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so what she doesn't need to let every one know
okay well i'm 13 and a female and i had already lost my virginity and this girl at school had found out now she's telling every one what should i do? i mean i don't want her to and at first she promised me she wouldn't tell any one then she goes off and tells the girls that will twist and spread rumors like "did you know so-and-so had sex with 20 different guys?"(when it was only one) or "yea she works at a strip club downtown"(i don't hello)
i don't know what to do and now my reputation is on the line.please help!
and thanks!
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Girls can be cruel and will consider you a slut or a whore or even worse when it isn't true. Some girls do loose their virginity..it's not really normal when your 13 because your so young, but now the point.
You have a few choice.
1. Talk to your mom (You don't have to say you lost your virginity only if she already knows)
2. Talk to the principle
3. Talk to the girls
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okay well there are many options.. i'll give you some =]
1.) paybacks a bitch, and revenge is a mother effer. so basically, you can give her a taste of her own medecine and ruin her rep.
2.) deny everything. simple explain to people how she always starts rumors and she got mad at you so she made that up.
3.) confront her about it and let try to get HER to make everyone think she was only kidding. just go up to her and say why the eff would you say that? you could even yell at her in public to embarrass her if you wanna =] whatever you wanttt.
4.) simply brush it off. if people ask you, just say 'whatever.. believe what you want.' and act totally unphased by the whole thing.
** now, due to the face that i don't know you or your personality, i can't tell you which one you should do. personally, i would either do #2, deny everything. or #4, act unphased. but thats just because i hate to get involved in things lol. so its up to you.. good luck! & at least now you know that you really can't trust anyone but yourself ♥
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If she ruins your reputation, it'd be dumb for you to sink to her level & ruin her's, but then again, revenge is sweet. Ruin her reputation and see how she likes it.
Or just confront her about it & she has a smart remark, punch her in the face.
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hey, alright well im 13/f as well. ive done pretty much everything to do with sexual activites, except actually have sex. i told one person who i thought i could trust. well big mistake, cause it got around. alls it did was get me attention from the boys and dirty looks from the girls. try to act like it doesnt bother you and admit that its true. dont deny it. denial is just asking for people to talk about it even more. just brush it off even tho it hurts inside [trust me, i know it hurts]. that way people wont be getting the satisfaction of seeing you get hurt, therefore they will just stop. the best thing to do in these situations are to just not tell anyone and to tell the person it happened with to do the same.
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