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can someone give me a good link for how to make a vertical slideshow? thanks so much! (link)
on slide.com you can change the way it slides
it can be vertical or horizontal.
hope i helped


Hey. I was just wondering how you can become a moderator. Thanks a million in advance =). (link)
http://www.advicenators.com/mod.php?mode=makeme
see if you meet the qualifications


Where can you get a North Face or look-a-like North Face jacket for less than $30? Internet sites would be better than stores names. thanks! (link)
i have 2 northfaces and there amazing.
ebay is great for getting cheap anything.

my mom also got a jacket that looks exactly like a northface at marshalls for like $15.oo. because she wasnt sure if she wanted a northface. the brand is "snowzu"


I'm tempted to get this shirt (1), which comes only in a *bright* red colour.

(1) http://tinyurl.com/2c4v8f

I have black hair and dark eyes. I currently have pale skin but I tan easily and my natural skin tone is olive (or 'Asian'). Could I pull bright red, even just any shade of red, off? Or should I go for something more subdued? Even some advice about which colours generally would work helps. (link)
red looks the best with your type of features.
you'll look gorgeous,


well i need some tips of fashion for this year of school plz i need help
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bloomingdales, nordtorms, & saks are the bestt.

get skinny jeans, you can wear then in the winter with uggs or any other boot and in the spring with flats. leggings are also very versitile and look cute with almost anything.
babydoll tops are also a personal favorite of mine. if you want them cheap go to forever 21.

and dont forget to accesorize! a cute bag or the right jewlery can really make an oufit.,


http://images.google.com/images?q=tbn:HHJjcaNfj3VQKM:http://www.germes-online.com/direct/dbimage/50290087/Women_s_Underwear.jpg

do you know what kind of underwear these are...
they are like short shorts type things i dunno?
and do you know a store where i might be able to find and purchase them? (link)
thosee are boyshortss, they are just about the comfiest thing ever.

i buy mine at victorias secret and there like $7.50 each. or ( or 5 pairs for $25). they come in soooo many cute prints & colors.

im 100% positive that anyother place where theres underwear will have them.
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Well I'm getting an ipod nano for my birthday in early May and I don't know which color to get...although it doesn't make a difference. I'm decided betweenn grean and red b/c green is my fav. color but red is a unique one to have, but it costs more. I don't know...what do you guys think? (link)
i got the red. the extra moneys worth it because it dontates to AIDS.

& the colorr iss amazinngg.

hope it helped.


I'm thinking about getting bangs. I'm just scared I won't like them. Has that happened to any of you? I wan't to do something diffrent to my hair. Any ideas? (link)
heyyy.
id gett swept side bangs to start, there super cute and arent a paint to grow out.

full on bangs are a dramtic change and they take forever to grow out,

bring pictures so your stylist knows exactly what you want.


theres this girl ive liked for years. and ive finnaly gotten the courage to ask her out, how should i do it? (link)
omg, congratualtions. it takes alot of courage to really ask someone out.

i think you should go all out, buy her chocolate or send her a flowerr, make a big sign, romantice stuff like that. make her feel specail.

&.. if your not into all that in your face romantic stuff, then just truley tell her how you feel. compliment her. make her feel like shes the most beautiful girl on the planettt.



how can you talk to guys with out getting all shy and embarresed. especailly if he is popular (link)
be confident. condfidence is attractive. forget that hes "popuar" and just be yourselff.

good luck :)


Im 14 & i wear a size 34A will my boobs get any bigger? (link)
um theyll probably get a little bit bigger, but you never know... they might not, but they might get a lot bigger:
for example my friend used to be like a AA and within hte past 6 months, (shes now 14) now shes a b
most people wont continue growing, but tyou never know!


What does the EGCG component of green tea do? (link)
its an antioxidant that might help prevent you from getting heart disease and cancer.


i havent started my period [EVERRRRRR]
but i was wondering if its still ok to have sex
my friends mom had sex before she got her period and nothing happened to her .
could that have just been her

can i still have sex and get my period ? (link)
DAMN NO.
If you didn t have your period yet it means you are 14 years old. And 14 year olds having sex is Gross.
Your friends mom can do as she pleases. She might be a skunc, just cause she did it it doesn t mean it is ok to do. Probably your 23 yeard old weirdo boyfriend told it to you so he can convince you to allow him to pop your cherry.
Do as you please.

Well thanks for harassing me and calling me a bitch and all, you are only making a fool out of yourself and letting people know how immature you are. Are you even aloud to be on this site?
Anyways, you are being totally unfair, you are just mad cause you didn t hear what you wanted to hear wich is "u go gurl, u r ready whenever u feel like it". Well fine, shoot your self up and look where you heading.


for startersIm going to say this as apropriatly as i can

I was sexualy asaulted by 6 guys && then a couple months later i was raped and my brother said "If this keeps happening people arent going to believe yu they will just think yu are crying wolf"

well recently i was partying with some friends and i was drunk so i wanted to have fun but not have sex and i made that clear to everyone. me being bisexual i was all over my friend thats a girl. Well these two guys were looking on and one of them had already fucked my friend that night and the other liked me. well some how the guy that liked me ended up grabbing my friend and fucking her. The other guy grabbed me and i told him he cool lick meh down there so he did and then he put a condom on and i pushed him away and told him no i wasnt going to have sex with him And he said stuff like "let me just touch it i wont stick it in" and i told him again im not gona have sex with him. So he touched it nd told me he wasnt gona stick it in and then he tryd to nd i tryd pushing him away saying stop but he just pushed me down and told me to chyll out i tryd pushing him away again but he wouldnt listen nd so i just layd there nd he started having sex with me nd i was crying. after he was done i got up and ran off upstairs.

What should i do? I dont even know if this is wrong it just makes me feel wrong and dirty. Is this wrong or not? (link)
If you were really sexually assaulted, then you wouldn t get yourself in such situations after.
I mean, how can a girl that has been sexualy assaulted by 6 guys be psychologically OK to just let a random guy lick her.
It seems to me that people are taking advantage of the space you are giving them. You just dont get raped every month unless you leave in North Africa or something.


ok well when i was 13 i started my period i am 15 now and well i am a 34A in bra size and i really want to grow and i just have a feeling that maybe i am done growing but i don't want my breasts to stop growing until i am like a bcup but ok do you think they can still grow and well when i wake up everymorning my boobs hurt and they itch alot do my breasts still have time too grow? (link)
I started my period when I was almost 13 also and now I'm 14 (only a year younger than you). Aren't you more comfortable talking to someone who is just like you? I am onl a 34A size and I want to be a litle bigger. A bcup is nice and they make you more feminine. I've ready many and many articles. It depends on heredity but not always. You have until your 17 years old. 2 more years. If you don't grow (like me possibly) you can get inplants. I envy my breasts but I want them to be more visible when I don't wear a bra, in a swim suit or in a camisole...they hardly poke out. So, it's possible they are growing because they are sore! THat's a good sign.


is it normal for a 13 year old (normal weight, 5'7) to be a bra size 34 DD?
when does one stop growing? (link)
You grew up quickly! It was because of heredity traits from your family...generation to generation. It's normal! There is such thing as normal! Don't feel 'big' because each one is different...girls just don't understand that. It's possible because they are jealous....but are you jealous because they have small boobs or are you happy with yours? You should be happy...everyone is different.


okay well i'm 13 and a female and i had already lost my virginity and this girl at school had found out now she's telling every one what should i do? i mean i don't want her to and at first she promised me she wouldn't tell any one then she goes off and tells the girls that will twist and spread rumors like "did you know so-and-so had sex with 20 different guys?"(when it was only one) or "yea she works at a strip club downtown"(i don't hello)

i don't know what to do and now my reputation is on the line.please help!

and thanks! (link)
Girls can be cruel and will consider you a slut or a whore or even worse when it isn't true. Some girls do loose their virginity..it's not really normal when your 13 because your so young, but now the point.
You have a few choice.
1. Talk to your mom (You don't have to say you lost your virginity only if she already knows)
2. Talk to the principle
3. Talk to the girls


when a person is in a coma, where do they stay the whole time? (link)
Mentally, they are in a deep deep dream. Nothing can wake them up...no sound or light. It's like leaving the planet, as some people say.


iam 15, and i weigh only 100 lbs. im 5'4". so im inproprotioned. but im a lil puggy. i used to work out everyday. then i got into a wreck and couldnt,because of my medical stability. i want to work out again. but with physical therapy and school and cheerleading and everything, i dont have much time. what can i do to tone up a lot, with out taking too much time. ill rate high (link)
Your under weight. Your 100 lbs and 5'4"? I'm only about 5 feet and I weight almost that. I'm consider thin. I'm average for my weight...start eating a little. You don't need to tone up. Your fine! Your probably beautiful already.


Hi guys. This is probably meant for the older columists, but I'll direct it to all of you.

The only sex position I've done is Missionary. I'd like to try out other styles, but I'm worried about it. Like me being on top, I want to, but I weigh about 5O pounds more than my guy, so would it still work? He's pretty built himself and I can hold him, so yea.. Also, he wants to try doggy, do you guys like that? And are there any others that are fun and kinky? I'll rate. Thanks SO much! (link)
I have a wonderful sight that list sex positions with hundreds of ways doing sex.
Here is the sight!

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_positions

Hope it helps and gives you enough information to share with your lover.




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