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First timee for everything: Is it a bad idea for two virgins to be each other's first?
Well me and this guy plan to have sexx in the summer time and i trust him and all and he even says he loves me more than anything but we are both virgins i was just wondering is it good or bad to to have your first time with a virgin?
Because many of my friends tld me its a bad idea.
So can you help me out?
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You will both be fine. when my boyfriend and i both had sex for the first time together it was fine. we both knew what we wanted to achieve and it was achieved. Don't worry as u both need to be relaxed. don't over think the situation just go with the flow. oh and use protection! Have fun and good luck :)
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actually its better cause well you would feel a heck lot more confortable cause both of you are unexperienced (spelling check) but you also got to b carefull cause some guys are embarresed of being virgins and trick girls to have sex with then to get it over wiith
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Up until very recently, when people started slutting it up, just about everyone's first time was with a virgin, and they were also a virgin.
Anyone who did otherwise was labeled a loose individual. It is really sad that you are AFRAID of doing what has been completely normal for thousands of years.
The best thing to think about here is if you are really ready to have sex at all. If being with a virgin scares you, then you probably don't know enough about the way sex works to be having it just yet.
There is no rush. Remember: Sex never fixed a relationship, it only complicates things. So be sure you are in a relationship that can handle those complications. If you aren't, he will be gone, and you will probably feel dirty, since the sex ended the relationship.
Be smart. Think twice.
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Your friends are wrong. Whether your first time is good or not will depend more on the particular guy rather than the amount of experience he has. I think that the connection you have is more important. Probably the best sex I had was with my first girlfriend and we were both virgins. It didn't start out great, though, you have to work up to it. It might take a couple months or so. I was 17 and could go as long as she could stand it, and she would have multiple orgasms for hours. My advice is to have as much sex as you can while you are young. The only regrets I have are the opportunities that I missed. Anyway, if your guy isn't awesome at first, give him a little while. Just don't miss out on it!
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You probably shouldn't have sex with someone you call "this guy."
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Honestly you could get opinions saying yes and saying no,. it's all about personal preference. If you two love eachother then it shouldn't matter who has experience and who doesn't. Just because you have experience does not make you a better lover. If you love him and you feel you are ready than you should:)
Hope this helps.
~Jasmine*
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nope its not bad :)
i lost mine to my boyfriend who was also a virgin :)
It actually felt good to know that I was his first and he's my first. It lets me know that i'm the only girl he's ever thought about doing it with. :)
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I'd say do it. If you guys don't stay together forever (hell it's 2011, no one does), you can know for at least one part of your life, you were the best someone has ever had.
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Subject to individual opinions. You will get a hundred different points of view from this question.
The important part is not one's prior experience but one's readiness, trust in their partner above all. Even if one or both partner's are experienced it can still come off just as bad if both were non-experienced or just as good. In a way it might be better if both aren't as there's no unrealistic pressure.
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