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Member Since: December 21, 2006
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Last Update: September 23, 2007
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okay so im 14 and most of my friends hav gotten fingered, eaten out, gave hjs and bjs, but ive only made out... like its just not my style. i only like to really makeout if i like the person.i just dont know when im ready to give a hj or bjor anything related to that. any advice/opinions would be great :] (link)
dont feel rushed into it
your only 14! im not being funny, but you've got the rest of your life
if your friends are doing stuff like that already at 14 you can be the one not gettin sti's or stds and i bet they will because they wont think about there actions
i respect you not giving into pressure andonly wanting to do something with someone you like and want to be with, thats guts
dont feel pressured at all, its not evena big deal


There's this guy I really like and he acts like he really likes me too! And we've been hanging out all the time lately. When its just us in the car or we're doing something alone, things are great. We talk a lot and make each other laugh and things feel perfect... but then when we do stuff with other people (like I went to a concert with him and some of his friends the other day) he seems to ignore me. Idk.. it might just be because we have way different friends, but idk whats going on with himmm. Why does he act like this? And is there anything I can do to make him talk to me more or show more affection when we are around friends? I mean... the other night boys i weren't "with" hugged me and flirted with me more than he did! (link)
your not alone, guys just seem to act like pricks around there friends because my boyfriend also does that. I wouldnt take it personally at all, maybe he doesnt want to feel to tied down so when he does see his friends he wants to make the most of it!


Well, I really want to give my guy a hickey but I have never done it before. I tried doing it on like my arm or whatever but it didnt work...so I was wondering if some1 could explain exactly what to do (link)
suck and gently bite the skin but in little kisses so it doesnt look too intentional :)


this is kinda long, just a warning.

okay so i am prety sure i'm bulimic. i've been throwing up almost everything eat since november 2006. i haven't lost weight, it flucuates a lot, but i think i do it becasue i think i'll lose weight eventually. and i used to binge eat a lottt then purge, but i've stopped the bingeing which was hard. i kinda want to stop but in a sence i don't think i can and i don't even know why i do it. now i try to barely eat. My mom constantly bugs me that i need to put on a few pounds and it's so annoying. i want to lose weight.

i don't know what to do, what should i do?

and i have another question, if i don't eat ANY snacks, cut out junk food, and eat smaller portions, will i lose weight? i don't really excercise that much, but i guess i could start. i usually try for 500 calories a day at the least. (link)
when your sick your body wants to hold on to every single piece of fat it can so you wont looser weight at all that way, if you can just try to eat plenty of fruit and veg and drink lots of water, that way your barely putting on callories and the sugar you are taking in is natural sugars and by drinking water, it fills you up and its good for you and your skin
if you do this you dont need to exercise


i havent started my period [EVERRRRRR]
but i was wondering if its still ok to have sex
my friends mom had sex before she got her period and nothing happened to her .
could that have just been her

can i still have sex and get my period ? (link)
yeah its still okay to have sex, just still use protection cause you dont know what hes got do you?


how can you talk to guys with out getting all shy and embarresed. especailly if he is popular (link)
Just be yourself. there is no point being different around him just cause he's 'popular' it really doesnt make him a better person
just talk to him generally with a 'hey how are you' etc and he might make the next move and talk to you more. if hes one of those popular people that think they are too good for people just step back cause you dont need someone like that in your life. just take it slow, get his email/msn/aim and talk to him on there so its not so embarressing :) x




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