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talking to guys
how can you talk to guys with out getting all shy and embarresed. especailly if he is popular
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Talk about things that you are comfortable with, so you can keep a conversation going. Flirt, but don't be overly flirty because that can come across as annoying. Ask him questions, but listen to his answers, find common interests.. things like that.
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first do your hair/makeup so you have self confidence. bring a friend. take deep breaths. please dont giggle. then walk by and say "hi". a few days later walk over and stand next to him and say "heyy whats up?" and then after he answers have your friend call you from across the room so you need to go so it dosent get to awkward. just get more cmforble with him. good luck!
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be confident. condfidence is attractive. forget that hes "popuar" and just be yourselff.
good luck :)
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The one thing that ALWAYS works, is confidence & attitude. If I'm about to talk to a guy, who is considered cool or popular, I always prepare things to say to him before hand. Do you know what he's like? Do you know about some of his hobbies? This is going to sound weird, but make sure you watch him for a while or snoop around, and find out what his hobbies are, what kind of music he likes, what sports he plays, etc. So if you find out, for example, that he likes hockey, you can walk up to him and say something like, "Hey. I'm _______. I just had to come over, because I heard that you liked hockey? I really like it too. How long have you been playing?" Something like that, except it doesn't neccessarily have to be with hockey. It can be about music or anything else that he likes. The point is that, people love to talk about themselves. So the best way to make friends and get a boyfriend, is if you ask him questions about himself. Give him compliments, etc. He will probably feel flattered.
Another thing you should do, is always end the conversation before he has a chance to end it. Talk for a few minutes, but then say, "Well, I'm gonna have to go. Some friends are waiting for me. Nice talking though. Later." and walk away. Don't let him end the conversation- you have to end it and let this guy know that YOU'RE the one in control.
Make sure you have tons of confidence & attitude. It sounds corny, but when I want to talk to someone really "popular", I pretend that I'm a celebrity/movie star, or someone really important. If you have a positive attitude about yourself, then you can talk to ANYONE. Say to yourself, before you talk to him, "I'm hot, and any loser that doesn't think so, doesn't desserve me." Playing a little hard to get is also not a bad idea either. Guys love a challenge, so make sure you're playing it cool. If he doesn't seem interested in you, give him a little laugh and walk away. And if he says something like, "I don't like you" or something rude like that, always have a comeback, such as, "Yeah, well you're a loser who just wasted 10 minutes of my time. There are tons of better boys that would DIE to go out with me." Classy, huh?
But this boy is probably a really nice boy once you get to know him, so just go for it!
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Just be yourself. there is no point being different around him just cause he's 'popular' it really doesnt make him a better person
just talk to him generally with a 'hey how are you' etc and he might make the next move and talk to you more. if hes one of those popular people that think they are too good for people just step back cause you dont need someone like that in your life. just take it slow, get his email/msn/aim and talk to him on there so its not so embarressing :) x
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