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So my girlfriend has this guy friend, and they've been friends for awhile. Not as long as I've known her, but they're still pretty close I guess. I don't like the kid. We just don't hang out or talk much... We're very different guys. He bothers me though, not just for what the title says either. He just acts like a tool. But what bothers me the most, is how he treats my girlfriend sometimes. He gets handsy with her, and a little rough at that. They'll "fight" over the remote and he'll pin her down to get it. When really. She's 5'4 and 100 pounds. Not necessary. Or she'll call shot gun and he'll scoop her up and phsically put her in the back seat. She does complain about this sometimes but it doesn't bother her that much, she says they have a brother-sister like relationship, it doesn't bother her that he'll leave her with a bruise every once in a while. But it DOES bother me. And I've talked to her about it. She says he doesn't do it in a flirty way, that again, its like sibling fights, but I'm mostly just upset that he hurts her... I'm not okay with it. It doesn't bother me that he touches her, even if he is doing it in a flirty way because I trust her and I know she doesn't see it that way. I just wish he'd be a little more gentle with MY girl. So do I talk to him or do I try to get it across to her more... and either way... how?? I'm 17/M shes 16/F. (link)
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I would be honest and open with him,. Just say you don't like the fact that your baby is getting hurt or has bruises. say it nicely and explain it's not a problem of the two of them hanging out. and just ask himm if he could be more gentler with her.
Hope this helps
~Jasmine*
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so im a bit chunkiie and well im pretty much ok wiith my bodiie but everyone (not includeing my best friends) keep bugging me to loose weight specially my mom and well i think it would me nice for me to do so like i saiid im ok wiith my bodiie exsept i hale love handles and im not so fat that i have a muffin top but iit would be completly AWSOME if i could get my stomach to be flat! it would really help with all the teasing
so what do you guy recoment i would want somethin that i gss as fast as can b i kinda wanna wear a bikiniie thiis summer ;) (link)
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Hey darlin, Try doing a few workouts like these:
I use these youtube workouts and i'm just panting by the time i'm finished haha. They are amazing!!
They will have new videos uploaded for the next 8 weeks called tone it up. they have a few series based on getting bikini ready.
http://www.youtube.com/user/ToneItUpcom
There is their channel
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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What makes you emo? I don't cut and I never have but sometimes feel like it but can you be emo and not cut? how? (link)
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Emo isn't all about cutting or deppression,. that's only one way to look at it.
it can also be a way of dressing or looking,. like preps or gangsters.
Hope This Helps:)
~Jasmine*
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14/female
I am emo, and recently, a weird kid at my school asked me to give him a blowjob. He said that if i didnt go out with him that he would kill himself. He said that if I don't give him a blowjob, he will tell the whole school sexual lies about me.
Before I knew he existed, I was at my friends house when he showed up. My friend left the room for like an hour. He touched me, and I kept saying stop, and he knows that it was wrong
He even made a fake Facebook account as a fake person so that he could talk to me. I did not/don't want anything to do with him. On facebook on his fake profile he apologized. I believed him.
I dont know what to do. I just want to kill myself so that it all stops. I'm truly petrified. I want to end it all. Nobody knows that I an emo besides my closest most bestest friend (: I call her my lil' sis :)
I don't know what I should do. If I kill myself, I will leave my friend, and I told her that I would always be there for her. Idk if my life is even important anymore... (sorry this is so long.. I just needed somewhere to turn to)....
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First of all your life is worth alot more then some stupid rumour. This kid is obviously a waste of time,. and if he spreads rumors your real true friends will believe what you say not what is being heard around school. You are so so young and you have your whole life ahead of you,. If you really feel that you are on the edge of ending it then you should really talk to someone. as far if he keeps harrassing you,. i would talk to someone about that as well.
Because if you say no. and he keeps on,. than it is unwanted.
Hope This Helps. :)
~Jasmine*
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what are some sites like Rollip.com?
i want to edit my pics with a vintage feel or something like when a pic has a random redish line in the middle?
here are some links as to what im looking for thankss (link)
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Here are a few Vintage tutorial help sites?
Maybe they can help ya darlin..
http://veerle-v2.duoh.com/blog/comments/photoshop_vintage_effect/
{for this link^ You might be able to change the color from a dark to a red to achieve the red look you want?}
http://www.wikihow.com/Make-a-Modern-Photo-Look-Vintage
P.S.
Found this awesome Online photo editing?
Have fun with it. haha.
http://editor.pho.to/
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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If someone flirts with you daily, is there any way you can know that it's more likely sincere interest rather than something they're doing for fun? (link)
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Flirting generally means interested. but to be sure,., ask them out on a date? and see what theyy say.. The worst that could happen is that they say no. and that it was just for fun.
Hope this helps
~Jasmine*
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so im in a relationship with this guy mike and we have been dating for 3 months and we hang out with this other couple dj and nick, but im attracted to nick and i like him but i dont kno what to do...i need advice ? (link)
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Be Aware! If you dump mike and start dating or seeeing his friend nick,. Mike will be PISSED! and that is even only if Nick is unhappy with his relationship and is going to go against guy code.
But if you are starting to crush on other guys. you might be stringing mike along. which is not right what so ever!
I would suggest you try taking a break. See if being single and flirty is what you really want or if mike is who you want to be with.
You need to make sure you have eyes for one person. mike. if not. You shouldn't be dating him if you don't really like him.
Hope this helps.
~Jasmine*
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So my boyfriend broke up with me today. He was really stuttering along trying to get his words out there and I just knew he was gonna end it by the way he was talking and stuff. So I just took it expectantly. And we went on our ways.
Later he texted me and after a while I decided to text back because I was unsure if I should but I decided I needed closure and to find out what happened.
This is how it went:
Him: 'I'm so sorry. I hope we can still be friends. I just need some time"
Me: "Alright, and you really think that "just being friends' will work or are you just saying that as a popular breakup line? You can tell me the truth, I want to know."
Him: "I have feelings for you still. I just need some time. And if things don't work out I'd like to still have you as a friend." (NOTE: It made me happy to hear this because I feel the same way. But by the way he said that can I assume he wants to try dating again sometime down the line?)
Me: "I agree with you on that. The last thing I want is for you to just be out of my life just like that. But what do you mean when you say 'I just need time' Like you want to hang out with your friends more? You like someone else? Just explain to me why. I can handle it."
Him: "I have to much on my mind with me getting a job right now. All my friends want to hang out. And it's just to much. I have to get it all figured out."
Me: "And that's the honest truth?"
Him: "Yeah pretty much."
Me: "Alright, then I can live with that. Do what you gotta do, I get it."
Him: "I'm sorry"
Me: "It's alright."
Him: "I feel so bad."
Me: "I'm not gonna say I'm completely fine with this but I understand and you shouldn't worry about it too much."
Him: "I'm just as upset as you are. Believe it or not."
Me: "If you say so, it is a little difficult to believe though."
Him: "I am a lot actually."
Me: "I'm sorry to hear that."
Him: "Thanks. I hope you're fine too."
Me: "I will be."
And that's the end of it. I feel a lot better after talking to him about this. Do you think I handled it well? And do you think he is being honest and genuine?
I want to be friends with him. And how can I assure myself that tomorrow at school when I see him it won't be awkward and we can still talk. What are some things I can ask him? (link)
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I agree you did handle it well BUT!!!
I think you were a bit harsh how your feeling. SUre you are hurting to; But he is too. it's not People get confused all the time. Just because your taking a break doesn't mean its the end of the world. or anything. you two were close and still can be,. even if it is just as friends.
Don't worry about what will we talk about what will i say.
It will all come along naturally.
Hope this helps.
~Jasmine*
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im 18/f hes 19/m
i apologize in advance cause its really long but i figured you'll need as much info to help with the situation;
The last 4 months i have become really close with a guy i consider my best friend. I know as cliche as it is, but ever since i was little i told my mum "i want to find the boy version of myself" and i believe 100% that he IS the boy version of me. We both have commented in the past how amazing yet scary it is how much we're alike. seriously even little things and mannerisms of ours are the same, stuff that no one i've ever even met before does. I've never had a boyfriend due to how 'different' i am. I've had plenty of opportunities but i wanted to wait and save myself for someone special. I wanted to find a guy that loved me for my differences, perhaps even be as much of an oddball as me :) But with all my bad luck with past guys it seems as if he's almost too good to be true. which makes me hesitate and want to give up, just purely because it hasn't worked out for me at all in the past, why would everything suddenly work out now? But anyway, in the four months that we have been extremely close, we have texted everyday (not as much nowadays unfortunately :c) anyways he lives about an hour away from me and only recently got his license so it made it difficult for us to meet up before hand due to neither of us having licences...but when we did meet up, even if we only saw each other for a little bit, it would be instant sparks. One time when we met up at a club we were both extremely drunk, and for the first time he kissed me. (we have talked about wanting to kiss each other before, but he's scared of ruining things, as am i) the rest of the night we held hands everywhere we went, and he was constantly cuddling me. we spent 10 minutes just holding each other, we looked like a couple and it felt so natural with him. however i had to leave early. I was so certain that perhaps he had been feeling the same sort of feelings i have, i mean he risked the kiss. Then a couple of days later he texted me saying he wanted to facepalm *basically means he wants to die in a hole sort of feeling like "oh why did i do that"* and i asked him why. he told me that his friends told him he kissed one of his friends that night i met up with him. the same night he kissed me. he started freaking out being like "you saw it didnt you!" and started worrying i saw him kissing this other girl. i told him i didnt, and asked him if remembered ANYTHING else from that night. he told me he remembers walking ages to get home. I then told him that he also kissed me that night, before he kissed his other friend. (i was upset to find out he kissed someone else that night too, doubted that he actually does like me) but then he said something interesting. He started apologising for kissing me and he said to me "totes facepalming...that kiss wasn't meant to happen yet! >. (link)
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Guys can be very very hot and cold. and they confuse the hell out of you!!!
But i see in your writing that there are major hints that he does like your. I'm assuming your the same post as the one a few days-ish ago about seeing that conversation on a website and then the guy deleting it really quick.
Honestly the best thing to do would be to tell him straight out. I Like You. Alot.
Yes i know this is scary. and nerve racking. but it is better to know then to keep questioning and making yourself worry when you two could be making out right this second :P
I hope everything works out hon.
If you have any more questions,.
Please ask:)
~Jasmine*
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i am using windows 7, due to virus problems in system itunes was not working properly when i am going to open the itues it says "the application folder was not found". then i tried to remove the itunes but i was unable to remove the application it the message box opens like "%appdata% not found.
please help me how to remove the itunes and reinstall (link)
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Try this.
1. Go to your 'control Panel'
2. Programs
and it should have a sub heading under it that says unstall programs.
your itunes should be in that list.,
Hope this helps
~Jasmine*
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Im 13 and my friends talk about their girlfriends quite often. they ask if iv'e got a girlfriend and I reply "iv'e never had one".
WHY IS THIS!
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you could say cuz i haven't found my princess yet. baha. But like the other commenters say you are very young. you have a lifetime to find a girl., so i wouldn't rush into anything to fast or you might be looking back and wishing you hadn't rushed through everything. you will find someone who is your princess to fit a prince like you when your not even looking for it.
Hope this helps.
~Jasmine*
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Well me and this guy plan to have sexx in the summer time and i trust him and all and he even says he loves me more than anything but we are both virgins i was just wondering is it good or bad to to have your first time with a virgin?
Because many of my friends tld me its a bad idea.
So can you help me out? (link)
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Honestly you could get opinions saying yes and saying no,. it's all about personal preference. If you two love eachother then it shouldn't matter who has experience and who doesn't. Just because you have experience does not make you a better lover. If you love him and you feel you are ready than you should:)
Hope this helps.
~Jasmine*
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okay so theres this guy in my grade (8th) and i really like him but idk if he likes me we have known eachother sice 5th grade but now we are starting to get closer and idk if its just better friendship or something more? should i ask him out? i kinda want him to ask me. how should i act around him? should i flirt? i really like him (link)
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Hey darlin, friends turn to Good friends,. and good friends turn into more then friends,.
So best thing would be to be yourself around him,. and flirt with him that will show him your interested in him. And you should try asking him out. even if he does say no, you two can still try to be friends.
Hope This helps.
~Jasmine*
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18/f
I'm not really lovin life right now. Lots of stress, problems and drama. I don't have any trust-worthy and loyal friends.. they all put me down and make me feel worse about myself. I talked to my parents about this and they said to ignore them and stop being "friends" with them. I took their advice and didn't bother to talk to them ever again. But now I feel like such a loner. I try to make friends but they never really stick. We become friends for a few months and then things die down. I'm pretty busy outside of school so I don't have much time to party or hang out. On top of "friends" putting me down, my parents put me down sometimes too. They make me feel like shit sometimes. They point out my imperfections and make me feel worse about some things. but other times they make me feel ok. I just have such a low self-esteem.. :( I have a boyfriend who is literally MY LIFE. he's my best friend. he makes me feel so amazing. the majority of my happiness is just from him because he makes me so happy :) however.. there have been times when we were close to breaking up. those times were the worst because I literally felt like I had nothing.
I've tried to boost my self esteem by buying/spoiling myself with pleasures like shopping and eating junk food. I've tried yoga, meditating, doing new things like starting ceramics, starting to sew and make fashion, etc. but nothing really makes me feel great about myself. I just need some advice please. How do I make myself happy? make my self esteem better? My boyfriend always gives me compliments. he says i'm beautiful and amazing. most of the time i just say thank you, but i never truly believe it. Part of me believes that I'm not special at all. whenever i look at myself in the mirror, i never think i'm beautiful. i never think i'm an amazing person. I don't look at myself like i'm magnificent. I'm just "blah".
I know this is a problem. I'm a senior in high school about to graduate this spring. I'm just so sick of feeling "blah" all the time. I want to be happier. I want to feel good about myself. I want to have confidence in myself and know i'm amazing. but i don't get that feeling right now. please help! thank you so much :) (link)
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wow,. Deja Vew. or how every you spell it.
this is exactly word for word how i felt a few years ago when i was a senior. I wish i had the perfect words but all i can say is i've been there and it gets so much better hun,.
as to the self esteem issue you just have to think you are a powerful young adult who had the world at her feet and is able to do anything she wants!
I hope this helps a little
Jasmine*
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What do people mean when they say that they 'got on someone'? For example, 'I got on this guy at the party last night.' (link)
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This could mean alot of different things.
THe most Common meaning for i got on someone is they had sex with that person.
Hope this helps!
If you have any more questions,.
Please ask :)
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What should i do i am loosing my besssstttttt friend over other people ! HELLLLPPPPP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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May i ask for more information?
How are you losing them over otherpeople,.
Like in what way?
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what can be said to a friend that's husband just died? (link)
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Honestly,. There Is Nothing that you can say or do that will fix or make the situation any easier to go through. She/he will need alot of time to heal from this. Being there for your friend and supporting her is the best thing you can do. Some times it is best to just sit and be there for them. even if words are not exchanges.
But you do want to look for warning signs as well. Sometimes when their significant other passes due to what ever it may be,. they might become depressed, not eating or even contimplate suicide. Just watch for unusual signs or activity with your friend.
Hope this helps!
If you have any more questions,.
Please ask :)
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My ex (we broke up about 7 months ago) texted me to today for the first time in a looong time. He started with small talk, but then asked me if I would like to get coffee as friends sometime. I don't want to at all, because I'm completely done with that part of my life and he's not the kind of person I would like to spend time with. How do I tell him I don't want to get coffee without being rude? Is simply saying "I'm not comfortable with that" too harsh? He's an easily upset guy. (link)
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First of all,. I'm proud of you for openly admitting that You don't want anything to do with him. and have moved on.
You want to be completely open with him. By saying your not comfortable with that is not harsh but lets him know that you are far and over all that Jazz from months ago.
Goodluck.
Hope this helps!
If you have any more questions,.
Please ask :)
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I met my boyfriend my freshman year of highschool, he was a junior at the time. We have been together about a year, ive never been this close to a guy before, I even went as far as losing IT to him. But the thing is, Hes graduating this year and im moving away to another city for my last two years of highschool. I also dont feel very attracted to him anymore..something changed. I still care a lot about him I have a lot of great memories but...I dont feel the same and I wish I did. Any advice? PS. Im 15 and hes 19 (link)
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You need to be very aware that because of your HUGE Age difference.
*DEPENDING ON WHERE YOU LIVE!!*
There is a Law police Towards Statitary rape because you are under the age of 16.
I would make sure to check the age Restrictions in your area just to make sure he won't be charged or what not,.
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That being said. Because you two are of such a big age difference,. It might be that you two are just going in different directions in your life,. therefore are drifting away.
I Would openly talk to him about how you are feeling and see how he is feeling. The distance might just be a sign. Showing that you two are better friends then Boyfriend and girlfriend.
Hope this helps!
If you have any more questions,.
Please ask :)
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So if you haven't read my last post, I am dating a really nice guy. We've spoken on Facebook and we have mutual friends, but we barely knew each other until Saturday. I spent the whole day with him. I really am beginning to like him. He's very smart, funny, and quirky. I feel really happy around him. He told me he's liked me ever since he texted me from my friend's phone in December...and he said he likes me even more now since we spent the day together.
However, I sometimes feel like he doesn't like me as much as I like him. Like, I know it's early in our relationship, but I can't help but doubt. For instance, he and I barely talked yesterday. He was sweet in person, but through the computer he's rather quiet. He doesn't have a cell so it's difficult to talk unless we speak over yahoo messenger and Facebook. He goes to a different school, too.
I was supposed to meet him at the park an hour ago. I reminded him this morning and last night. He never replied. I think he's shady. He accepted my yahoo request this morning but didn't reply to any of my messages. This is bringing me down.
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Some people who are very talkative in person are the complete opposite threw screen to screen messaging,. From what he stated i think he does inface like you as much as you like him.
You must remember someguys aren't as forth coming as others are. and keep alot of their feelings to themselves.
As far as the not showing up at the park. Something might have come up as in friends in the hospital or something of the sorts so i wouldn't freet about it too much,. untill you talk to him and ask him what happen?
If it's a lame excuse like ops quess i forgot. then you should be mad as you DID remind him this morning.
Hope this helps!
If you have any more questions,.
Please ask :)
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