 right now. I was melested when I was 12 by my brothers friend who was 18 at the time. So my mom is paranoid about me having older boyfriends. I think she needs to get through her mind that not ALL guys are the same. She thinks that older guys are more "experienced". So there is this guy. I told my mom alooot about him and I told her that he was a sophmore and he was 15. But then I found out that he was 16!! And like an idiot I told my mom. Now... I like him sooooo much!!!!!!!! He wants to ask me out. What should I say? I like him alot but the thing is is that Ill have to keep it a secret from my mom. (link)
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Ask him if he would have a problem if your first few dates were at your house with mom getting to know him.
If he is okay with that then approach your mom with it. Tell her he is willing to let her get to know him before you actually leave the house on a date.
Be sure and let your guy know why you need to do this. Otherwise he will just think your mom is goofy.
You also need to have a talk with mom. Tell her you understand her feeling the way she does, but that there are plenty of guys under the age of 16 who can hurt you too. Age isn't really the problem.
When it come right down to it, you are the one who has to learn to trust guys again. You do that in your own way. Good luck, hope it works out for you. :)
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how do i find people who are into the same things as me?
i like movies, thinking about people nad life in general.
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You can usually find people who have mutual interests by looking in the places those things take place.
Now movies would be a tough one. However, maybe you can find a group that gets together and talks about movies. Look for clubs and groups that cater to what you like.
School, different club organizations. Good luck. :)
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how do you know when your in love or what is love? (link)
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Here are a couple of websites that might be of help. :)
http://www.links2love.com/isitlove.htm
http://www.links2love.com/is_it_love_2.htm
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ok, heres the thing, i have a gf, but people tell me she dont really lik me, then other people tell me shes crazy bout me. i kno im crazy bout her, i love her. wut do i do? who do i listen 2? then people r tellin me she likes this other guy also. wtf do i do? (link)
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You listen to what your gut tells you is true. And you listen to your girlfriend.
Don't listen to what other people tell you on this subject... ever. They may have ulterior motives for trying to break you up.
Plus, One of the most important things in any relationship is trust. :)
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One of my best friends thinks she fat when she's really not and she says she on a diet. When I asked her though if she was on a starvation diet, she said "Next subject please." That tells me she needs help. I don't know what I should do though. I'm really worried about her. Should I tell someone even though she made me promise not to?
Thanks! I rate high! =]
Love, Brittany (link)
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I think you need to tell someone. If she gets mad at least maybe shes alive and mad!
Here is a website that may help you help her. :)
..http://kidshealth.org/teen/your_mind/problems/friend_eating_disorder.html
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Okay, I know that I'm probably not even suppose to ask this kind of question on here. But I really need some advice, so hopefully it'll be okay!! Well my boyfriend has tried fingering me like twice and it hasn't been successful yet because everytime when he gets his finger to a certain point, it hurts really badly, so I tell him to stop. I HATE PAIN! Now, I've never wore tampons and I've never fingered my own self. So we both talked about this & we figured out that it's probably my hymen and it hasn't been "stretched" or whatnot yet, so it's hurting and in order for him to finger me properly, he has to stretch my hymen and I have to deal with the pain, correct? Just so you know, he understand that it hurts and he hasn't tried FORCING his fingers in me or anything like that. Also, could me being sort of nervous make my muscles tense up and make it hurt worse? Could another problem be that I'm not wet enough? We both though that I was, but you never know. Anyway, is this really what the problem is.. my hymen? If so.. what can I or HE do to make this experience better and less painful? Thank you!! (link)
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Actually, we can't give you details without risking getting the site shut down or getting banned.
The best I can offer is for you to see a doctor. It really shouldn't hurt that bad. Some are thick though and some even have to be surgically broken (very rare). :)
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Okay so I need yalls help! My Grandma got a phone call monday night at like 10:45 and it was a prank call...(Of course they blocked their number so we cant find out who is it) so heres how the convo went (the letters represent the peoples names):
Granny: hello?
Them: Hello, is H there?
Granny: Who is calling?
Them: B
Granny: Who?
Them: B, You might want to take H to the hospital, he gave me aids last night.
Them: (Someone laughing histerically in the background)
Keep in mind "H" is my grandfather and the "B" represents me. Now i'm sorry but that isnt even a cute prank call...my grandmother lives alone most of the time so she was scared to go to bed. But anyways...we have an idea of who it is...me, my mom, and grandmother think it was my brother's friend..lets call him N. and also my brother's other friend...we'll call him J. Now the only reason with think it's N & J is because N is the only friend of my bro who knows my grandpa's name. And I'm sure J was the one who told him to use my name. Now hopefully your still with me LOL. We were trying to think of some clever ways to get them to confess...I think we should do some of these:
1) Sit them down and frankly ask if they did it
2) Ask them if they know how to block your number when you call sumone
3) Ask if they know anything about a prank phone call my grandmom recieved
I'm open to opinions on this so please feel free to come up with some ideas of your own (that was the whole point of this lol) and let me know. Thank you for taking the time to read this. I'll rate high (5) and please, NO SMART-ASSES! Thnkx a mil (link)
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My mom has a block on her phone through the phone company.
It won't let any call through if they have an unlisted number OR if they are blocking their number from showing on caller ID.
I should rephrase that. She can let the call through if they give their name to a recording she gets beforehand.
That may be something your grandma could look into. I really don't think the boys will confess. Even if they do the damage was done.
Might be best just to stop it from happening again. Good luck. :)
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ok so i have been thinking of what i wanted to do. I was in a doctors office and i saw this lady come in who was looking very cute in her out fit and i was checking out her car and it was a nice BMW. So i asked my mom who she was and she said that she was a pharmaceutical sales rep. Well i have been thinking and medicine is intresting and the human body is fun for me to learn about! So i was wondering exactly what they do! And how much do they get paid, thank you soo much! i rate easy 5s! (link)
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OK. I don't know how much they get paid or anything. I can tell you what I know about them.
I have worked in Both doctors offices and a hospital.
Drug reps are not well liked by most. Hospitals usually show them the door.
Doctors offices will let them in because they shower them with little gifts in order for the doctors to listen to their spiel on how this drug or that is the one they should be prescribing.
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Well, hopefully if you go into this line of work you will make some changes for the better!
Paramedic though...if you want excitement look into it :)
Doctors are not known for their great knowledge of drugs. The one I worked for took every word the stupid drug rep said as truth.
So, what you wind up with is a doctor prescribing a certain medicine because some drug rep will send them steaks at Christmas and bring them free ink pens.
Neither of which knows or cares how the drug will affect a real person ( in my opinion). I truly doubt that all people educated on drugs are pretty or handsome but all reps are. Which only tell me they are chosen for their looks and not for their knowledge.
If you want to help people in the medical field become a doctor or a nurse. A paramedic is fun too and takes fewer years to study.
If you want to be in the pharmaceutical field become a pharmacist. They know more about drugs than doctors do because they keep up to date all all new drugs and what they actually do to a person. Doctors only learn what the drug fixes.
Hope that didn't bore you or discourage you. :)
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okay thanks. although i can drop it your box i would rather talk to you on aim/aol or email because its much easier to go back and forth. my email is xsweetxpeax88@aim.com if you want to email me and if you want my sn lemme no (link)
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OK I don't have aim or AOL so email it is. I will send you one now. :)
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Okay so i've gotten a few emails recently from different people and one of those mailbot things (the ones that tell you your message cant be delivered) well...there is always some strange email that i've never seen before...the mailbots tell me that my message cant be delivered to so and so and i dont even know who they are! and i also just today got an email from some carl flemons. I dont know him but his message said this "I apologize for this automatic reply to your email.
To control spam, I now allow incoming messages only from senders I have approved beforehand.
If you would like to be added to my list of approved senders, please fill out the short request form (see link below). Once I approve you, I will receive your original message in my inbox. You do not need to resend your message. I apologize for this one-time inconvenience.
Click the link below to fill out the request:"
like i said...I dont know him! Is this spam or is someone hacking into my hotmail and sending these messages?
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It sure sounds like it.
Whatever you do never give out your address to anyone you don't know (which it sounds like you know already).
You might want to contact hotmail and let them know of the problem you are having. :)
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Does anyone know a free anger management therapy in clearwater, FL? (link)
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I don't know of one but, you might try checking with your local health department. They may have some information for you or know where you can find it. :)
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