Kaylaa Is My Namee.I'm A Very Complicated Girl.i speak my mind whether it hurts you or not.i am who i am and i wont change for anyone.(: I Take Chances! I'll Smile no matter how im feeling.i never back down it shows weakness.(:I Tend To Have Dreams Higher Than I Can Reach But A Heart Ready To Achieve Them All..
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So...I was wondering.....well I'm 15 years old...and I have never had a boyfriend...to tel the truth I am waiting for the right one...but I always still want a boyfriend...thee problem with me though is that I am overweight....no lie....but I like myself...but why are men so attracted to woman who are really skinny or not plus size? Why am I so different? And why can't I find that right one yet? (link)
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guys at the younger ages go for looks and trying to have that "sexy" girl to impress his guy friends to.they dont understand that skinny pretty girls are not always pretty on the inside. girls like you usually have a wonderful personality but guys just wont go and find that out because its only looks to them at there age.dont give up your perfect the way you are and soon enough a guy will love you for who you are, never change for them.
-kayla
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So here's my question... im a girl and im 16, but for some reason i am very nervous about doing things with this guy i like in school. We always talk about doing stuff and having sex. I asked this question before and i got an answer saying watch some porn videos... well i did and im still nervous because they are pro. How do I boost my seflesteem so i can actually do what i say i want to do? And im not looking for an answer that says do what's conftorable or if youre not ready dont do it. Im not looking for those answers. I want to do stuff with him but im scared, how do i become unscared? (link)
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what is it your worried about? your body? not knowing what your doing? if its your body try doing it in the dark and doing easier stuff like casual. if its not knowing what your doing, to be honest not many people really do. its gonna be your first time make it fun.hes possibly just a nervous as you.its normal.
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My boyfriend and i have been together for about eight months. One of my friend chelsea decided to tell all the girls at lunch how much cuter her boyfriend is compared to my boyfriend. Chelsea and I are both seniors in highschool. When i found this out I was furious. My hands were shaking and i wanted so much to say something to her about that. The reason why this also made me so angry is because i'm the one that hooked her and her boyfriend up. I was friends with her boyfriend before. I don't know what to think about this. Am i doing the right thing by ignoring her? i plan to not talk to her and keep my distance because i don't need to have friends like her around. another detail about the story is that the same week she had been complaining to me about how some girl was making fun of her boyfriend. We were both talking about how wrong that was, but then she turns around and does the same thing to me. she told the whole group not to tell me what she had said about my boyfriend being ugly. (link)
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This is just high school drama. By reading this she is possibly jealous, or just wants more attention. ignoring her is the best thing to do, or just ignore her comment. 20 years from now looking back at what she said, would it really even be important?
to me however it would not. its a stupid comment there are way more important things to worry about in high school like your education. In high school you are building your life. how you react to things in high school, the education you get and so forth is whats gonna put you where you go in your future. Just ignore it, live life. its to short to worry about whos bf is cuter.
-kayla
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I need to loose weight really quick. I already do soo much physical activity so working out is totally not an option. I am a 13 year old girl. Is anorexia a bad idea? Bullemia? please help. (link)
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Are you working out long enough? 60 mins for a teen is what we all should do daily. if you are doing 60 mins a day try eating more protein. anorexia is a very bad idea. it can cause major health problems now and later on. if you drink alot of soda try cutting down on it and drink water, not to much water because it can cause you to become sick try drinking 8 glasses a day to keep the fat off.also staying away from everything that you eat that is white.( bread, popcorn, etc.) i dont fully understand why, thats what my doctor told me.hopefully this helped but remember your 13 you are still growing.
-kayla
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how do you get to a girls g-spot (link)
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a g-spot isn't just any location the real g-spot is located on the vaginal wall. on the inside is a tissue kinda rough and bummy like. of you were to stick a finger in as far as it will go then bend you finger as if you were telling someone to come over to you and slide your finger out you will feel the g-spot ( rough bummy area) causing the girl pleasure.
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I am 13(m)and my hair is really coarse/thick and curly. Right now I straighten it every morning and its just getting to be too much work. I have no idea what do with it, any suggestions? (link)
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there's really no other choice but to straighten it if that's how you like your hair, other words id say cut it off, short hairs cute too.
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What is a good bigger buttocks workout? Are there lots of ways to make your butt bigger or just a workout? How long does it take to make your bottom noticably larger? (link)
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tighten your butt muscles. do leg squats. and thats bound to help.
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why do people get charlie horses (link)
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it could be growing pain or it can be caused be eating to much salt or drinking to much caffeine closing the blood flow. however doing a long work out then sleeping or just sleeping at all having your legs bend for a long period of time will tighten your leg muscle and cause a knot in your leg causing it to ache. when you get them just stretch out your leg and the knot will ease away. -kayla
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i have an iregular period, i am not on birth control, but i get mine every three months for about 4 days. this month i started my period and it was all dark brown, seriuosly, it came out that way, it wasnt sitting on a pad, or in a tampon, it came out brown. i know that brown blood is just old blood, but i was woundering if it is bad if it comes out and emmideatly it is brown. i dont want any comments that say to change my pad more often, because that isnt the problem, but if you can help beyond that, it is very appreciated,
Crystal Rose (link)
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its normal. if you possibly started late its just older period blood.
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i got my ears pierced again on december 22, 2010. they're both right above my ear lobe piercing. i cleaned them everyday for 4 weeks after getting them and they seemed healed so i started to clean them maybe once a week. i change the earrings from small gold plated dimonds to silver ball studs covered in surgical steel from piercing pagoda. sometimes they bleed which i just attribute to sleeping on them and they get sore and what not. last night i was touching my right one and it was abnormally sore. i woke up this morning to clean them and i took the back off the right one and a big glob of puss came out. usually for both ears its a light yellowish color. today the puss from the right ear was a little bit darker but not much. im almost out of the ear care i got from pagoda so im starting to use Band-Aid brand hurt free antiseptic wash. it has the same ingredient as the ear care solution but also has Lidocain Hydrocloride in it. im wondering if my piercings are infected? the swelling is gone from my ear now and its just a little sore. the other one feels okay. if it is infected whats the best way to heal them without having to go to the doctor? (link)
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The Best way to help your ears is to take them out and let them heal up. after they are completely healed i would then go back and re-pierce them.
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I am a fifteen year old girl living in Hell. My parents fight constantly. Over the dumbest shit ever. I am smited and cursed at and beat because I can't do a lot of things the way my parents want because I have never learned. For instance, today, my stepdad strangled me because I walked away when he was telling me to go get something. My mom pulled me by my hair because I accidentally got the house wet with the hose when I was cleaning out the cat box. They treat me like shit. My mom tells me I'm ugly and she gets very angry because I am quiet and I am a little bit difficult at learning things. She complains that I can't do anything right. It makes me feel like I will never ever amount to anything at all. When I try to be what they want, I can't do it right. When I want to be who I am, they treat me like shit. They don't listen to what I have to say, they think I am a complete failure, and nothing I ever do is ever perfect for them. Somedays I just feel like killing myself, or running away, or even calling child services. My life is off and on happiness. I was happy and now I am getting depressed. They expect so much out of me when I don't know what they want. I need help. I don't know what to do anymore. They threaten me and my sister, and they abuse us when we don't say or do the right thing. We are sick of it. My sister is 9.
Anything will help us. I just need some guidance. (link)
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If your 15, i would go to your school counselor and talk with them. i know these situations are very hard, i have also been there.i use to be scared to tell anyone because i never wanted my parents to find out in fear of them possibly hitting me worse or me being put in a different home.all i could do was be strong.listen to them when they needed things even if i didn't want to do them, just to get by a day.if you try talking to someone, but you are scared, don't tell them all of it. make it seem urgent but nothing extremely bad so they have to take you out of the house and your sister, unless that is what you want. Try not to bring yourself down because someday you will realize you is all you have.being who you are is very important, but sometimes we really have no choice but to be who we have to be in order to get somewhere in life or get by just a simple day. Being strong and talking to someone is the best advice i can possibly give you. if you need anymore help just ask. -Kayla
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