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Im always here to help You! Thanks to all you guys who have helped me already!


My boyfriend and I have been togeter since Feburary 2nd,2004! We are still great, and going strong!! :)



That car to the side is a 1999 Honda Prelude in pearl white! My favorite car!! :)


I have had a bunch of friends that have had wierd problems, and I Have always experienced a lot.



I babysit a lot, so if you have questions about that, Ask away!




I love fashion questions and Questions about clothing and what looks good with what and where to find cheep stuff.



I love make-up questions and most hair questions!




Although I do answer them, I hate sex questions.




I am good at the whole "being a girl" thing, like shaving and periods. Ask me those, I'd love to help!



My Absoulte Favorite Columnists are:


Mackenzie She is amazing! :) She is REALLY amazing!!!


YG Yeah, She is definately awesome!


The Old One He is good! :)


Karen Can we say genius?


Selectopaque Excellent!


Emily *Clap Clap Clap*


NaImEE amazing advice!!


Bryndon Pretty good advice right there!!


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and I'll be adding more soon! Could it be you? :)


I would love to and gladly accept any questions on anything, it does not have to be anything above.




Favorite Books:


*Go Ask Alice
*Annie's Baby
*It Happened To Nancy
*Teen Idol
*All-American Girl
*The 1-800-Where-R-You Series
*The Mediator Series
*The Body Of Christopher Creed
*Freaky Green Eyes
*Of Mice and Men
*The Wattsons Go To Bermingham
*To Kill A Mockingbird
*The Earth, My But, and Other Big Round Things
* The Secret Life Of Beez
*Where the heart is


Favorite Movies:


*Now and then
*where the hear is
*Honey
*Save The Last Dance
*Love Don't Cost A Thing
*Kate and Leapold
*Miss Congeanility 1 and 2
*Beauty Shop
*A Cinderella Story
*Confessions Of A Teenage Drama Queen
*Raise Your Voice
*Drumline
*The Notebook
*Coyote Ugly
*Sisterhood Of The Traveling Pants
*Hitch
*Where The Heart Is
*Now And Then
*10 Things I Hate About You
*Drop Dead Goregous
*The Wedding Planner
*Uptown Girls
*Finding Forrester
*Greese
*Leagly Blonde 1 And 2
*Sweet Home Alabama
*What Women Want
*Napolean Dynomite
*Shrek 1 And 2
*Finding Nemo
*Pirates Of The Carriebean
*Pay It Foward
*Charlie and the Chocolate Factory
*Maid In Manhatten
*Charlie and The Chocolate Factory
*The Unfinished Life


Music:


*ALL COUNTRY!!!!
*Usher
*The All American Rejects
*New Found Glory
*My Chemical Romance
*Sugar Cult
*Black Eyed Peas
*Switchfood
*John Mayer
*Gavin DeGraw
*Trapt
*Ashlee Simpsion
*COHEED AND CAMBRIA
*Lonestar
*Fall Out Boy
*Hilary Duff
*311
*Systen Of a Down
*Chronic Future
* The Gorillaz
* My Chemical Romance
*Fall Out Boy
*Embodyment
*Boxcar racer
* Alien Ant Farm


Songs:


*Kyrie- By Mr. Mister
*We Danced Anyway- Deana Carter
*Breathless- The Corrs*



And Much More!!




If you want to know about any of the books, movies, bands, artists, or songs, please feel free to leave one in my inbox!! Always There For Ya!!



I Love To Help!!



Feel free to ask me anything! :)I try to help as best I can! :)




*You get what you give, & everything you do comes back to you*


One night, the moon said to me " If he makes you cry, why don't you leave him?" I looked upto the moon and said, "Moon, would you ever leave the sky?"


I know there's something in the wake of your smile. I get a notion from the look in your eyes. You've built a love, but that love falls apart. Your little piece of heaven, turns to dark.Sometimes you wonder if this fight is worthwhile, the precous moments are all lost in the tide. They're swept alway, and nothing is what it seems, the feeling of belonging to your dreams.AND THERE ARE VOICES THAT WANT TO BE HEARD,so much to mention, but you can't find the words. The scent of magic, that's the beauty that's been, when love was wilder than the wind.


-Kelsey-


advice

hey well im now 14, and embarringly i havnet had my period is this a bad thing?? I mean i havent know anyone that got it in high school , and like im embarrased to talk to my mom about it help me please

not bad at all!
if you ever need anything else, leave one in my inbox! i am soo good at this stuff.

beinggirl.com is awesome too

and i know people that are 15/16+ and dont have theirs, and i know some people who were 20+ before they got theirs!

always there-
thanks for letting me help you!
Kelsa ;)

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i just turned 14 and in janurary or feburary i got my first period. now its april and i havent had it since, i know irreguar periods are normal but for this long?!?!

www.beinggirl.com it should help!!

yeah, its fine, ive had mine for 3years, and it still isnt regular.

im good at this, if you ever need anything else, leave one in my inbox!!

always there-
thanks for letting me help you=
Kelsa

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15/f i wway overdid my texting and so now i have to pay the bill its 300+ dollars and the only way i can pay for it is to get a job... right now im looking at sonic... but does any body know of any places that have jobs available for 15 year olds??

a local theme park

:)

thats what i am doing!
im 15 too! and female!

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i am a 13 year old female and are kid size bottoms and junoirs size tops i am going to a party on april 30 and need some cute clothes for it i am a very girly cheerleader and dancer so i love pink

please help!!!!!

well, depending on the temp, and type of party- i would say:

jean skirt or capirs or jeans
or
black mini capris or pants

hot pink shirt, hair piece
and belt

hot pink shoes w/ black pants
black shoes w/ jeans

black or white shirt over hot pink one!

hope i helped!

Kelsa

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I need help with my parents!
They don't understand that just because i'm a girl, I can still do stuff that boys can do. My mom doesn't really trust me that much. I mean she thinks cuz' I'm a girl I need to be more protected than a boy. Is she right? They're really great at everything else I just need help on how to tell them that I need them to lay-back a little.

Sincerely,
Help

well, i dont have too much advice, but my parents are the same. although Girls mature faster, most guys are allowed more freedom then girls. wierd huh?

well, i just try to compromise with my parents, but really I just Pray a bunch, and hope for the best! and It really just takes time!

sorry I couldnt be of more help to you!

thanks for letting me help you!!

if you ever need anything else, please feel free to leave one in my inbox!

always there:
Kelsa:)

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well i got certain dri on tuesday,it worked amazing,but on friday i started to use it everyother day.then on saturday i used it again and on sunday i used it again.but it seems to be not working.is there something wrong.please help.thanks

ask at the store, that specilizes in that department
sorry i cannot offer you more help

also ask your friends too!


kelsa

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for two years now i have been having white discharge my mum started at 16 and im 13 but i still think im going to start my period,
I go swimming every day which means i would have to where a tampon,where do you insert it, does it hurt and how often should you change it?
Also how long does a period last for and how often does it ocur, plz help thanx

www.beinggirl.com

will answer all of your questions!!

and dont use a tampon w/ dischardge
change ever 6-8 hours

and if you need anythine else, please leave one in my inbox!!!

i am sooo good at this!

AND ASK YOUR MOM!

thanks for letting me help you!

always there-
Kelsa

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What's better..

Ipod Mini that holds 1,000 songs
or
Ipod Mini that holds 1,500 songs

It's a $50 difference and I'm wondering if it's worth the 500 songs, and if anyone has one please let me know what types of problems you've had if you've had any

the larger one, its just $50 dollers, thats way less than a doller per song! thats awesome !just get it, you will use it eventually! I mean why not, what if you get the smaller one, and later decide that you want mroe songs!!

bigger is better! :)

lol

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What do you think about these baby names:

Mattilynn Nicole
Jake Ryan
Zachary Daniel
Rylee Elizabeth

Twin girls :

Ashlynn
Joshlynn

those are sooo cute! and yah, when i asked questions like that people were thinking i was a slut too! lol, i needed new names for the sims, and anyways its a girl thing!

thanks for letting me help you!

always there-
Kelsa

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omg i just got braces like this morning and they are kind of sore..will anyone give me some advice on what to do and how to floss and all that stuff?? thanksss

What is Orthodontics?
Orthodontics is the specialty of dentistry that is devoted to bringing the teeth, jawbones, and facial profile into proper alignment. An orthodontist is a dentist who has completed an additional two to three years of graduate education in an ADA approved, university affiliated orthodontic specialty program. They are truly specialists in dentistry.
· posted · Friday, April 05, 2002

What can one expect from orthodontic care?

An attractive smile!!

Teeth that fit together properly which will provide for improved function and long-term health of the teeth and gums.

More efficient chewing which will allow for improved digestion and over-all health
· posted · Friday, April 05, 2002

Do I need braces?
If you have crooked, irregular or protruding teeth or an incorrect relation between the top and bottom teeth and jaws, you should visit our office for a free consultation. Dr. Alizadeh or Dr. Schreiner will do a thorough evaluation and determine whether you would benefit from orthodontic treatment.
· posted · Friday, April 05, 2002

Your first few days
There might be some general soreness of the teeth and mouth. Usually this is not enough to interfere with your daily routine, but if tenderness is severe, Acetaminophen or Ibuprofen, is the safest form of pain reliever for children (but please consult Dr. Alizadeh, Dr. Schreiner or your dentist first). Try to avoid harder foods that require chewing while the teeth are tender. Stick to soft, nutritious foods such as pastas, soups, etc. Discomfort is usually worse on the first few days after braces are first placed and then gradually resolves. The teeth may even appear loose which is a normal reaction so "Don't Panic". Teeth must loosen first so they can move but they will firm up again.
· posted · Friday, April 05, 2002

When is the best time to begin treatment?
Dr. Alizadeh and Dr. Schreiner like to see patients at a young age. Between the ages of 5 and 7, the front permanent teeth begin to come in. At this time, potential bite and crowding problems become noticeable to the orthodontist.

This is also an ideal time, when indicated, to begin early treatment to take advantage of the child's growing facial bones to achieve the best treatment results. Because 75% of a child's growth occurs before the age of 10, early treatment expands and directs moldable, growing bones to produce a greatly improved profile and a healthy, properly functioning mouth. However, it is never too late to receive orthodontic treatment. Even adults can benefit from treatment.
· posted · Friday, April 05, 2002

TMJ (Temporomandibular Joint/Muscle Dysfunction)
Many patients experience pain or limitation of movement in their jaw joint (TMJ) at different times of their lives. Clicking or "popping" of the joint, along with pain, when opening or chewing is another common problem. Sometimes pain of the TMJ will mimic ear pain. Headaches can also result from the jaw joint not functioning properly. If you suspect a TMJ problem, you should consult your dentist, Dr. Alizadeh or Dr. Schreiner immediately.
· posted · Friday, April 05, 2002

What can Orthodontics do for me?
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Increase self-esteem by improving appearance

Decrease the likelihood of gum disease and premature loss of teeth by relieving stress on gums and bones which results when teeth do not meet properly

Eliminate speech problems caused by protruding or misaligned teeth

Possibly help reduce and help treat jaw joint difficulties, (see TMJ)

Lower the incidence of decay in crowded, overlapping teeth which can become food trap areas

Make the jawbone develop so there is less need to remove adult teeth
· posted · Friday, April 05, 2002

Adult Orthodontics
Many people think that orthodontics can only be done on children and teenagers. Not true! Orthodontics can be effective at almost any age. Treatment protocols may be somewhat different between adults and children, but many adults are now undergoing orthodontic treatment to improve their health and appearance.

Recent advances in materials and techniques have combined to make it possible to provide treatment that is shorter in duration. Treatment can also be completed with fewer appointments, leaving you more time to do all of the other things in your busy schedule.

Modern braces are far more cosmetically pleasing than they were just a few years ago. Advanced composites make it possible to have clear or neutral colored brackets. Brackets are normally the most visible part of braces, yet they become virtually invisible when these materials are used. Alternative finishes are available on some braces, including gold braces.

Other options are available for adults who desire a more cosmetic appearance during treatment. Lingual braces attach to the inside of the teeth and are not visible at all.
· posted · Thursday, April 14, 2005

Oral Hygiene
Now that you have your orthodontic appliances or braces in place, keeping your teeth, gums and appliances clean is most important.

Braces, wires, bands and retainers all can trap food particles and make it difficult to brush or floss away plaque. Plaque is a sticky layer of harmful bacteria, food, saliva and debris which, if allowed to build up, can attack your teeth and gums, causing cavities and gum disease.

Brushing and flossing after every meal and snack is the only way to prevent plaque build up, tooth decay, and gum disease.

HERE ARE SOME TIPS FOR EXCELLENT ORAL HYGIENE

1. Use a fluoride containing toothpaste when you brush.
2. A soft bristled brush is also recommended----change every six months.
3. Continue to use all hygiene aids (such as waterpics, electric toothbrushes, perioaids, proxybrushes, fluoride mouth rinses, etc.) that have been part of your regular routine. Remember, however, these cannot substitute for good brushing and flossing!
4. A fluoride gel may be prescribed if needed to help prevent cavities.
5. Use an egg timer or watch to measure your brushing time. A minimum of two minutes is needed to brush correctly.
6. Use waxed floss to help prevent fraying. A floss threader or Super floss (threader attached) is helpful in flossing under orthodontic wires.
7 Floss, brushes, Super floss, mouth rinses, auxiliary aids, etc. are all available at the local drug store or super market. Keep a supply on hand at home, work, school or when you travel so you may clean your teeth after every meal.
8. Maintain regular three to six month regular checkups with your family dentist throughout your orthodontic treatment.
9. Avoid eating hard foods such as ice, popcorn, nuts, spare ribs or corn chips. If you eat hard fruit, vegetables or french bread, it's a good idea to cut them into bite size pieces first.
10. Avoid sticky foods and foods high in added sugar such as caramel, bubble gum, taffy, gummy bears, now and laters, etc.
11. When ever you have something sweet, brush your teeth and braces immediately afterward. Don't wait!

TIPS FOR BRUSHING WITH BRACES

1. Brush the braces and teeth first. Start brushing the outside surfaces of the teeth with braces in a back and forth motion, try to brush each tooth 10 times. Continue around the outside, then the inside and finally the tops of the teeth.
2. Repeat this sequence, this time concentrating your brushing along the gum line (where the tooth and gum meet.) Brush in a small gentle circular motion, about ten times per tooth. Avoid hard scrubbing which can cause the gums to recede.
3. Don't forget to brush your tongue.
4. Rinse your mouth thoroughly.

TIPS FOR FLOSSING WITH BRACES

1. Use the floss threader, as a needle and thread, and lace the floss under the wire between the teeth. Remove the floss threader, and holding the floss with the fingers of both hands, gently wipe up and down the surface of each tooth a minimum of five times. The tooth will feel "squeaky" when clean. Without removing the floss from between the teeth, move the floss to a clean section and repeat for the other surface of the adjacent tooth. Remove the floss, re-thread, and repeat for each tooth. After practice, you may be able to thread the floss without the help of the floss threader.
2. Floss all teeth at least once a day. Remember, flossing is the best way to prevent plaque build-up between the teeth and gums. Without daily plaque removal from between your teeth, your gums will bleed, a first sign of gum infection, gingivitis or periodontal (gum) disease.
· posted · Thursday, April 14, 2005

Home Care for Temporomandibular Joint/Muscle Dysfunction (TMJ)
The following instructions will aid in the healing of a sore jaw joint.
1) Do NOT chew gum.
2) During the initial phase of treatment, particularly if symptoms are acute, stay on a definite soft diet (baby food, soups, milkshakes, eggs, hamburger, etc.)
3) For the next few months, be sure to cut all foods into small, bite sized pieces and try to avoid opening your mouth any wider than the thickness of your thumb. (1-2 inch).
4) Do not eat hard crusts of bread, rough meat, raw vegetables, or any other food that will require prolonged chewing.
5) Do not chew peanuts, ice cubes, or any other substance that is repeatedly milled between your back teeth.
6) Do not chew gum, bite your lips, clench your teeth or habitually chew the insides of your cheeks.
7) Do not thrust your lower jaw forward, as when biting off a piece of thread, applying lipstick, smoking, or through force of habit.
8) Do not bite any food with your front teeth.
9) If you must yawn, limit the distance your mouth opens by pulling your lower lip up over the edges of your lower teeth.
10) Make every effort not to strain your jaw joints unnecessarily by such activities as talking excessively, deliberately popping your jaw joint as one would pop the knuckles of his hand, leaning on the palm of your hand while reading or watching TV, etc.
11) Try to sleep on your back. Avoid sleeping on the side of your face or on your fist.
· posted · Thursday, April 14, 2005

Eating and Braces
Protect your braces by avoiding the foods mentioned below. Loose braces or bands are not only uncomfortable but also delay treatment. Examples of Things You Cannot Eat or Chew...

Ice. . . A thousand times NO! It will totally destroy your braces.
Pizza Crust . . .The hard crust bends wires.
Hard Pretzels . . . Bends wires, loosens bands, knocks off brackets.
Doritos, Tacos, Tostitos, Cheetos, Fritos and the like . . . Will form a hard ball and break your braces.
Caramel, Candy, Bubble Gum . . . Sticky goo which pulls off wires and feeds the bacteria in your mouth.
Hard Rolls, Bagels, Bones . . . Bends the wire and knocks off brackets.
Beef Jerky . . . Tough as nails.
Suckers . . . You might weaken and bite.
Nuts . . . No nuts of any kind.
Ribs . . . Knocks off brackets.
Pens and Pencils . . . Favorite exam time food, breaks everything.
Popcorn . . . The little shells get between the gum and band - hurts like crazy.
Raw Carrots . . . Hard as rocks.

Eating these foods will loosen the braces, but you may not discover the problem until hours or days later...Surprise! loose bands, broken wires, and detached brackets cause a longer treatment time.
· posted · Thursday, April 14, 2005

Surgical Orthodontics
Jaw growth is a slow and gradual process. Sometimes abnormal growth may occur, causing one or both jaws to grow too much or too little. The resulting abnormal jaw relationship may cause an improper bite and possible speaking and chewing problems. An improper bite can also cause long term health problems for the gums, teeth and possibly the jaw joint (TMJ). Appearance can also be affected, with one jaw sticking too far out or back or even too much gums showing when smiling.

When the jaw relationships are so severely malposed that tooth movement alone cannot accomplish the desired changes, surgical intervention (called orthognathic surgery), may be necessary. Braces are placed first to align the teeth within the bone. An oral surgeon then does corrective jaw surgery. The surgery involves moving all or part of the upper and/or lower jaw into a more favorable position. The goal of surgical treatment is to restore proper function and facial balance. With recent advances in surgery the jaws rarely have to be wired shut after surgery, allowing the patient to open and close their jaws sooner. After surgery the orthodontic treatment is completed, usually in 6 to 9 months, to establish a proper bite.
· posted · Thursday, April 14, 2005

Emergencies
Before calling your orthodontist with a problem, ask yourself: Is this an emergency? True emergencies are rare. Spend a few moments learning more about your appliance and how to solve small problems. This will help you handle minor concerns on your own without first calling Dr. Alizadeh or Dr. Schreiner.

What You Can Do:
Keep orthodontic wax and pencil eraser handy. Here are some tips for handling minor problems:

Poking wire or bracket: Roll a piece of wax into a ball and press it onto the part that's poking you. Try to keep the wax dry prior to placing it. The wax will come off frequently, so keep a supply with you.

Broken Wire: Press the wire toward your teeth with a pencil eraser. If you are unable to push the wire out of the way, try cutting the part that is sticking out with wire cutters or a large finger nail clipper.

Small cut: To help the cut heal, rinse your mouth with a mixture of 1 teaspoon of salt and 1 cup of warm water. Peroxyl, which you can buy over the counter, is also an excellent rinse to clean the cut and promote healing.

Call your orthodontist's office during regular business hours if:

An appliance breaks

A piece of the appliance is lose

An appliance gets lost

An appliance does not fit properly

Call Your Orthodontist Right Away If:

A broken appliance prevents the mouth from opening or closing.

Pain from an appliance is still felt even after taking over-the-counter pain relievers.

Call 911 or your emergency number first, then call your orthodontist, if:

A serious face or mouth injury occurs.

A piece of the appliance is inhaled or gets in the way of breathing. This is extremely rare

Know Your Appliance
Try to learn as much about your orthodontic appliance as you can. This will help you talk to us about any problems you might have. The more accurately you describe any problem, the better we are able to help you solve it. See the above picture to help you become familiar with the different parts of your appliance.


Tips to Prevent Problems
Always follow your orthodontist's instructions about proper wear and care. But here are some general tips that will help prevent problems.

Don't play rough while wearing headgear or any other removable appliance.

If you wear braces, don't eat foods that are hard, sticky, crunchy, or chewy. Avoid candy, gum, nuts, and corn on the cob. Cut raw carrots or apples into small pieces.

Don't pick at or pull on braces even if it makes your teeth feel better.

Don't flick your retainer around with your tongue, it will break!

Remove headgear and wear an orthodontic mouthguard when playing sports.
REMEMBER--Broken appliances will slow down your treatment!
· posted · Thursday, April 14, 2005

What can I expect from my first visit?
We usually allow 60 minutes for the first visit. During this appointment a thorough medical and dental history will be taken and a comprehensive examination of the teeth, jaws and muscles of the face will be done. If indicated, computer generated video images of the face and teeth will also be taken. During this examination either Dr. Alizadeh or Dr. Schreiner will determine:

1) whether orthodontic treatment is necessary
2) if so, when is the best time to start
3) the estimated length and cost of treatment

There is no charge for this examination.

If Dr. Alizadeh or Dr. Schreiner has determined that orthodontic treatment is necessary, impressions of the teeth and x-rays of the teeth, jaws and skull will be required to enable the Doctors to study the problems and determine the ideal treatment to correct them.

Financial arrangements will be made at this time. We will be happy to accept assignment of insurance benefits if so desired. If necessary, or if desired, at the next appointment, Dr. Alizadeh or Dr. Schreiner will present the planned treatment or any changes to the original treatment plan since the initial visit. Questions are encouraged at any time because it is important to understand why, what and when things occur.


i got this from some site, lol.

but it looks helpful!

thanks for letting me help you

if you have any specific questions ask, because i had braces!!

always there-
Kelsa:)

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I dont have normal nightmares like most people. My worst nightmares are falling down the stairs. Lame huh? So i'd just be stepping down these wooden stairs, and i'd hesitate on the last step, and fall. I always wake up with a fast heart beat. What does this mean???

Fall

To dream that you fall and are not frightened, signifies that you will overcome your adversities with ease.

To dream that you fall and are frightened, indicates a lack of control, insecurity, and/or lack of support in your waking life. You may be experiencing some major struggle and/or overwhelming problem. It may denote that you have failed to achieve a goal that you have set forth for yourself.

To dream that you are free-falling through water, indicates that you are feeling overwhelmed with emotions. You may feel that it is easier to give up then to try to stay afloat or prevent yourself from going under.


http://www.dreammoods.com/commondreams/falling.htm

http://www.dreammoods.com/dreamdictionary/

http://www.myjellybean.com/dream/pagek.html



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I am so tired of people writing "liek dis" Spell correctly so that you can actually get some advice! I don't even know how those questions even appear on the site if it's not even understandable...Does anyone agree with me or am I just illiterate?

yeah, very annoying, it makes me not want to answer their question, i can understand if they mis spell a word or two, because i do that, and everyone does, like when they are typing in a hurry!

I agree

thanks!

always there-
Kelsa

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Hey! im having my birthday party at my house April 29th and its going to be about 20-25 girls and boys there ( ages - around 13 ) and like i don't want it to be boring so can anyone give me some things to do... ok 1st my neighbor has a bonfire thing in their backyard and said i can use it ,we can play like 7 min. in heaven , i have a basement w/ a pool table and like living room and stuff. i have a backyard and we were thinkin about like orderin pizza or cooking out. ne more ideas? please help! xoxo

one word,

M-U-S-I-C

baby!

makes the world go 'round!!

get some of that goin! like a mixed cd, and ..................... dancin, and singing!

oooh! and Karokie (sp)

yah!!!

have fun!

thanks for letting me help yoU!

always there-
Kelsa :)

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This is REALLY stupid I know, but I feel like I dont have a big enough butt. Is there anyway to get your butt plumper looking?

go see beauty shop, the movie they ate like greens!! or something, that worked, seriously! and we were talking about this in class too! sorry i dont remember the name of what it is!

thanks fore letting me help you!

always there-
Kelsa

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my boyfriend always trys to get me to do things in front of other guys... and when i dont' he gets mad and says stupid and prude. he gets his other guy friends to rag on me. and the other night i was on my rag. he wouldn't leave me alone.. so i took out all my anger on him... then he told me i was lucky to have him... hes realy sweeet wen nobody else is around.. and i dont' want to break up with him...what should i do?

get a new boyfriend, thats so mean! and wrong!!!

:(

im really sorry, and i wish that he wouldnt do that anymore!

pray

thanks for letting me help you!
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Kelsa

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hey i don't like kissing...i mean i hate it the last time i made out with a guy was a long time ago and i had been with him for 2 years so i was really comfortable with him.. now i feel like i'm gonna have forgotton how to do it and make a fool of myself..i really like my boyfriend and he asked me why i wont make out with him...idont' know what to do ..please help

dont worry, it comes naturally- i was SOOO scared when i first did! i had like enormous bats, yes bats, not butterflies in my stumach!!

it will be fine! and you should tell him that you are nervous, and he should understand!

thanks for letting me help you!

always there-
Kelsa

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is there anyway i can get a guy to know that i like him without being obnoxiously flirty? im really shy so flirting isnt really an option for me. i rate high! i dont want to just come out and say that i do like him because he could just be like "i dont like you that way" and i couldnt handle something like that

ask them things

about:
sports
games
cars
school
family
pets


be interested in them, and what they have to say, and be nice, and dont like come onto them, they hate that, most GOOD guys dont want a girl thats easy, we like to call them sluts, and i am sure that you dont want to be one of thoes. so anyways, i have a tun of guy friends, try to just be their friend first, and a lot of times, thats better than being their girlfriend. also, try to not only be friends with the guy, but his friends as well. and also, get their screen name, and talk to them online, its easier to express true feelings for most!

always there-
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if you need anything else, please leave on in my inbox!

:)
Kelsa

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im 15 and i still have an A cup... all my friends have like huge boobs and i have no idea how to make mine any bigger!! how can i?!

lol no you cant, and i am the same way, and a lot of my friends are larger too, but some are the same, and some are smaller, try to wear a bra with a wire underneath, and some NOT A LOT of padding. also, i would highly reccoment totally max. i get them from target.

link for photo. not me, lol, from google...

http://images.amazon.com/images/P/B00008NFZ9.16._MZZZZZZZ_.jpg

they are really pretty, but they come in plane colors too.

here are a few more links.

http://www.shoplocal.com/shoplocal/default.aspx?action=nuep&pretailerid=-99441&listingid=-2097136592&redirect=%2fshoplocal%2fdefault.aspx%3faction%3ddetailbroadreach%26pretailerid%3d-99441%26listingid%3d-2097136592

http://www.saleshound.com/saleshound/listing_detail.asp?ListingID=-2097136592&OfferID=&StoreID=2413636

i have the one above!

and i think on the site, you can find the target store that caries them, nearest you!



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I'm 16 and have never kissed, dated, or even gone out with a guy. IS this really wierd? I'm not ugly, and i'm thin. But I am very shy. IS there any way i can get over this. I really would like to have a boyfriend soon. I want one really bad!!

no, its better because then you havent gotten your heart broken yet! you are so lucky! you will find a guy who is good for you soon enough, but dont just get one, for the sake of having one, because then he probably wont be good enough, and dont rush things in a relationship, a good relationship can last forever with out doing anything at all! you should be comfortable around them, and everything!

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Hi my name is aaron. i used to have alot of friends most were girls and lots of girlfriends. But now none of them relly pay attention to me do any girls know what i can do to get them to like me...i have hered about ignoring them

be interested in them
and ask about them, and listen to them, and actually remember, girls love guys like that.

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