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Member Since: March 19, 2011
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Last Update: March 19, 2011
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Okay... I am doing this for the very first time but nevertheless probably my last try at self help..this is 26 female.
I am the edge of insanity.. i am in a very troubled relationship.. married for 5 years now.. My husband doesn't earns a penny, doesn't allows me to go and fetch for myself, hes got a loan of 500000$, no child. hes constantly fighting, he rendered me homeless on 3 counts, but then took me back. right now m homeless again, living in motels of the money loaned from friends. I'm planning to divorce him, but he wont let me go. I have given him enough chances. but i am not sure what i should do next. suicide seems the most appropriate. PLZ help. ANYONE! (link)
First, are you in the US? Is your cultural backgroun. d American? It sounds as if there are legal or cultural reasons preventing you from just walking out. If you are in the US, you don't need his permission to a divorce. If not, can you get out of the area or, better yet, the country? Are you at risk if you leave him without a divorce? I don't argue with the other posters, I just am not sure they apply to your situation. If you can, please post back with more about where you live so we can help identify resources for you.


this site is typical right wing bunkum. people come to these sites for quick an relatively painless ways of committing suicide, not to be told "no, don't do it, u have so much to live for!!!!!!!!!!" Believe me, most of us have already thought through the alternatives, been to numerous councellors, tried antidepressants etc. these treatments just don't work for everyone. Just offer practical solutions for those who have made the moral right to choose to end their lives, or shut the hell up and stay off this forum!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
I agree with you, poster. I came for the same reason and was impelled to sign up because of the same bollocks. No-one asked them for their opinion and to assume anyone considers suicide lightly is insulting. A simple biological question deserves a simple biological answer.




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